Fifty Shades - an old desire that people are now acting on.

24 Sep 2015 - 11:29 | Tags: BDSM

The massive success of Fifty shades of Grey, hasn’t really surprise the majority of women.

So the majority of women lust after a dominate successful partner. Well it’s always been that way. They just learn to deal with it. Most the time women would tingle for that kind of man, but their head would rule out and a they would find themselves a good man who would treat them well and help them raise a family.
What is surprising about the Grey phenomenon is that more and more women are starting to act on it. Seeking out those previously forbidden pleasures.

What is more surprising though is a recent study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine reported that men have submissive fantasies in equal measure to women.
Unfortunately society doesn’t give men as much opportunity to act upon the urge. Men are expected to be strong and caring, to physically take a woman and give them multiple orgasms. Some women do craze the submissive man however it tends to be much less pronounced and look down upon.

The study also showed that those who have submissive fantasies are far more likely to entertain dominant ones too. As always the golden rule of having an amazing sex life is communication. Good old honest communication. If you know what turns someone on then you have the best chance of creating that. Here at f-buddy we pride ourselves on the point that we have completely open communication. People express what they want and can find people with complimentary desires. Be it dominant, submissive or switchy, we create an environment to explore your wildest fantasies.

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The main thing to bear in mind when using the site is don't be scared to ask. Meeting up with people in an adult manner is best if you have all the details out of the way to start with. But before even the conversation starts if you want to attract the right type of person put the details of what you are looking for in your profile. Now you may be worried that this might turn some people away but it is actually the complete opposite you will find more people will read your profile and the 5% who lshare you desire are going to be a lot more likely to contact you.

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