Sexy Summer Tips

EdBennett — Wed, 01 Jul 2015 07:35:29 +0000

1 Jul 2015 - 08:35 | Tags: summer sex tips, casual sex, threesomes, fetish, dressing up, swimwear

Now that the mercury has climbed the peaks and hit the +30 degree mark, it’s time to start thinking about all the ways you can enjoy your sex life this summer. You only have to walk down the streets in the south of England at the moment to see that people are wearing less and smiling more. And what’s not to smile about? With skin on display and hormones revving, summer is one of the best times of the year to enjoy casual sex with new people and old partners. With this in mind we’ve prepared a few guidance tips to get your mind in the mood and your chances a boost.

1. Smile when you’re out
It sounds simple, but you only have to take a look around on the bus or the train to see how little people seem to smile. But we should! Okay, so the train or the bus might be hot, but a smile can go a long way to showing someone that not all is lost. It’s also a great way to let someone you fancy know you that you’ve noticed them. As long as you don’t come off all creepy you should be in a prime position to make the most of an ingratiating smile this summer.

2. Take a chance
They say summer lowers the inhibitions. I don’t know if that’s true or not, but it certainly can make you feel more relaxed and friendly. Why not take a chance and message that person you’ve been too afraid to try talking to? What’s the worst that can happen? They don’t reply. And if that’s the worst that can happen than you’ve lost nothing. Hoorah!

3. Socialise more
Summer leaves you no excuse not to socialise. Now is not the season for staying in and watching DVDs. Summer is the season to get out there and greet the world and have some fun. You’re more likely to hook up with someone if you socialise more. It’s simple mathematics people.

4. Go swimming
Okay you know how girls and guys claim that a swimming pool is not the place to check people out? Do you also know that everyone lies? Of course a swimming pool is often where people check one another out. Why else do you think men and women wear such revealing costumes?

5. Stay out a bit later
Summer allows us more chances to stay up and out a little later than usual. Not only is it warmer, it’s lighter too and people don’t want to go to sleep right away. Why miss the chance of a casual encounter by going home early?

Three In The Bed

jeni — Sat, 20 Jul 2013 08:00:00 +0000

20 Jul 2013 - 09:00 | Tags: threesomes

Threesomes.

A recent article that appeared in Marie Clare concluded that virtually all of the world’s population have thought about having a threesome at some point in their lives. The majority of these fantasies are never acted upon complete with the requisite excuses; “Oh it’s just a pipe dream!” or “Yeah I’ve joked with my friends about it but we’ve never taken it seriously.”

Move over to the sexually liberated front (us) and you find that threesomes are fairly common place and usually acted upon.

But are there any rules you should consider before engaging in a threesome?

Guy Guy Girl or Girl Girl Guy?
Before you begin your search for a fuck buddy interested in having a threesome it’s worth asking yourself whether you want it to be two women and one man or two men and one woman?

Sounds simple, but the number of people who have had unsatisfying sex in a threesome because they weren’t vocal enough about what they preferred at the start is staggering. Be honest with yourself and your partners before you start tearing each other’s clothes off.

Don’t Have A Threesome With Someone Who Really Likes you
We need to explain this in more detail.

Having a threesome with two friends - be they boyfriend/girlfriend/fuck buddy…whatever – is fine as long as you’re certain that one person isn’t secretly crushing on someone else in the group. If you have one girl who really likes a guy in the threesome or one guy who really likes one of the girls in the threesome, then it can lead to very awkward and painful situations.

Friends can stop talking to one another and lose touch, couples break up, marriages split…it can get messy. Be sure before you approach a friend for a threesome that you’re not going to spoil a relationship you already have.

Finding a Fuck Buddy For A Threesome
Of course on this site, it becomes a lot less complicated looking for people eager to indulge in a threesome. There is less chance of someone getting hurt especially if you don’t previously know them.

But there are still risks.

Play Safe
Always play it safe with new partners especially in a threesome. You don’t know their sexual history and the last thing you want is to catch an STI or STD.

Be Fair To All Parties
Don’t be selfish and hog one partner all to yourself whilst the other is left hanging about feeling like a third wheel. One of the worst stories we ever heard was from a guy who had a threesome with two girls. At one point the girls got so caught up with each other that he went to make himself a cup of tea and a sandwich in the kitchen.

Communicate Any Concerns At The Start
If there are certain things you don’t feel comfortable about sexually, mentally or physically…don’t bottle them up. Share your concerns with your partners and make sure they understand how far you can all go.

And the little one said…
After it’s all over, hopefully you’ll have just experienced something amazing. But we recommend not just rolling over and going to sleep. Having a threesome can be equally thrilling and a mind fuck at the same time. Take the time to enjoy each other’s company afterward and if you feel like it…going at it again.

Enjoy!

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Sexy Summer Tips

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