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The different flavours of sex

EdBennett — Mon, 22 Jul 2019 19:52:27 +0000

22 Jul 2019 - 20:52 | Tags: different types of casual sex, how important are different sex positions, sex is awesome

One of the best things about sex is that it comes in all sorts of shapes, sizes and flavours. There is quick sex, there is slow sex. There is that first time sex with a new person. The sex itself isn’t technically great (it never is the first time) but there is all that excitement and the adrenaline rush from it being the first time with a new person. On the other side of the scale, there is that really comfortable sex with someone that you have slept with multiple times before over a long period of time. What it lacks in new excitement can be easily made up for in refined technique and understanding of the other person's body.

With so many different flavours, in this article, I would like to talk about some of my to types of sex.

Brand new sex

Brand new sex harks back to all that newness that comes when you sleep with someone for the first time. Your first time was never going to be technically “good” because there is all the stress of it. You are up in your own head, and the best sex is had when you are in your body not in your head. There is something wonderful about it though, something a little crazy, a little scary, this is about living on the edge. With a fuck buddy this can often occur the first time you have sex. This si especially true the more you fancy your fuck buddy. If you really want them and it has been a hard seduction that still could go wrong, that tends to bring this flavour to the table. It is a wonderful flavour!

Comfortable sex

This is a much-maligned type of sex. Many people, when they reach this stage, tend to start looking for a new fuck buddy rather than sticking with the friends with benefits partner that they have at that time. I think this is a shame. Really good comfortable sex only comes when you have been with someone for a while. It is like an aged fine wine, tempered over time. There is no stress, no worries, you both know what is happening and where you are going with it all. It doesn’t have the same bang, it is a completely different type of pleasure. IF you have had a fuck buddy for a while, stick with it and push it through to this stage. You will find it is great sex for entirely new reasons.

Spontaneous sex

I think this is my personal favourite. This is when it feels unplanned, it feels in the moment. The first time you hook up with someone from a bar, pub or club it is likely spontaneous sex. There are no expectations because there is no investment on both sides o the table. You can just go with it and see what happens. You can also have spontaneous sex with a fuck buddy that you are sleeping with regularly. It is just about it being unplanned and in the moment. So next time you feel like having sex with them and it is a really bad time, do it anyway!

There are my top three sex flavours. If you haven’t tried them, I highly recommend you grab a fuck buddy and give them a go.

The different colours of sex

EdBennett — Thu, 28 Dec 2017 20:09:29 +0000

28 Dec 2017 - 20:09 | Tags: sex is awesome, different types of casual sex, how important are different sex positions

Sex comes in many different forms, shapes and colours. I’d like to talk about some of my favourite ways of varying it, and perhaps help you have a few ideas of your own about how you can mix up your sex life and make it more exciting. A change is as good as a rest they say, and certainly changing things up with sex is a great way to keep things fresh and exciting. So whether you have a long term fuck buddy that you are sleeping with and are looking to mix it up a little, or you are looking for a fresh squeeze, here are a few things to think about.

In terms of physical sex there are a near unlimited number of positions, all of which offer a wonderful variation of orgasmic results. Whether it is doggy style, old fashioned missionary, or reverse cowgirl, there is something for everyone and always room to mix it up and keep it real.

There is also different times of day to have sex. Evening sex is the best, you can take your time, there is no deadline, and you can cuddle up and sleep together afterwards. Morning sex however has its own advantages by a long shot! Whether you have a busy day at work, or it is a lazy Sunday and you have no urgent tasks to attend to that morning, there is nothing like starting your day with some sex. My pro tip: get someone to wake you up by having them give you a blow job / going down on you. Literally waking up to an orgasm is a memorable experience!

Surprise daytime sex is a rare treat! Our lives mean that our daytimes are usually filled with work and toil… to have a chance to mix that up with some sex is especially exciting as it is such a contrast to our usual daytime activities.

Different moods can make a big difference. We have all had sex when we are happy, feeling loved up, or really on top of the world. We have also had sex when we are really horny – that is a real treat when it happens. However, the choice of colours does not end there. Have you ever had sex when you are upset, or angry, or frustrated? The drive of emotion can make for an extremely powerful experience.

How to make her scream: part 5

EdBennett — Thu, 28 Sep 2017 17:52:12 +0000

28 Sep 2017 - 18:52 | Tags: how to make her scream in bed, how important are different sex positions, girl on top

Welcome to the fuck buddy website. Here we want to not only help you find a great hook up, but we also want to make sure that you and your new found fuck buddy have the greatest time in bed that you can possibly have! In order to have the best sex you can have, the person you are with also needs to be having a fucking great time. This is why we started to put together the ultimate guide to how to make her scream. If you are new to this series, you can start back at part one here.

Physical: The power of the V

There are certain tips and sex tips that can make sex better with very little effort required on your part. This is one of them. So once you have your (female) fuck buddy around and ready for sex, if she is going on top, then this is a great addition to what is already going to be a really great sex session (aren’t they always when she is on top?).

