different types of casual sex
The different flavours of sex
One of the best things about sex is that it comes in all sorts of shapes, sizes and flavours. There is quick sex, there is slow sex. There is that first time sex with a new person. The sex itself isn’t technically great (it never is the first time) but there is all that excitement and the adrenaline rush from it being the first time with a new person. On the other side of the scale, there is that really comfortable sex with someone that you have slept with multiple times before over a long period of time. What it lacks in new excitement can be easily made up for in refined technique and...
The different colours of sex
Sex comes in many different forms, shapes and colours. I’d like to talk about some of my favourite ways of varying it, and perhaps help you have a few ideas of your own about how you can mix up your sex life and make it more exciting. A change is as good as a rest they say, and certainly changing things up with sex is a great way to keep things fresh and exciting. So whether you have a long term fuck buddy that you are sleeping with and are looking to mix it up a little, or you are looking for a fresh squeeze, here are a few things to think about.
In terms of physical sex there are...
How to Learn Oral Sex
There’s no manual given to you when you first have sex. If you’re lucky, you might get a bit of sex education at school. That’s all well and good, but no one who teaches sex education ever teaches how to get good at sex. Oral sex is an especially important topic because most of us most of the time are guessing at how to do it. Even people who reckon they’re seasoned oral sex pros and claim to be able to give the best blow job or make a woman come in less than a minute just by going down on her…even they are not the experts they believe they are in their heads.
Porn stars make...
What Women Want in Bed
Sex for guys is relatively straightforward: we see a woman we fancy and we want to shag her. It sounds primeval and caveman like, and it is. Yet you might be surprised to know that women can be almost as primeval and cavewoman like about sex as men are. Following several surveys that were conducted by numerous publications including Cosmopolitan, Ask Men and many more, it turns out that what women want in bed actually fulfils a lot of male desires and fantasies. This makes sense when you think about it as otherwise men and women would have stopped having sex for fun a long long time...
The Many Different Types of Casual Sex
Many people have many different ways of talking about casual sex and fuck buddies, but listening to everyone in the pub recently made me realise just how many different types of casual sex there actually are.
It’s worthwhile knowing what types of sex it is possible to have emotionally and physically to help you identify and hopefully meet the right fuck buddy for you.
1. Rec Sex
If you’re having sex outside of a committed relationship and it comes from a wholly positive place between two (or more) consenting adults, then you’re having rec sex. This is...
