F Buddy - summer increases sex drive

The summer sun brings out all the hotties

EdBennett — Sat, 18 Jun 2022 17:12:26 +0000

18 Jun 2022 - 18:12 | Tags: summer increases sex drive, sex in the summer, summer sex tips

Sometimes it can be really hard to get motivated enough to find a fuck buddy, even when you know you want one. If you have been out of the marketplace for a while this can make it even harder. It is easy to get into the habit of being alone, and by “alone” I don’t mean bereft of people entirely, I just mean without a friends with benefits or someone you can hook up with easily and pleasurably. If it has been more than 6 months since you booty called someone (or were the recipient of a booty call) the you are also likely out of the habit. We are creatures of habit by our very nature. We get accustomed to certain things or certain ways of living. After 6 months without sex it is very easy to be in the habit of not having sex and that can further reduce your desire or motivation to have sex. Luckily for you, that is all about to change. Why you might ask me? Allow me to answer you in one word. Summer.

Summer is coming in and very soon all the hotties will be out on the streets. Summer is an amazing time for meeting members of the opposite sex, having hook ups or other sexual encounters. Subjectively, it also feels like all the hotties come out in the summer. Suddenly the streets, beaches and parties are all filled with people who ooze sex. It feels like the number of hot people has increased… but where have all these hotties been hiding for the rest of the year? They weren’t there just a few months ago, so where did they come from? Do they spend the winter months hiding or in another country, only to then arrive by plane/train/magic carpet to remind us that it is worth the effort? Not at all! They have been there all the time, it is just in the presentation.

The summer sun and the summer heat mean that we all wear less clothing. We all switch to having our arms, shoulders sometimes midriffs on display. For some people, knowing that this is what will happen causes an increased motivation to work out, go to the gym, lose weight and generally be healthier. This in turn means that they look better, increasing the overall hotness. Ultimately, putting more skin on display makes you look open to sex, which is why the summer seems like all the hotties come out to play. They have been there the whole time, but we have failed to notice them.

So, if you are currently single or without a fuck buddy, get out there and find a fuck buddy this summer. Now is the perfect time to start.

Summer is the easiest time to get laid

EdBennett — Thu, 12 Jul 2018 13:12:11 +0000

12 Jul 2018 - 14:12 | Tags: summer increases sex drive, sex in the summer

As humans we are designed to live our lives in cycle. Every year is a single cycle, and different times in the cycle present better or worse opportunities to do certain activities. For example, you would not embark on a long exposed trek up a mountain in the middle of winter, for the extra cold would increase the risks of death or injury. At the same time, you would not choose the spring to stay inside and do nothing whilst in a recovery period, because once again that would be a waste of the environmental conditions which allow out door activity to happen with more ease than at any other time. The changes in season also affect how easy it is to get laid.

Winter

Winter is cold. Historically it is the time of scarce resources, and a lack of food. It is the perfect time to already have a fuck buddy or a friends with benefits in your life. With the cold coming in, you can spend many an evening keeping each other warm, and raising the temperature at night! Having sex in the winter is great, however, finding sex in the winter is harder than in the summer. That is not to say you can’t because many people do it, it is just harder. Many people find fuck buddies and hook ups in the winter months, the point here is that your body is organically geared up more for having sex in the summer than in the winter.

Summer

Summer, on the other hand, is warm. It is the time of plenty, of lots of food, the days are long so you have lots of time, and the body knows there is plenty to eat around. This means that you want to have sex more in the summer, because the body understands that this is the perfect time to do so. This is the time when you can take all your clothes off and get naked, and there is no danger from the elements to discourage you to do so! This is the time to meet someone and hook up the same night. This is the time when the hormones are on the rise, and everyone wants to have sex just that little bit more.

If you are looking for a fuck buddy, there could not be a better time to find one! Summer is here and the sex is in season!

