I, and most of us here at F-Buddy love sex and love to find other fuck buddies that share our love. We find sex is a great way to express our primal passions and we love the chance to connect to someone sexually without a full relationship and the complications that come from that.
However we have found that while it can be very easy to keep things physical and simple at first with a new fuck buddy when everything seems easy and natural. But over time we do find that it can be a strain to keep things this way as time ticks on by. We here at F-Buddy have pondered this question quite a bit trying to understand why this happens and what if anything can be done about it. Or do we all just need to move on from a fuck buddy after a while if we do not want things to become serious?
I've identified a few key lessons that I've learnt over the years that should help you if you are dealing with the issue:
1. Were you both on the same page at first and are you still? This is hard because a lot of the time a fuck buddy might say something to make you happy when they actually feel another way deep down but are afraid to say. First look at yourself and work out truly where you stand with your feelings for the partner. Can you keep things just physical? If so that’s good but don’t be hard on yourself if you cannot because it is natural to grow feelings for someone over time and the worst thing to do for you or your fuck buddy is to hide those feelings away. It will be hard but sharing is always the best policy. Even if it is not the truth they want you will feel better than if you leave your feelings unexpressed.
2. If you do think you might have stronger feelings for this person you may consider moving things forward. This is something to think about carefully but if you are getting closer and what to spend more time with them they might feel the same way and you can continue your sexual adventures in a ‘normal’ relationship. Also keep in mind if you are both still very horny for other partners you might want to consider bringing other fuck buddies into your sex life. There are thousands of people that would love a threesome with a saucy f-buddy couple online right now!
3. Don’t blame yourself or your partner for having feelings. This is unavoidable and no one chooses to have them. So remember that if you do need to end things that everyone had the best intentions and the pain will pass. It is always better to feel and know your pain than to hide it and let it fester. Not to mention nothing kills your sex drive like guilt or hatred.
Sex is so amazing partly because it causes emotions in both partners so try to celebrate your feelings and not deny them, that will only make you feel worse. Always love yourself and respect you fuck buddy’s feelings and you can continue your sexual adventures for years to come.
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