Sex positive resolutions for summer

12 Jun 2016 - 23:31 | Tags: best times to have sex, new year resolutions

Resolutions aren’t always for New Year’s! Summer is the time of year when people often feel best about themselves, have more fun and are more positive. Maybe it’s the heat, the vitamin D, or going on that summer holiday that does it for you, but inevitably you’ll want to be your best self. Summer is also a great time for sex - you can fuck someone on your bed without shivering and trying to keep the duvet wrapped around you, you can have a hot holiday fling or hook-up with someone at a festival. Given that we are approaching this long-awaited season, it’s time for some ‘sex positive’ resolutions for summer that will spice up your sex life and make this summer the hottest one yet:

Try something new
This can be a crazy new sex position, or exploring an area of fetishism such as roleplay, bdsm or sex in public places. Maybe you’ve never used toys or food in the bedroom before - this summer’s for experimentation, so take a step out of your comfort zone and try something you’ve never done before. You might stumble across something orgasmic and never look back! 


Work on improving an aspect of your appearance
Get a gym membership to get ripped, get a slick new haircut or perhaps get your teeth whitened. Whatever you think will make you feel really good about yourself this summer - work on it, so then next time you’re sunbathing on a beach or strolling through London in the sun, you are ready to make heads turn. 


Get some decent summer threads

Girls often look best in summer wear - shorts and crop tops that show off curves and tanned skin, or flattering and sexy summer dresses. By contrast, men can so often get it wrong. Open a fashion blog or two and get some summer clothes that make you look more Calvin Klein than David Cameron. You’ll be pulling in no time.

Spend more time naked
Say you have the house to yourself for a bit - get your kit off. It’s warm, and it feels so liberating. Plus it will help you feel extra confident about your body, which can improve your performance in the bedroom. 


Have more sex
Ok, yeah, this is always a resolution. But make an extra effort for summer - it’s supposed to be the season of fun, anyway! Be reckless if you have to - be late for work once or twice in the name of sex, or throw caution to the winds and have sex at work. Just find a way to fit it in (literally!).

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