It can happen the first or second time you sleep with someone or it can happen after you’ve been sleeping with someone for months or years. Sometimes the sex you’re having suddenly goes bad.
Causes
If you’re in a committed relationship, the cause of bad sex can be anything from an argument to tiredness to cheating on your partner. When you’re in a casual relationship though the reasons can be even wider. Tiredness can be a key factor always so if you arrange a meet up with a fuck buddy but you’re too knackered to do anything then trust us when we say, the sex is most likely going to be pretty bad. Over familiarity is another cause. If you’ve been doing the same routines over and over again then it is no wonder that the sex will end up feeling like a chore rather than a pleasurable endeavour.
So what do you do when this happens?
Options
Find another partner
In a casual relationship the option to just find another fuck buddy is an easy one. If the sex with a fuck buddy is no longer enjoyable then you don’t have to try and make it better if you can’t be bothered. No one will criticise you if that’s the decision you make.
Find out what the problem might be
If you actually care about your fuck buddy beyond the sex, then it might be worthwhile trying to find out why the sex has gone south. Have they been ill? Are they seeing another fuck buddy but haven’t told you?
Whatever the reason, if you feel like you want to know, then by all means go for it and find out!
Try something different
If you’ve been locked into the same routines and the sex has gone a bit ‘meh’ but you still want to try harder, then try something new. Tie each other up, spank one another hard, fuck until you run out of energy, lick food off each other….whatever it is, make sure it’s something you haven’t tried before.
Refocus
An essential before considering everything else. If you’ve been having bad sex then taking some time to refocus on other aspects of your life will pay dividends when it comes to getting back in the sack.
Happy fucking!
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