wisdom & pitfalls of casual sex
Is it okay to fantasise about someone else when you’re having sex?
In relationships, fantasising about someone else whilst you’re having sex is often called ‘emotional cheating’. But is it? We all indulge in sexual fantasy as par for the course so it is it really that surprising that we often fantasise about people other than the person we’re actually having sex with at that point? I don’t think so and neither does respected sex therapist David Schnarch who interviewed for The Daily Beast a few years ago. Imagining yourself having sex with anyone other than your partner when masturbating for example is cited a normal healthy sexual behaviour. There...
Casual Sex: The Wisdom & The Pitfalls
We received quite a long email from a member of f-buddy recently that she gave permission for us to share on the site with you. The reason we wanted to share it is because it serves as a valid reminder as to the pros and cons of casual sex and when to continue or call it quits.
As such we’re now turning over the rest of this post to Clara, a 30 year old woman who works in the city. All names (including the author’s) in this story have been changed at the request of the author to protect and respect people’s right to privacy.
“Sex is one of those things that none of us...
