There are many steps to having lots of sex, many things that any man must do if he wants to get laid a lot. No man is judged on just one aspect of his being. Like a good recipe, and man has many ingredients which come together to make him either attractive or unattractive to members of the opposite (or perhaps even the same) sex. Many of these we already know and we pay attention to.
The physical body
This is the most obvious. Are you good looking or not? Are you in good shape or not? Are you fit and healthy, or do you weigh in at 150kg and have type 2 diabetes? This is something that you can affect and change, so bear it in mind. You don’t have to be Brad Pitt, but it does help if there is nothing obviously wrong with you
Your finances
No matter how much people deny it, if you have good wealth you can buy nice cars, wear good clothes, and afford to wine and dine people into sleeping with you. You can also afford a nice place to take her back to – that always helps! This is not the be all and end all however, so don’t get too hung up about it.
Your confidence
This is a huge factor! If you are shy and timid, it is very hard to get anywhere with women! You may not even have the ability to talk to a woman – and that means you are never going to be able to sleep with one! It is really important to work on this aspect of your personality, to get it up to speed. The more confident you are in yourself and your belief system, the better you will be able to manifest your life into what you want it to be. The affects not just women, but where you live, how you live, what job you have, the friends that you surround yourself with. This is the big one boys, if you work on one aspect it is this.
Your intelligence
This is looked at, but for most people it is small. You don’t have to be smart to get laid, not if you have confidence which makes up for it.
Status / Power
Status and power are intrinsically attractive traits, and if you are a man with power you can be ugly as sin, rude, even an out right bad guy and you will get laid. Look at Donald Trump, the things he says about women and he still gets laid!
So that is the breakdown. If you have to pick one to work on, go confidence every time.
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