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Things to say to guarantee your male fuck buddy keeps coming back for more!

EdBennett — Tue, 19 Jan 2021 00:59:04 +0000

19 Jan 2021 - 00:59 | Tags: how to be hot, can you have a long term fuck buddy, keeping your man

There are times in our lives when we are rich in some areas and poor in others. With the global coronavirus pandemic, it has become much harder to find a fuck buddy during times of lockdown and reduced social contact. This has meant that when we do have a fuck buddy it has become more important to have them come back for second helpings! Well, if your fuck buddy is a man, there are some things that you can say when in bed with them to ensure that they come begging for more each time!

Ready for round 2?!

This phrase works so hard! It tells your fuck buddy that you had a great time and that you want more. It tells them that you want them now. It also suggest, subtley, that there are more than 2 rounds. “Ready for round 2” suggests that there is a round 3 and 4! This is a great phrase – try it.

Spank me!

Getting the odd spank across the naked buttocks stimulates blood flow and has been shown to increase arousal levels. Inviting your fuck buddy to do so is giving them permission to take an intimate step that is great for both of you. So help your fuck buddy be, and feel, sexy with this little invitation.

I give you permission to wake me up if you are horny.

What a wonderful thing to say to a fuck buddy. It tells them that as their friends with benefits, you are going to be there for them. Even if they don’t take you up on it, the invitation will make them want to be hard and horny for you.

I want you to choke me with your dick

Men love getting blow jobs. A quality fuck buddy will give them, whether they are into them or not. So if you are going to give them, why not enhance the experience for the man by really making him feel that you really want to give him one? Whether you really want the full choking part, saying this will drive him wild for you.

That, was, perfect

If you had a good time, tell your fuck buddy. They are not a mind reader, and even if you expressed it physically whilst you were together, it never hurts to be explicit that you enjoyed yourself. Even if they knew already, they will glow with pleasure from being told.

Coronavirus and Sex: how to install your fuck buddy into your household

EdBennett — Sun, 25 Oct 2020 18:08:06 +0000

25 Oct 2020 - 18:08 | Tags: Coronavirus and sex, can you have a long term fuck buddy

We are being told that we can’t mix outside our households, that it is really important that we continue to socially distance and not have contact with other people. Living your life two meters from the rest of humanity is a harder thing to do that you might think! We are naturally social creatures, and even the most introverted of people need human contact from time to time. The huge change in lifestyle that has been caused for so many people has affected their health and well being more than most want to admit. This is true for people’s sex lives.

Maintaining your fuck buddy during Covid can be tough

Trying to hook up with a fuck buddy or meet up with your friends-with-benefits whilst sticking to the COVID-19 rules is becoming harder every day. The stricter the rules, the harder it is to stick to them. Having regular sex is important not just for our bodies but also our minds. It gives us a sense of self worth and during sex a large number of “happy hormones” are released which directly change our body chemistry to make us happier. Sex is important, and reducing your ability to booty call your fuck buddy can be something which can have a huge impact on your life and sense of well being.

Ways around the restrictions for your fuck buddy

There are lots of ways around this. You can ensure that you have them inside your bubble, you can ensure that you keep track of who is meeting up with who, or that you plan when you and your fuck buddy are going to meet in advance and take the week before to not see anyone else and monitor for symptoms. You can do all these things, but one of the best things that I have heard about is installing your fuck buddy into your household.

Sex on tap – install your fuck buddy into your household

One friend has “installed” their fuck buddy into their house. They said they had to really sell it to their fuck buddy at first but that it has worked out great for both of them. Now that they are under one roof there are no issues with them having sex. They are in the same “household” so there are no issues there, and the best part? You get to have sex on tap. Seriously! They both now work from home, and suddenly sex is no longer just in the evenings when one calls the other. It is all the time! Quick break between meetings? Have sex. Oh is that lunchtime? Have sex. Oh look I have to work late tonight, which would usually mean sex is not happening, instead just before they start their evening work session… have sex! It is great!

The one thing you must do

If you do this there is one thing that you must do if you are going to make it work. Have a conversation and re-establish the rules of the fuck buddy relationship before the move. It is easy for this to start to change for one party but not the other and that would lead to disaster! As long as you talk about it first, it is unlikely to happen.

If you do this, you are a god!

Found a fuck buddy you fucking love? Keep him with these top tips!

EdBennett — Wed, 21 Jun 2017 07:59:45 +0000

21 Jun 2017 - 08:59 | Tags: keeping your man, can you have a long term fuck buddy, sex tips

This is one for the ladies. The first step to having a great sex life is to bag yourself a man that you can enjoy some late night action with. This is a great place to come, as we can help you find a guy that is looking for the same thing that you are – all the benefits of a no strings attached hookup without any of the down sides that usually come with sex. Once you have found him, and you have started sleeping with him, generally the sex tends to go in waves.

