One of the wonderful things about sex, is the amount that you can vary it. You can have it fast or you can have it slow. You can have it soft and you can have it hard. Sex can be sensual and emotive, a joining of two people sharing something almost spiritual as they merge their two beings into one. Sex can also be a rough, hard mechanical thing, something that is done purely from lustful desire where one person takes the other, and they both orgasm in an explosion of base emotions that care little for their fuck buddy or the person that they have chosen to hook up with. Sex can be joyous and happy, it can also be angry and hateful… and even if it is the latter it can still bring pleasure and satisfaction with it. Sex is can manifest in so many ways, I would always encourage you, my friendly reader, to play around with it. Find the variation that you want, and if your current hook up doesn’t want to play, perhaps seek another fuck buddy that either wants to mix things up or that is so different that for you it is a big change, even if for them it is normal.
One of the easy things to play with is where you have sex. You can change the room you have it in, the building you are in, or even the country! Something that is easy to change is whether you are inside or outside. Have sex outside can be super fun. There are all sorts of exciting things that come with it, the fear or excitement of being caught or seen by someone else, the need to sneak around a little to make sure that you are not, the need to time it correctly. Many people have to scope out a place and put in a little planning, like in a spy movie, which can be really fun. Other times it is about being spontaneous and going with the moment, and not letting the fact that you are outside to get in the way of what you want… your fuck buddy.
A word of warning. If this is something you would like to do either because you have never done it before or because you really like it, I suggest you get a wriggle on. The temperature is dropping, and soon having a hook up outside is going to be much harder. The cold is a real mood killer, for the men things also tend to get a little smaller when it is cold.
So last chance to hook up outside people. Grab your fuck buddy and go for a walk, a walk with a happy ending.
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