So you have a fuck buddy and everything is great. You are having a really time with her/him, you think they are hot, they think you are hot, you have brilliant sex together, all in well in the world. You have gotten past the first fuck stage (the first time is never great – too many nerves and being unsure of the other persons lines and positions etc etc) and you are into the have great sex section. You have started to mix up the sex positions, you haven’t only done missionary, you have found a real love of doggy style, or the reverse cowgirl or another position that just seems to work really well for the two of you. Things are going brilliantly... but you still would like to hot things up in the bedroom a little more. Well I have a really nice solution for you... candles.
Candles are brilliant for all sorts of reasons. Their affect on sex is largely underrated, and there it is about more than just lighting – thought that is important and makes a really big difference. Allow me to take you through their uses.
Everyone looks better in mood lighting
How the other person looks makes a big difference to how turned on you get – and the same is true for them. The better that you look the more turned on they get. Candles are brilliant for this. They give off a natural soft mood lighting that makes everyone look sexier! Lines, wrinkles, even large amounts of fat deposits all vanish under the warming soft glow of a candle. So go light a candle.
They heat the room ready for being naked
The cold can be a real mood killer. If you undress and get cold you immediately regret getting rid of your warming jumper. Being cold can really kill the libido, it is easier to come when comfortable and relaxed, and being cold brings tension into the body. Candles give off heat, and if you have a number of them lit, they can really heat the room up to a high temperature.... making the room a perfect place to get yoru kit off and get down and dirty!
They show preparation and effort – without having to make an effort
How hard is it to put some candles and light them? It is piss easy is what it is. Yet it still tells the other person that you have made an effort! It is a huge EASY win!
They are cheap
Night lights are super cheap – they cost bugger all. Pick some up from Ikea and you are ready to go!
So get some candles going in your bedroom and get that heat turned up for a fucking good night. Literally.
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