In a very real sense, f-buddy is probably one of the most honest dating sites on the internet. We do what it says on the tin: provide a forum where people can meet and hook up for casual sex. However with casual sex there is often a minefield to navigate when it comes to not getting bogged down in the complications. It is very easy for a casual sex relationship to evolve into something more, and whilst this can sometimes be a great thing, more often then not it does lead to one party being hurt.
So as we head into 2014, here are some simple rules to help you keep the sex casual.
1. Good Morning? No. Good night!
Casual sex often has a high turnover rate, which is as it should be most of the time. If you’re looking to keep the sex purely casual then we would advise never letting a partner stay the night nor you sleeping over at theirs. You’re not there to roll over with a smile and say ‘Good morning would you like some breakfast?’ You’re both there to fuck plain and simple. Staying over merely makes the situation complicated.
2. No showers
Okay, we’re not saying you shouldn’t wash after you’ve had sex – although it’s perfectly acceptable not to – but you shouldn’t allow a partner full bathroom privileges after sex. Allowing a full shower and wash denotes a level of intimacy in the encounter that really has no place there. By all means allow your partner to clean whatever bits need cleaning, but a full shower? No. A bath? Definitely not. Once you’ve both had your fill of each other it’s time for a quick scrub if required and then go your separate ways. Sometimes a hotel encounter can alleviate this potential problem, so bear that in mind.
3. No food after hours
You’re not there to cook and smile lovingly at one another from across a candle lit dining table. You’re both there to satisfy a carnal desire. Do not waste time making a partner a nice meal because you’re not in a relationship! Sharing food together is one of the oldest social connections human beings make with one another. Sharing food after casual sex can lead to emotional complications that you don’t want.
Follow these rules as you enter the new year and you’ll find your fuck buddy meets up to be far more productive!
If you do start experiencing stronger feelings towards any partner you hook up with, then we strongly suggest communicating these feelings to your fuck buddy to avoid any unnecessary hurt or upset.
Happy fucking!
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