Give her the “V”. Now I am not talking about swearing at her or making obscene gestures! Place your fingers into a V position, then put the sharp part of the V right where her clitoris is. So the area closest to your knuckles goes right over her clitoris, your fingers should now be framing your penis on either side.
This manouvour will do so many things without you having to do anything else. It will stimulate the clitoris that it is directly over, but it will also hit up the inner labia and as a bonus the urethra. It will also increase the levels of stimulation for the man as well, so this works for both of you. Try it next time you have sex, I assure you, you will love it.

Mental: Send her a snail mail letter

With the instant ability to read and respond that digital communication has provided, we have lost the art of a letter… but there can be something very powerful about a letter. Hand write her one, telling her everything that you want to do to her. The thing about a letter is that she cannot immediately respond to it, which means the words will sit in her head. The thoughts will stay with her unresponded to, building tension subtly till she finally see’s you and has an opportunity to allow to explode in person. Simple.

We hope you are enjoying these articles, if you need a friend with benefits to test this on, feel free to pick from our waiting and willing pool of ladies!

Good sex? It's all about positioning...

jeni — Tue, 25 Jun 2013 08:22:52 +0000

25 Jun 2013 - 09:22 | Tags: how important are different sex positions, sex positions

How important are different sex positions? Short answer: Pretty damn important!

Seriously though; women and men derive more sexual pleasure from certain sexual positions. That’s the great thing about human beings: we’re all different. So if you’re worried about impressing your new fuck buddy or you simply want to step things up a bit with a current one, then we’ve put together a short guide to some positions that will help him control his ejaculation and her find her orgasm.

Women: Best Standard Position to increase confidence
Three words: You. On. Top.

Maybe you feel insecure in the sack, or maybe you’ve just never taken the time to try something different. Whatever the reason try straddling your guy from on top. This gives you much more control over the sex putting you in the power position. He’s your toy now, for you to play with as hard or as gently as you like. Don’t be afraid to alternate speed and penetration (if the guy has a small penis then gyrating can be more effective in hitting your G-Spot then moving up and down as he’s less likely to slip out), and don’t be afraid to turn around and ride him with your back to him. If he likes your arse this will get him even more hot and horny. Finally if you want to amp it up even further, try restraining his hands with rope or handcuffs.

Men: Best Standard Position to hit the woman’s G-Spot
Maybe you’re worried you come too quickly. Maybe you’re worried your penis is too small, too big, too funny looking. Maybe you’re worried about your physical defects.

Stop worrying as there’s a sure fire way to alleviate any of those worries by hitting the woman’s G-spot. Women have far more nerve endings to hit during sex then men do and you can have a hell of a lot of fun experimenting and finding each and every one of them. If you want to try and hit the woman’s G-Spot during sex then there is a variation of the missionary position you can try. Slide your shoulders forward over hers using your pelvic areas to grind instead of thrust. This has been well researched to reveal that this technique stimulates the woman’s clitoris far more effectively then the standard missionary does. Basically your penis is penetrating whilst your pelvis is massaging the top of the vaginal wall providing additional stimulation for the woman. She is more likely to orgasm during sex as a result.

Longer lasting Sex
As a guy if you’re having trouble going the distance before coming, try alternating technique and position. The missionary position allows you more control to withdraw if you feel like you’re about to ejaculate, but doing it doggy style will also allow you to control as well. Better yet you can alternate positions once every few minutes. This can not only serve to increase your control as you can break for a few seconds before starting again, but it can also drive the woman to a frenzy of excitement – you’re basically winding her up more and more by fucking her then stopping to change and then starting again. The downside is that she might beg you not to stop when you’re doing it in one position even though you want to in order to prevent you coming too soon. Tease her as far as you think you can get away with and then screw her hard and fast when she’s literally begging you to. By the time she’s at this level, it really doesn’t matter if you come as she’s going to be pretty close too.

Legs above shoulders
As a woman placing your legs above your shoulders allows for deeper penetration by the guy. This does 2 things:
1. Provides the guy more control over his ejaculation
2. Allows for longer deeper thrusts that provide increased stimulation on the vaginal wall and heightened sexual sensitivity

Against the wall
If you’re a guy and feeling energetic, pick your girl up and let her ride you whilst you’re standing. For extra support do it against a wall which will take some of the weight off you but still provide both of you with a heightened sense of excitement.

Guys: Best position if you’re well endowed
Got a big dick? Congratulations! But just like big tits, having a big dick can cause its own problems during sex. Some women can find a big dick too painful during penetration as it often hits the cervix. So if you’re having this problem, try this:

If you’re the guy, lie on your side and have the woman lie perpendicular (at a right angle) to you with her legs parted. Now when you penetrate her, if she finds it becoming too deep or painful she can control your thrusts by holding the base of your shaft. This way she can decide how much or little of you she wants inside of her at any one point. It also serves to titillate the penis and can make the sex even more heightened.

Mix it up!
The Catherine Wheel, The Butterfly, The Splitting Bamboo…the best thing about trying new positions is that there are no rules. You can decide how far you and your fuck buddy want to take it by playing about and experimenting. Your ideal position with one partner might be totally different with another. The only way you’re going to find out is by trying them all.

And if you’re looking for more inspiration, grab yourself a copy of the Kama Sutra. There’s a reason it’s still in print and has been around for centuries.