Dressing up is always fun, but dressing up for sex is doubly so. The stereotypical male fantasies of French maids and naughty nurse outfits are stereotypical for a reason: they still work wonders. As for male costumes, well we could wear a French maid outfit too of course (whatever floats your boat) but the sailor and strong man outfits still work well.
But getting the costume is only part of the challenge. How you use it can mean the difference between great sex or a lonely cab ride home.
How to use the costumes
1. Prepare properly
It’s no use just buying any old thing from the fancy dress shop. A little thought and effort has to go into the selection of the costume. You’re trying to make a sexy impression so it’s important that your costume screams “fuck me now”.
2. The right fit
That sexy geisha costume might look great in the photo, but if it doesn’t fit you’re going to have a problem. A crumpled ill fitting costume is a first class way to ensure you don’t get any sex whilst wearing it.
3. Think of a theme
If you want to increase the level of enjoyment think of a theme you want to explore and dress yourself as well as your surroundings up to that theme. So if you’re dressing up as a French maid, try making the surrounding look like that of a hotel. If you’re dressing up as a sexy Geisha, a Japanese theme in the house will help. The mood is all when it comes to dressing up.
4. Stay in character
So you’ve decided on your outfit and got things all set. You can’t just greet your fuck buddy as you do normally. You need to enter and stay within character. That means if you’re a sexy cop, you act like a sexy cop and dominate proceedings. If you’re a school girl, see if you can get your fuck buddy to teach you a lesson for being so naughty. Staying in character adds an extra level of excitement to the sex.
5. Keep the costumes on
It’s tempting to strip each other down when you just want to fuck, but keeping the costumes on can add a further level of sexual excitement. For example if you’re playing a naughty school girl, don’t wear any knickers. This enables your fuck buddy to have sex with you without taking off your outfit.
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