You may or may not have heard about the casual sex project. In brief it is an online portal for people to share their casual sex stories for people to read with no bias or judgement. Some of the stories are fascinating, others are sad and many are hilarious. However there was one common thread running through about 80-90% of all the stories posted. Hardly anyone was practising safe sex and there were many tales of unwanted pregnancies and STI contractions.
Why is this happening?
In addition to the lack of contraceptives and condoms being used, women and men were admitting to feelings of lust and spontaneity. It seems that many of us are allowing sexual attraction to override our better judgement.
How can we practise casual sex whilst being safe?
Pack condoms. It’s such a simple basic thing to do that I am surprised that so many people admit to not using them. Yes they’re not 100% effective but the chances of you contracting an STI or STD are greatly reduced. They provide protection against the HIV and Herpes Simplex viruses in addition to protecting against genital warts, Gonorrhea, Chlamydia and more. Condoms are 98% effective against unplanned pregnancy.
Can you retain that ‘heat of the moment’ feeling?
Of course you can. You should treat condoms like an everyday essential. Carry them around with you like you would your bank cards, wallet or mobile phone. That way if you suddenly find yourself in a situation where you’re about to have sex, you have them ready to use. People worry about losing that ‘spur of the moment’ feelings when it comes to using condoms. Many men and women cite them as being awkward to put on. However the truth of the matter is that if you know how to put a condom on it should only take you between 5 and 10 seconds to do. You can even have your partner do it for you for added stimulation and work it into your sex play.
How do you put a condom on?
1. Take the condom out of the packet being sure not to tear it with your fingernails
2. Don’t blow it up (yes there are stories of people doing this)
3. Squeeze the teat at the end to get rid of any excess air
4. Roll the condom down over the head of the penis until it fully encloses the penis to the base.
5. Have sex
6. As soon as you’ve come hold the base of the condom before withdrawing from your partner.
7. Wash your cock and start again!
It really is that simple.
Still not convinced?
We’re not here to tell you what to do but we do have a responsibility to encourage safe sex wherever possible. We want all our members to enjoy their fuck buddies. We don’t want to hear tales of STIs or STDs or unplanned pregnancies because one or both of you couldn’t be bothered to wear a condom. Also for those who claim that it reduces sensitivity I have this to say: Yes they can do, but there are makes available that retain or increase sensitivity. So please don’t be a prick, put a Johnnie on your dick!
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