How to use music when having sex

28 Nov 2019 - 22:14 | Tags: music and sex, better sex guide

In this article, I want to assume that you already have a fuck buddy. You have taken the steps to get one: you went online, made a profile, messaged a bunch of people, had a couple come back, met up with one or two of them in person and you ended the night by hooking up. It is all good in your book. You now have a fuck buddy (or two!) and you are having sex. All is well.

Now that you are having sex, you are starting to think about things you can do to improve the quality of the sex. You have done the basics, you have cleaned your place up and made sure that the bedroom is hygienically clean. Past that, what else can you do? There are a number of se toys and devices that can be purchased and used during sex. These can be a great asset to any session and really fun to use. I will cover these in a separate article all about sex toys at a later date. For today, I would like to talk about how you can use music when having sex.

With a fuck buddy, you do not have the usual strings and problems that are associated with a long-term relationship. You don’t have to meet all their friends, you don’t have to court their family, you certainly don’t need to spend long hours engaged with social events that you little to no interest in. A no strings attached relationship means exactly that, no strings attached! What some people make mistakes is where it comes to emotion.

It is true that with a fuck buddy you do not have to be “in love” or form long term emotional attachments to, but a lack of attachment does not mean a lack of emotion. There is emotion in everything that we do, and this is especially true of sex. The stronger the emotion, the more fully we will “feel” the experience of that sex.

Music can be used to boost that emotion. Certain songs, tunes and melodies are carefully crafted to spike an emotional reaction within us. Music, when played during sex, can enhance that emotion and cause us to have better more full sex! The music does not have to be lovey-dovey nonsense. It just has to be music that speaks to you in some way.

Next time your fuck buddy is popping over for a session, think about popping some music on. For best results, prep a playlist called “music to have sex by” and have it ready to do. You will find that the sex can instantly improve.

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