One of the deepest and least talked about fears amongst men; is my penis big enough? Ironically the number of articles that have appeared throughout the past ten years in men’s and women’s magazines talking about this subject beggars belief.
So does it actually matter? A little(excuse the pun), but nowhere near as much as you might think and interestingly the question cuts both ways as well.
Big Dick = Bigger Orgasm for a Woman Right?....Wrong.
Whilst it’s true that deeper penetration can provide a more satisfying feel for a woman, the average vagina is only about 4 inches deep naturally. It expands to accommodate anything that enters it. However as the G-Spot and most of the clitoral nerve endings are not located deep within, you don’t have to be packing a tanker to get a girl off. You just have to know what you’re doing.
Also a bigger dick can lead to bigger problems for a girl as sex can actually end up being quite painful for the girl and no fun for either party. What a girl wants is confidence in a man’s ability to use what he is packing effectively whether it’s an HGV, a Ford Mondeo or a Mini Cooper.
Small dick = Big Problem Right?...only if it’s a problem for you.
Confidence reigns supreme in sex.
The more confident both parties are, the better the sex is 9 times out of 10. If as a man you’re worried you have a little dick, then don’t forget that there are a wide array of positions and things you can do sexually to get a woman off. Having the woman ride you on top will enable deeper penetration irrespective of size. Doing it doggy style is also another way of ensuring deeper penetration if that’s what is bothering you. Just don’t forget that you also have two hands, 8 fingers, 2 thumbs and a tongue as your co pilots. The more you use them in foreplay and sex, the more likely you and your fuck buddy will have a better time.
And for women…
We said at the beginning this question cuts both ways. With women the primary concern always focuses around the breasts and in some cases the bum. Either they’re too big or too small. So does it matter?
This depends on what a guy is looking for. If he’s a tit man, then he is likely to be more turned on if you’re anything beyond a C-Cup. If he’s an arse man, then (prepare yourself) the bigger and perter the better. All men like a good amount of arse to grab but if you don’t have a lot, don’t worry – it’s not going to be a deal breaker for most guys. Some men prefer women with small breasts and a small arse. Some men prefer women with huge tits and a big arse. Some men go a bit in between. All men like a woman who knows what she wants and is totally confident in her ability (and his) to deliver in the bedroom.
Have fun!
Size, like anything, only matters if it matters to the individual. If as a girl you prefer a big dick, then go for it! If as a guy you prefer big tits, ditto. If however you’re like many people who aren’t too fussed (and we mean that in the nicest way) then explore different bodies and positions and see what happens.
You’ll be amazed at how much fun can be had and what you can learn about yourself.
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