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Why Vanilla Sex Works
"I wish [BDSM folks] would stop referring to me as 'vanilla.' If you're making the case that everyone should be free to do what they like without being judged, why call non-BDSM people a derogatory name that implies they're all prudish bores?" – Anonymous, commenter on Bitch.
You read a lot online and off about vanilla sex vs kinky sex. It seems to me that if you’re not that interested in the more heavy kinky stuff, you get judged for either being a prude or just inexperienced. As you can see from the comment above, I’m not alone in my theory. I’m here to tell you that...
Top 5 Mistakes People Make on the 1st Message
It’s a bit like a revolving subject this one, but the reason we and so many other blogs keep talking about it is because people (guys mostly I’m afraid) don’t seem to know what to say on their first message. Many people seem to think that the best way to grab a potential f-buddy’s attention is to talk about their penis or be unable to say anything other than ‘Hi Babe’. If you haven’t already figured it out, messages like these just go straight in the bin. Below we run through the top 5 mistakes people (mostly guys - sorry guys but its true!) make when sending their first message.
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Top 10 Places to Have Sex Around the World
You don’t have to an expert in the Kama sutra to enjoy a rich and varied sex life. Location can be just as important as position when it comes to having sex. And everyone is always looking to fuck in new places. Here are some of the top places we recommend you should have sex in – and the best bit is, you don’t have to a jet setting millionaire in order to try them out!
1. An Empty House
Preferably this works best if it’s your house. If not any old empty house will do. In fact it might even add to the thrill of having sex in a place that’s not technically yours.
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How to write a killer opening message
Opening lines are always hard to come up with. You see someone you like the look of from across the bar, you pluck up the courage to go up and say hello, and for reasons unknown your mouth goes dry, your throat seizes up and you just stand there gurgling awkwardly. Worse; you say something really stupid or insane that makes the person look at you oddly and walk away. Theoretically speaking it should be easier to come up with a really good opening line online! After all you have more time to think about what you’re going to say to a prospective f-buddy. Yet a lot of our users...
How easy is it to hook up online?
With the number of online dating sites now available, it really has become a ‘consumer’s choice’ market. All the power now is with you. Or is it? At last count there are just over 91 million people across the world using online dating apps and services. There are now over a thousand different online dating sites and that figure is set to rise even further in 2016. In theory it should be easier than ever before to find someone to date, hook up with or pursue a serious relationship with. The reality sadly (and we are genuinely sad to admit this!) is quite different.
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Sexy Summer Tips
Now that the mercury has climbed the peaks and hit the +30 degree mark, it’s time to start thinking about all the ways you can enjoy your sex life this summer. You only have to walk down the streets in the south of England at the moment to see that people are wearing less and smiling more. And what’s not to smile about? With skin on display and hormones revving, summer is one of the best times of the year to enjoy casual sex with new people and old partners. With this in mind we’ve prepared a few guidance tips to get your mind in the mood and your chances a boost.
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Is it okay to fantasise about someone else when you’re having sex?
In relationships, fantasising about someone else whilst you’re having sex is often called ‘emotional cheating’. But is it? We all indulge in sexual fantasy as par for the course so it is it really that surprising that we often fantasise about people other than the person we’re actually having sex with at that point? I don’t think so and neither does respected sex therapist David Schnarch who interviewed for The Daily Beast a few years ago. Imagining yourself having sex with anyone other than your partner when masturbating for example is cited a normal healthy sexual behaviour. There...
7 Reasons To Have Casual Sex Before You Die
There are many things we are sure of in life. We need to eat. We need to sleep. We need to exercise. We need to play. We need to have sex. For humans sex is a biological imperative. The less sex we have, the less healthy we become. You only have to look at the Roman Catholic scandals from the past 5 years alone to realise that enforced abstinence is not healthy for a large majority of the priesthood.
So here are 5 simple reasons everyone should at experience casual sex at least once before they kick the bucket.
1. Valar Morghulis (All Men Must Die)...
Which Country Has the Highest Libido?
To be honest this had never even occurred to me before as a blog post. It was only because someone asked me when I was having a drink at my local pub that I started to ponder the answer. Surely it has to be one of the South American Latino countries right? In many areas of Brazil and Argentina the women wear virtually nothing, and every bloke looks like he should be on the cover of GQ. They must be at it like rabbits all the time! Well it turns out I and many others like me were wrong. Whilst there are sites that rank Brazil and Portugal as the top 2 countries for the highest libido...
Sex & Alcohol this Spring
Whether you want to believe it or not; alcohol does affect your libido in both positive and negative ways. As booze culture has become so negatively associated with young singeltons in the UK, we thought it might be worth exploring the ups and downs of how drinking will affect your dating and sex life. Pay attention people as it’s time to find out just what a bottle of wine or ten pints of beer can do to your libido.
1. Dutch Courage
An old cliché for a reason; it’s true. We don’t encourage you to drink in order to get up the courage to ask someone out,...
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