We’ve all had this conundrum at one time or another; the super hot friend you hang out with, perv at when you hope she’s not looking and mentally undress whenever you see her. But in your head you just can’t bring the courage forward to ask whether or not she’s interested. There are a number for reasons for this chief of which you’re friends! It’s really hard and potentially dangerous to cross from being a standard friend, to one who fuck’s a friend.
Oh you might have fuck buddies you regularly meet up with, but they’re very different to the hot friend you really want to get it on with as you already have a pre-existing relationship with your friend.
So how do you it? How do you go from being the friend who listens, to the friend she fucks and listens to?
Friends With Benefits
It’s hard to get over the downs of being single when virtually everyone around you seems to either be in love or physically in love. Worse still is when a friend you fancy actively talks about their fuck buddies in front of you. Oh sure, you’ve got yours too but deep down you’re hoping you can hook up with that one friend who you just can’t seem to shake out of your mind.
So here’s a few ways you can try to fuck your friend, whilst still remaining friends afterward.
Friends are out of bounds
Bullshit.
A friend is someone you trust and share your life with. A friend is someone you hang out with and have a laugh with. A friend is someone you can go and get drunk with and support each other home when you’ve had a few too many. So why can you and your friend not wish to support each other in another way when you feel the need?
Sex is a natural urge and if you and your friend already get on well, then you are already 50% attracted to each other. All you need to do is bridge the other 50% to get you into each other’s pants. And the best way to do this is to go out one night, have a few drinks and test the waters. Go dancing, get close, accidentally touch each other and then laugh and shy away a bit. Tease, smile and don’t be afraid to try and kiss your friend. If it goes tits up it doesn’t matter as you can say the next day that you were drunk and didn’t really know what you were doing (even if you did). If it does work, then get ready for some amazingly intimate sex with someone you already know and trust. The best bit about this is that there doesn’t have to be any pressure for it to be anymore then that. You can even agree ground rules before you do anything if you want, but the best sex friends just seem to happen, so try not to plan too far ahead. There are no rules of love or relationships to follow with a friend so that’s another added burden off.
And if things go further…well that’s up to you and your friend but do be aware that as always one person can always develop stronger feelings then the other. If that happens, talk to your friend about it so that you can both deal with it before it becomes a problem and stops you from being friends.
Have fun and happy fucking!
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