Mistakes Men Make In the Bedroom

jeni — Fri, 01 Nov 2013 09:00:00 +0000

1 Nov 2013 - 09:00 | Tags: mistakes in the bedroom

We promised and we delivered! Guys, the girls were told what they need to stop doing in the bedroom in order to get better at sex. Now it’s your turn to find out what it is you’re doing wrong! Pay close attention as you will all be guilty of one of these blunders at some point in your sex lives.

1. Not Listening
“But I do listen!” most of you will cry. Well not according to nearly 8.5 million women who took part in a sex survey for multiple dating sites in the past 3 years. According to the majority of women the number 1 sin for most guys is not listening to her in the bedroom. This means looking out for both verbal and non verbal cues fellas. Pay attention to what your lady wants and you’ll be having much better sex in no time at all.

2. Not being Direct enough
All that bullshit you read and hear about in the movies, television, the general media about women liking a guy to be a gentleman in the bedroom…rubbish. You can be a gentleman all you like outside, but this will get you nowhere in sex. Women have stated that they want to feel a guy ‘wants her’. This means dropping casual statements like ‘fancy a fuck?’ or ‘my bed’s cold’ and switching up a gear to statements like ‘I want you, now!’ or ‘I am getting so turned on just by looking at you right now.’ Man up guys!

3. Not grooming
Casual is fine. Dirty-casual less fine. A lot of PUAs including the master ‘Style’ (real name Neil Strauss) agree 100% with women on this one: a well groomed man will win hands down every time against a bloke who’s dirty and smelly. Keep it clean lads and you’ll be making inroads into her knickers in no time at all.

4. Not using your voice
Guilty as charged all of us on this one guys. Women love it when a man is telling them what he’s about to do to them. It sends the endorphin levels rocketing up and gets both parties in the mood for some great sex. Don’t stay silent. Tell your lady how you’re going to fuck her and revel in her response.

5. Not knowing the clitoris
Any guy who thinks women don’t enjoy sex as much as men do clearly hasn’t slept with enough women. Women have an organ that is designed purely for sexual stimulation; the clitoris. And yet most guys seem to have an unerring capacity to ignore or fail to explore this crucial sexual organ. If you’re not sure where it is, look it up! Be enthusiastic about exploring this area with your lady as it’s one way you’re guaranteed to give her an orgasm of some sort when correctly stimulated.

We’ll be back with more tips on how to impress your lady in the bedroom. In the meantime guys, pay attention and happy fucking!

Mistakes Women Make in the Bedroom

jeni — Mon, 28 Oct 2013 08:00:00 +0000

28 Oct 2013 - 08:00 | Tags: mistakes in the bedroom

A good fuck is something special. A bad fuck is best forgotten. Yet there are still many women making the same mistakes in the bedroom despite their being a thousand articles online and off repeating these problems again and again. We’ve recently had a spate of email from men complaining that some of the fuck buddies they’re meeting up with are clearly faking their orgasms or just generally doing things that are a complete turn off.

So this one goes out to all our female members. Heads up and ears open girls.

1. Stop Faking It!
If you’re not having an orgasm it doesn’t help you or your partner by faking it. He needs to know if you’re not coming so he can work on fixing that! Overly loud moans and noises can fool some naïve blokes, but not for most of us. Plus how shit do you both feel knowing that you’ve just faked it? Stop faking!

2. Kicking a dog when it’s down
Imagine having a puppy who’s over excited to see you when you walk in? Now imaging kicking that puppy over and over every time? That poor puppy will soon stop getting excited to see you and run away. Same rings true for when a guy shows interest in you sexually. If you want to maintain his interest, show him the same level, even if you’ve had a shit day and aren’t feeling it. You’ll both soon be happier in the bedroom!

3. Beds are mainly for sleeping
‘She’s too boring and always wants to have sex in the bedroom with the lights off/on...” This is a common complaint from guys and one you can easily fix by being more adventurous. Have sex everywhere but the bedroom and don’t be afraid to play with the light levels.

4. Don’t wait…Initiate!
Nothing turns a guy on faster than you demanding sex from him rather than the other way around.

5. Show, Tell, Communicate!
Ladies as much as you’d like us to be; we’re not fucking mind readers. If you aren’t enjoying yourself, tell us. If we’re doing something right, tell us. If you’re having an orgasm, tell us! This doesn’t have to be literal; we can pick up on body signals during sex, but make it clear!

There are a number of other mistakes that women seem to be making consistently and we will address these in the next post. And don’t worry ladies we will be running a series on the mistakes that blokes make in the bedroom too.

In the meantime; happy fucking!

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Mistakes Men Make In the Bedroom

Mistakes Women Make in the Bedroom