Making the most of sex during extended lock down

25 Jun 2021 - 00:25 | Tags: COVID-19 sex, Coronavirus and sex, better sex guide

Here in the UK we were all looking forward to the major lifting of restrictions. Soon we would all be able to once more go where we want, do what we want, have sex with who we want to without the strict regulations that were put in place due to the spread of the coronavirus pandemic. However, sadly for all of us, Boris Johnson extended the current rules and we are all not getting out of lockdown yet. It will happen, but we are all going to have to make the best of what we have. So with that in mind, if you already have a fuck buddy, how can you make the best of the sex that you are having right now, despite the restrictions that have been in place? Well here are my top tips to making the most of having sex with your fuck buddy in lock down.

Get yourself mentally in the right head space

Lock down and reduce contact with people for the last year has left us all in a different space. People are more depressed generally, more deflated, less motivated. So I urge you to get yourself in the right headspace where you are upbeat and want to have sex. Maybe that means putting on some music and dancing around, maybe that means watching a hot film or reading a steamy book, or maybe that means playing with yourself first. What ever you need to do, do it!

Build up with non-penetrative action

The nice thing about having a fuck buddy is that you both know where you are going with it. You are both going to have sex, you both want to have sex… and this can mean that you get to it too quickly. The sex is always going to be better with a build up, so make a decision to have some non-penetrative fun first. Kiss, stroke, fondle… what ever you want to do, go ahead and do it. When you get to the sex, it will be better for it.

Go for the grind, not just in and out

Yes having sex is a lot of in and out, but once you are in, consider grinding more. It is a simple thing, but more grinding is more stimulation for the woman. It is also great for the man, extends the sex and means the end is more explosive.

I hope these tips help you make the most of your time whilst things are still opening up.

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