Summer sex is good for the soul

EdBennett — Wed, 20 Jun 2018 18:45:37 +0000

20 Jun 2018 - 19:45 | Tags: sex in the summer, summer increases sex drive, summer sex

Summer is here, and the world just became a brighter, happier and more sexy place! There is something about the summer, suddenly it feels like everyone is more attractive, that there are more people that you might want to sleep with wondering around the streets. Everyone is wearing slightly less clothes and you can see people’s bodies more. The heat means you burn more calories just from body regulation, and people tend to eat less in the hot weather, meaning that everyone seems to be in that little bit better shape. Summer is a great time to find a fuck buddy or a no strings attached relationship.

Summer is also the time when your body most wants to have sex. The human body has a 9 month “gestation” period, which means that from the moment of pregnancy it takes 9 months before you give birth. We are hard coded to want to produce our babies in the spring, because that is when food becomes plentiful again, and your child will have the highest chance of survival. Born in spring, you have up to 6 months of warmer weather, and 6 months of food being in fruit, which increases your chances of staying alive. Whilst modern living and central heating has altered this, the body clock has yet to catch up. We still want to have sex in the summer more than any other time of year.

So summer sex is here, and sex in the summer really is good for the soul! Your body is crying out for it as a need. Giving the body and soul what it needs at the right time of year, brings with it so much bonus benefits. Having a friends with benefits set up or a fuck buddy means that you will be benefiting from the extra “happy hormones” that come with regular sex. When this happens during the summer, the benefits are even higher even though you are having the same amount of sex! The extra sun, warmth and heat all contribute to ensure that you become even happier. The body becomes healthier and more agile and able to fight infection and stand up to stress. On a mental level, you are just in a better place!

Summer sex is good for the soul, and I would strongly advise everyone to make sure that they have some whilst they still can. If you need to find a fuck buddy or someone to hook up with, then now is the time to jump online. There are more people looking than ever.

The Summer Horn

jeni — Fri, 09 Aug 2013 08:00:00 +0000

9 Aug 2013 - 09:00 | Tags: sex in the summer, summer increases sex drive

Temperatures are set to get even higher over the coming weeks and with the mercury hitting nearly 35 degrees in the south last week, it’s hardly a surprise that people are stripping off left right and centre.

It’s also no surprise that the desire to have as much sex as possible has also risen. We’re not sure entirely what it is about the summer, but it has had a horny effect on many people in the office.

It’s not dirty, it’s science
Never one to be outdone by idle conversation, I decided to do a little bit of investigating on whether or not the weather does affect our desire to have sex. We’ve all said at one time or another that sometimes we’re ‘in the mood’ and sometimes ‘we’re not’. However chemical balances in our body that have a direct relation to our desire to have sex are affected by the weather.

Chemistry Lessons
Summer Lovin’ might be a club staple and an excuse to dance around like John Travolta and Olivia Newton-John, but the Grease hit also has more then an element of truth to it.

Melanocyte Stimulating Hormone (MSH) has been linked to a woman’s sex drive increasing ten-fold. Sunlight elevates the production and secretion of MSH. So far so very sciencey but how does this relate to an increase in sex drive? Quite simple really; MSH regulates the production of melanin – the pigment that turns your skin a darker shade to protect it from UV rays. The more you go in the sun, the more likely your body is to produce MSH leading to melanin. The more MSH…the more horn a woman gets. So to break it down, the more sun a woman gets, the more sex she wants.

But what about the guys?

Serotonin is a ‘feel-good’ neurotransmitter produced by the brain. This chemical is released in mass quantity whenever we have sex. It is also released in mass quantity when we are exposed to sunlight leading to a heightened feeling of well being and an increase in MSH…which leads to an increase in wanting to ‘get it on’.

So where does this leave a fuck buddy?

Well, don’t be scared, but if you’re enjoying a fairly stable level of sex during the winter and autumn, now that summer has arrived expect to get a lot more demands for sex from the people you sleep with. The chemical transmitters in our bodies triggered by the sunshine will lead many of you to want sex maybe twice or three times as much as you want it on a standard week.

So there you have it; summer can and often does lead to a mass drive to fuck each other’s brains out as much as possible.

What are you waiting for? Get your sunglasses out, soak up some sun, and get ready for some serious sexercise.