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Top texts to send to your fuck buddy the day after

EdBennett — Sun, 30 Oct 2022 23:19:41 +0000

30 Oct 2022 - 23:19 | Tags: when to text after sex, texting, dirty texting

Finding a fuck buddy can take a lot of effort. It can be a real chore sometimes, but when you find one all that effort is worth it. There are many staple things in life that will make you happy. Good food is a real pleaser, being warm (pretty basic) but that is a really happiness giver. Having sex with someone for the first time is also a real kicker! That being said, whilst the first time there are a lot of things to do with the newness and novelty that make it really good, when it comes to having really deep pleasure it takes time to get to know each other. You really do need to learn to play each other, in some ways it is like learning to play an instrument. The more you practice, the better you get. Just like learning music, whilst learning the notes stays the same across everything, each piece (or person) comes with their own nuances. So getting to hook up with the same person a second time is always good.

So you have a great time, you want to hook up with that person again… what do you text them the next day in order to make that happen? Well if you are having trouble coming up with what to send, here are some top suggestions of what you can text to maximise your chances of hitting that up again.

“Last night was hot, hot, HOT (even if I do say so myself)!”

So this is a compliment that is then rounded off with turning it to yourself. You want to compliment, but by jokingly taking credit keeps it playful and bleeds out any neediness (which is a real sex killer). This is solid one to use.

“Care for round two?”

I love the directness of this one. You are straight in there. This says that you had fun, you liked them and you are up for it again. It also oozes confidence to the maximum. Only really confident people would go this direct. It remains a little jokey due to the “round to” reference to a fight.

“The first time isn’t always great, but last night was astonishing”

This is also really strong. The reader, your targeted no strings attached relationship, starts by thinking that you are saying that it wasn’t great… and then BAM you turn it around and flip the script. They will read it and, at the least, smile. More likely you will get something back.

So if you had a good time with your fuck buddy, ping out one of these and see if you can do it again!

Sexting and texting as foreplay

EdBennett — Fri, 15 Jun 2018 08:39:03 +0000

15 Jun 2018 - 09:39 | Tags: sexting, correct foreplay, dirty texting, texting

Everyone loves foreplay. It can take so many different forms and ways, there are endless variations on how one can build up to sex. For many people, the obvious foreplay is the physical foreplay that happens before sex. Getting or giving a blow job, going down on a girl before having sex to make her nice and wet, fingering a girl to loosen her up and make her “pre-come” are all really good things to do pre sex. I want to talk about the long game foreplay, things that can be done before you are even present. For this article, I am going to be focusing on sexting and texting.7

The invention of the mobile phone and the ability to text each other has opened up a whole avenue of communication. You can send someone an instant message that, unlike a phone call, they can pick up at the first convenient moment that they are free. Whilst this originated for business purposes, this has become a huge social tool. This can also be used to build someone up to sex really powerfully.

The longer you have someone thinking about sex in the run up to it, the more that they are going to want to rip your clothes off the moment that they see you. Texting is a great way of doing this.

It is a good idea to start slow. Start with something simple that reminds them that sex is happening later. This can be anything from “thinking about you” through to “Booty call tonight – 7pm – wear heals!”. You can be as subtle or bold as you feel.

Then slowly build it up. Text them the kinds of things that you are going to do to them, the thoughts you are having about them. You want to get more and more explicit as you go along, as the hours tick down to the moment that you are going to meet. If you do it right, by the time you do meet, you won’t even have to talk to each other, you will just jump each other’s bones!

If you are feeling confident, you can also do it using photos. This can just be a selfie of your face in the morning, again getting more explicit as you get closer to the event. This should be handeled with care. Leaving things to the imagination is really important to foreplay, so try to make your photos suggestive rather than totally explicit. A girl in lacy nearly see through underwear is inexplicably more sexy than just a naked girl. This follows this rule nicely.

So next time you have your fuck buddy over for a sex date, or you have a hook up lined up, think about setting yourself up for a successful night with a little sexting as the day goes on. A little effort during the day will go a long way for the evening.

How to approach a fuck buddy online

jeni — Tue, 13 Aug 2013 08:00:00 +0000

13 Aug 2013 - 09:00 | Tags: approaching, messaging, texting

We’ve talked about how to text a fuck buddy before, but lately we’ve been getting a lot of questions on how to actually go from messaging someone you like the look of online to someone you can actually fuck in person.

Even though this is a site designed to hook people up for casual sex, the last thing we want is for you to flounder about like a dying fish because you don’t know how to raise attraction in a profile or text message. So pay close attention sex freaks as we try and make this as simple as possible for you.

The Rules
Before you start texting and messaging lets go over a few of the rules you need to be aware of beforehand.
1. Be honest – don’t lie about what you want and who you are
2. This is casual sex - not a site to find a future partner. If you do well done, but do not forget this cardinal rule
3. If you’ve been rejected, do not start stalking – Not only is it deeply unattractive but you will be found out and banned from the site.
4. Be Safe – That means condoms, honesty about past and prior sexual partners and letting a friend or partner you trust to know what you’re doing just in case.

Got all that? Good. Now it’s time to move onto how you actually raise attraction in your messaging.

1. Your Profile
This is your CV. If you write a bad one, then you’re going to be tossed into the slush pile. If you write a good one, you’ll be invited for an interview. You won’t get a second look from a potential fuck buddy if you have either not bothered to fill out your profile properly or worse, have lied within it. Hot Tip: People like to see a face in the profile, so if you’re too embarrassed to put a picture of your own face on this site then you need to ask yourself if this is the right site for you. Girls and guys both make this mistake. Don’t be one of them.

2. Before you message READ THEIR PROFILE
This is so basic we can’t believe the number of men and women who still fuck this up. Messaging someone based purely on a photo will only get you so far. 9 times out of 10 there needs to be a personality in your messages. If you haven’t bothered to read what someone else is looking for in a fuck buddy then why the hell should they bother replying to your ill thought out message? Get it right the first time and READ THE PROFILE.

3. Say something original
Guys are more responsible for bad messaging then girls so listen up men: writing stuff like ‘You’re so hot’ accompanied by a picture of your cock 9 times out of 10 will get you sent straight to the slush pile. Writing a teasing message with a hint of humour will more likely provide a response from a potential fuck buddy. How do you do this? Well, read about what they’re looking for in their profile and start from there. For example, if a girl says she is looking for NSA with a guy with a good sense of humour don’t send her a message asking her ‘if she fancies a fuck?’ Try being silly and challenging, maybe even a little sarcastic.

4. Don’t be insulting
Being a dick and acting like a petulant child makes you look like a petulant child. Don’t start insulting someone if they don’t message you back or you don’t get the response you were hoping for. Move on. Acting like a prick makes you a prick and highly unattractive. Also if you start getting abusive you will be reported to the site administrator and be banned from the site. Just don’t do it!

5. Do be exciting!
The whole point of casual sex is that it is something exciting and fun to engage in. If you approach someone from a really dull and basic angle, then you’ll have no success. Be fun in your messaging; ask a potential fuck buddy how they like to have sex, what kind of games they are interested in playing…anything that makes you sound like a real human being and not a robot.
Follow these rules and you can’t go far wrong. Remember; this is supposed to be fun, so have fun and be the best that you can be.

Happy fucking!