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Why we all want to fuck the hot cellist but should be chasing the french horn player

EdBennett — Wed, 09 Oct 2019 15:02:50 +0000

9 Oct 2019 - 16:02 | Tags: musician sex, music and sex, choosing the right fuck buddy

There are certain “jobs” that attract a lot of sexual attention from the opposite sex just because the person is doing that job. A lot of these are established with an assigned gender role for that job. So for example, if you are attracted to a man, there is a great chance that you will find that man attractive if he is in one of the following job roles: policeman, fireman, ranked member of the British Army, any rank within a specialised unit of the armed forces (the SAS for example), large business owner, a “silk” lawyer who is a member of the queens council, the list could go on longer. They often involve a uniform, they are often part of a powerful or money wielding organisation, they often make a huge difference to the world around them. I can understand why they are jobs that are seen as sexy to a potential fuck buddy who is sizing the person up.

For a man who is attracted to a woman, there are again certain job roles that seem sexy and attractive. The obvious ones are actress, model, pole dancer, yoga instructor etc. The similar thing on this list is that they all work with their bodies in some way. They are likely to be good looking, as what they do requires them to be physically fit and well, which is a huge thing for men that often still look to the physical attributes of a woman when choosing who to sleep with. This is especially true when selecting a fuck buddy as the relationship is focused around the sex and often there is little more outside of that.

Cellists are traditionally attractive. This partly comes from the performance element. As someone playing in a public orchestra, they are on stage for all to see. Their appearance matters so they generally look after themselves. However, they are seen as sexier than a French horn player who is also on the same stage. Why? They put a huge phallic object between their legs then proceed to stroke that object to the rhythm of the music. There is something about a woman who sits with her legs spread, deeply engrossed and lost in the playing of the instrument between their legs that is deeply sexy.

Men are wrong. They should be going after the French Horn player. Why? One word. Ombature. A professional horn player has to develop muscles in their lips that most people don’t even know exist! In order to have the mouth strength and control to play the French Horn to a high level, those muscles need to be trained and honed to a fine art! Thus, as your fuck buddy, they have the ability to use their mouths in a way that most other women only dream of. If you think the kissing is good, wait till they give you a blow job. They can control the strength and pressure around the shaft of your penis with a sensitivity that you didn’t even know existed.

So next time you see musicians and people are talking about the girl playing the cello being hot, take a moment. Given the choice between having a cello player and a French Horn player as a fuck buddy, you should choose the latter each and every time.

Why geeks now make sexy fuck buddies

EdBennett — Tue, 18 Jun 2019 17:42:37 +0000

18 Jun 2019 - 18:42 | Tags: geeks are sexy, nerd sex, choosing the right fuck buddy

When we think about the ideal fuck buddy, we generally move into the region of our brain that deals with fantasy. We think about a model looking person. The perfect 10. In a woman, that is usually, but not always, a curving figure of an hour glass shape, with a great pair of breasts, fabulous hair and she is probably dressed in some kind of black lacey underwear. When we think of a guy, he is likely tall, looks a bit like a professional athlete, has a perfectly muscled body and is sporting a 6 pack. All these images go to the traditional Hollywood film look. It is all about the football players and the cheerleaders. I am here to tell you that a new age has dawned. No longer are these the best fuck buddies. In today’s world, geeks are now the sexy fuck buddys. To see why geeks are now sexy, we have to first look at why the jock athlete was deemed sexy.

It was in time gone past, the good-looking athlete that was successful. (S)He was popular, loved by all, and doors were opened to them. They thus got better jobs, made more money, and offered a better life. They were essentially a better sexual partner because of all that they came with. Today, geeks have all the same advantages. In the modern world of computers and processers, it is the geeks that make the money. They are getting the amazing jobs working for big firms like Google. They are traveling the world on the company credit card, they are loved by all as they bring modern innovation and advances to the world, they are the ones that offer the penthouse suit and the swimming pool when they take you back to theirs.

Fashion has also moved with this. You now have things like geek chic, good looking girls that wear glasses and their hair in pigtails! You have computer nerds no longer trying to hide their interests, but instead lording it like a badge of honour. The jocks are now trying to look more like the geeks! IT has come full circle.

The geeks are also more sexually advanced. Coming from a place where they had no reputation to protect, they are sexually open. They generally explore more, are open to advice and techniques that are going to make them better lovers in bed, and they are ready to try new things out with their fuck buddy.

If you are a bit of a geek and want a fuck buddy, your time is now! Get involved whilst the window of opportunity is open.

Why work to change some – simply select the right fuck buddy

EdBennett — Wed, 20 Jan 2016 09:43:13 +0000

20 Jan 2016 - 09:43 | Tags: choosing the right fuck buddy, can you have a long term fuck buddy

Selection. That is the name of the game here, and should be one of your primary tools when selecting your fuck buddy from the vast array of choice presented by this website. There are more women/men here waiting to hear from you than you will ever meet on the street or in bar. You already know that they are open to approach so that is taken care of. You can see their sexual preferences up front, straight, gay, bisexual or another. You have all the information to make a more informed decision about who you sleep with... which means you can get the sexual selection right from the start. This is an amazingly powerful tool, and I am about to tell you why.

