F-Buddy Blog

The massive success of Fifty shades of Grey, hasn’t really surprise the majority of women....

Exciting news, the term “Fuck Buddy” is currently in the official Oxford English Dictionary. It has been recognised by slang dictionaries early on, but the inclusion of the term as an officially recognised part of the language plays an important role in how we think as the British nation about sex as a whole. Allow me to expand on this a little....

It’s a bit like a revolving subject this one, but the reason we and so many other blogs keep talking about it is because people (guys mostly I’m afraid) don’t seem to know what to say on their first message. Many people seem to think that the best way to grab a potential f-buddy’s attention is to talk about their penis or be unable to say anything other than ‘Hi Babe’. If you haven’t already figur...

Opening lines are always hard to come up with. You see someone you like the look of from across the bar, you pluck up the courage to go up and say hello, and for reasons unknown your mouth goes dry, your throat seizes up and you just stand there gurgling awkwardly. Worse; you say something really stupid or insane that makes the person look at you oddly and walk away. Theoretically speaking it shou...

Sexual fantasies differ from men to women. Some people like the idea of doing it in a toilet. Others fantasise about having sex with their friend’s hot mum. Patterns can be found amongst the fantasies with men and women both having a lot of fantasies in common. Sexual fantasies have received a lot of negative press in the past few years, but this is because a lot of the mainstream media believe th...

Now that the mercury has climbed the peaks and hit the +30 degree mark, it’s time to start thinking about all the ways you can enjoy your sex life this summer. You only have to walk down the streets in the south of England at the moment to see that people are wearing less and smiling more. And what’s not to smile about? With skin on display and hormones revving, summer is one of the best times of ...

There’s no manual given to you when you first have sex. If you’re lucky, you might get a bit of sex education at school. That’s all well and good, but no one who teaches sex education ever teaches how to get good at sex. Oral sex is an especially important topic because most of us most of the time are guessing at how to do it. Even people who reckon they’re seasoned oral sex pros and claim to be a...

There are many things we are sure of in life. We need to eat. We need to sleep. We need to exercise. We need to play. We need to have sex. For humans sex is a biological imperative. The less sex we have, the less healthy we become. You only have to look at the Roman Catholic scandals from the past 5 years alone to realise that enforced abstinence is not healthy for a large majority of the priestho...

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Sex for guys is relatively straightforward: we see a woman we fancy and we want to shag her. It sounds primeval and caveman like, and it is. Yet you might be surprised to know that women can be almost as primeval and cavewoman like about sex as men are. Following several surveys that were conducted by numerous publications including Cosmopolitan, Ask Men and many more, it turns out that what women...

The first thing that comes to mind when anyone talks about feminism is “ugly, angry, unattractive women”. Other stereotypes include ‘loud’, ‘screechy’, and ‘deeply unhappy’. Like all stereotypes there is always a small element of truth in it, but it is only a very small element. Having met and slept with many feminists I can safely say that’s a load of absolute rubbish....

For some reason everyone is always embarrassed to talk about this aspect of sexual health. Masturbation is almost always good for your sex life. Men and women have been doing it for centuries. It’s only recently that the subject has become a bit less awkward to talk about, but even now it seems that many avert their gaze. Fact: Masturbation is normal, masturbation can be healthy, and masturbation ...