Say the word ‘foreplay’ to a room of heterosexual men and watch a lot of faces sag. For some reason foreplay is still considered ‘an optional starter’ on most guys sex menus. Yet foreplay can make the sex itself be even more spectacular then it would without the foreplay. If you really want to get a woman going and screaming for you to take her then it’s important you understand some of the key moves you should make before shagging her senseless.
1. Dirty Talk
This tops many polls amongst women over what they want a man to do before ripping off her clothes. The dirtier and more suggestive your words are, the wetter many women get. Don’t underestimate the power of your voice.
2. Don’t ignore the twins
Surprisingly (to me anyway) a lot of men give the breasts a slight once over before moving on to the bottom. Yet the breasts are where some of the most sensitive (read: erogenous dumbarses!) zones lie. Ignore them at your peril.
3. Easy does it
Some men seem to think that women always like it rough diving straight into their panties and clicking on the clit like it’s a god damned computer mouse! Newsflash hot shots: the easier you go, the wetter she gets.
4. Undress her
Taking off someone else’s clothes is still one of the sexiest things in the world for a reason. Undress her slowly for an even greater sexual encounter.
5. Not too much tongue
Your tongue is a precision instrument, not a club. Use it accordingly. This means not slobbering over her body like a Labrador. Use your tongue where needed, but don’t forget the power of your lips.
6. Take your time
Yes sex is exciting and you want it now now now! However the more time you take the greater your chances of getting her to orgasm. It’s more fun!
7. You have 2 hands
Don’t let either hand idle. If one is busy giving her privates a show, try using the other one to caress another part of her body. Not only does it drive her wild, but it also disproves the lazy stereotype that men can’t multitask.
8. Notice the underwear
If a woman is wearing lacy knickers and a matching bra, she hasn’t done it just because she feels like it. She’s done it so you can see it and enjoy it. Make sure you notice the effort she’s gone to. You might not see her wear that underwear again.
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