Preferences are formed early

Most people get together with someone then they slowly over time try and influence and change that person to be a better fit, a better match. When this is done in the bedroom this is often a huge failure! Trying to change someone into what you want them to be in terms of sexual preference is hard. Most of what they like and don’t like has already been formed through both upbringing and their early sexual experiences. It is possible to alter this – but not always. There is a better way.

Select what you already want

Rather than try and change someone, why not pick the fuck buddy that you already want to fuck, that wants the same as you? You wouldn’t buy a quiche then try and extract the eggs from it because what you really want is an omelette. You would go straight to the eggs. Do the same. If you love sexy doggy style, find someone who likes sex doggy style. If you want to have sex in a public place, find someone who already wants to do the same thing rather than coerce someone into doing it with you. Selection is 80% of a good sexual relationship, and recognise that you are doing both of you a favour by being mindful of this. If they are your perfect sexual partner, then you are their perfect sexual partner as well! It is the win win.

You are in the right place with f-buddy

You are in the right place. We give you the facility to seek out the exact fuck that you are looking for. So we urge you to use the search tools that we have provided to do exactly this. Happy hunting – and here’s to a sex fuelled 2016.

How to be the perfect fuck buddy

EdBennett — Thu, 19 Mar 2015 11:05:04 +0000

19 Mar 2015 - 11:05 | Tags: perfect f-buddy, choosing the right fuck buddy

A lot of women have been emailing us this question so we thought we’d try and give you all a few pointers to doing it properly. There is no right or wrong answer (sorry to disappoint everyone), but there are a few ground rules which should have both parties enjoying their time together before things start getting a bit tired six months down the line.

1. Remember it’s not forever
Fuck buddies come and go. This isn’t a boyfriend you’re road testing. This is someone you finds physically and mentally attractive enough to want to sleep with. The moment you start making holiday plans or re-organising your schedule round their own, is the moment you’ve stopped thinking about them as a fuck buddy.

2. Identify a suitable candidate
Despite our constant and consistent attempts to remind people not to tell porkies in their profiles, everyone still seems to do it a little bit. Make sure you identify a candidate that you feel is going to be the best fit for you. Having an incompatible fuck buddy is a one way ticket to disaster.

3. Take your buddy out for a road test
Looks and chemistry are important; how your buddy performs in bed is even more important. Fuck buddies are not always reliable lovers. Due to the impermanence of the situation a lot of guys won’t bother to try and hit all the buttons to make you come. It’s important you get a fuck buddy who hits all the buttons and rocks your world in the sack.

4. Maintain YOUR schedule
A fuck buddy is like having a bit of sauce on the side of your life – it makes life that much sweeter but your life won’t all off the rails if you don’t have it. Make sure you keep your fuck buddy to the schedule you want. Don’t give in to demands and don’t do anything you’re not comfortable with. Maintain your schedule and you’ll be enjoying that little bit extra on the side.

5. Resist cuddling
Not to be mean, but you should resist snuggling up to your fuck buddy after sex, unless it’s to have another turn at the wheel. The closer you get intimately the more chance there is of someone developing feelings. Check them at the door and remember this is just sex.

Choosing the right fuck buddy

jeni — Wed, 16 Oct 2013 08:00:00 +0000

16 Oct 2013 - 09:00 | Tags: choosing the right fuck buddy

This might sound blindingly obvious to some, but choosing the right fuck buddy for a casual relationship is something that requires a little more thought then what’s between your legs can provide. The number of couples where one person ends up getting hurt because they didn’t take the time to consider their options carefully is amazing. So listen up f-buddies!

1. It’s not just about the pictures

Okay so she or he might look super hot; have amazing breasts, tones six pack etc etc…but to be truly sexually compatible with someone lies not in the balls but in the brain. We all know that when sex is great it’s great! But we also know that just because someone has an amazingly hot body, does not guarantee that they are amazing in bed. Take the time to peruse past the pictures and see what else your potential fuck buddy has written.

2. Messaging is important

Whilst some people do this, we would not recommend just opening with ‘Hey, fancy a fuck?’ That rarely works and then only when you’ve already slept with somebody you feel comfortable enough to say that to. Read the profile. If you like what you’ve read, then message them accordingly. Watch your tone, and keep it clean…at first.

3. Just the sex ma’am. Just the sex.

This is not someone you want to date. This is someone you want to see you have chemistry with. You don’t want to go on long moonlit walks, have candlelight dinners etc. If someone has written that in their profile then we would suggest that they are on the wrong website and would happily recommend they head over to one of the more traditional dating sites.

4. Age…isn’t as important.

The great thing about having a fuck buddy is that you don’t have to worry if someone is at the same educational, life…whatever-level you are at. You simply need to know if they make you hot enough to want to screw them senseless or be screwed senseless by them. So if you’re a 45 year old woman who wants to have sex with a 24 year old bloke, or a 20 year old bloke wanting to have sex with a 36 year old woman then you don’t need to have to know about their job, income, lifestyle etc to make it work.

5. Know the end is always in sight

A fuck buddy is a fuck buddy for a reason; it’s rarely permanent, unless you want to live your entire life casually. A casual relationship will inevitably end the moment one or both of you meet someone who just does it for you physically and emotionally and for the long haul. Keep the chequered flags in sight, and you can’t go wrong.

Happy fucking!