rules of sex
Do you have to like the person you are having sex with?
There is an assumption that we have ingrained into us when it comes to people that we are having sex with. We assume that the “right” and “correct” thing to do, is to like them. I would like to take and discuss this assumption in this article, where we will explore how necessary this actually is, and also cover some of the advantages of not particularly liking this month’s friend with benefits.
Whether we having sex with a long term hook up, a friend with benefit or just someone that we picked up that evening (or even daytime) there is an assumption that we “like” them. I need to...
Know that no means no for less fear in the bedroom
Sometimes when things are getting heated in the bedroom, feelings can get out of control. In many ways, a sign of how well things are going is when you get sexually out of control. The best orgasms happen when you really truly let go, when you and the person you are with allow your carnal desires to really come out, to be unleashed till all there remains is your body, their body, and an indefinable need to have each other in an extreme a way as possible.
One of the paradox’s with this is that to reach this stage of total wanting-longing-having-taking, you have to just give in to...