It starts extremely exciting because it is a new person – but you don’t know each other’s bodies that well so the sex first couple of times has high excitement but a little lack of skill on both sides.
The sex then matures into something more developed. As you get to know each others bodies better, you learn to bring each other to a deeper longer orgasm.
At some point the excitement from the newness starts to fade and things become a little more routine and regular. This can be really nice for a time.
The niceness from regularity begins to fade… this is the point when you could really use with kicking things up a notch again!

So here are some top tips from real life testimonials, on things that really drove men wild for sex again.

Practice Kegel exercises – then rather than him fuck you, you fuck him!

Kegel exercises will give you control over your muscles, allowing you to grip and squeeze him when he is inside you. Few women can actually do this, so not only will it drive him crazy, it will put you in the top percentile of female lovers he has ever has.

Go festive for an occasion

Is it easter? Pop on a pair of bunny ears and a fluffy tail, and greet him sexy rabbit style before doing it like they do on the discovery channel! Perhaps it is Christmas? Wear nothing but a red bow around your waist and give him a gift he will never forget! No matter what the time of year, there is always something that you can do to mark the occasion!

Handcuffs are not just fun when used on you!

Turning the tables on the usual dominance in the bedroom can be really fun. For real kick, handcuff him to the bed whilst he is still asleep, then allow him to wake up to you already on top of him and warmed up. He will declare you a sex goddess and will worship you as such – trust me!

There are my top three… but there are plenty more so use your imagination!

Why work to change some – simply select the right fuck buddy

EdBennett — Wed, 20 Jan 2016 09:43:13 +0000

20 Jan 2016 - 09:43 | Tags: choosing the right fuck buddy, can you have a long term fuck buddy

Selection. That is the name of the game here, and should be one of your primary tools when selecting your fuck buddy from the vast array of choice presented by this website. There are more women/men here waiting to hear from you than you will ever meet on the street or in bar. You already know that they are open to approach so that is taken care of. You can see their sexual preferences up front, straight, gay, bisexual or another. You have all the information to make a more informed decision about who you sleep with... which means you can get the sexual selection right from the start. This is an amazingly powerful tool, and I am about to tell you why.

Preferences are formed early

Most people get together with someone then they slowly over time try and influence and change that person to be a better fit, a better match. When this is done in the bedroom this is often a huge failure! Trying to change someone into what you want them to be in terms of sexual preference is hard. Most of what they like and don’t like has already been formed through both upbringing and their early sexual experiences. It is possible to alter this – but not always. There is a better way.

Select what you already want

Rather than try and change someone, why not pick the fuck buddy that you already want to fuck, that wants the same as you? You wouldn’t buy a quiche then try and extract the eggs from it because what you really want is an omelette. You would go straight to the eggs. Do the same. If you love sexy doggy style, find someone who likes sex doggy style. If you want to have sex in a public place, find someone who already wants to do the same thing rather than coerce someone into doing it with you. Selection is 80% of a good sexual relationship, and recognise that you are doing both of you a favour by being mindful of this. If they are your perfect sexual partner, then you are their perfect sexual partner as well! It is the win win.

You are in the right place with f-buddy

You are in the right place. We give you the facility to seek out the exact fuck that you are looking for. So we urge you to use the search tools that we have provided to do exactly this. Happy hunting – and here’s to a sex fuelled 2016.

Long Term Fuck Buddy?

EdBennett — Fri, 29 Nov 2013 09:00:00 +0000

29 Nov 2013 - 09:00 | Tags: can you have a long term fuck buddy

It’s funny but we’ve had a lot of questions about the length of a normal fuck buddy relationship here at f-buddy. You’ll find hundreds of articles and posts online all agreeing that casual sex relationships rarely last longer then 6 months at the maximum. Any longer and then you’re basically in a relationship.

Well we’re here to admit and to tell you that all those articles and posts are dead wrong.

Here’s why.

A long term fuck buddy

A year ago I was seeing two girls on a casual basis at the same time for a period of about four months. I thought life couldn’t get any better then this! I remember one week where I stayed round one girl’s house (29, cute, smart, big boobs, just under 5 foot), had sex with her for virtually the whole night and then the next day have the other girl come round (23, about 5 foot 2, petite, blonde) to mine late afternoon and spent the rest of that day having sex with her.

I was knackered.

But I sure had one big happy smile on my face.

Now here’s where these relationships (and it’s fair to call even a casual sex relationship a relationship…even though it is casual) differed slightly. The 29 year old had been married when she was younger and was in the process of divorcing her husband. She had gone through all the emotional trauma and had come out the other side remarkably healthy and happy and extremely horny. That girl has one of the highest sex drives I’ve ever had the fortune to experience in a woman. And boy is she not afraid to show it.

The 23 year old on the other hand was another kettle of fish entirely. I’d met her at a writers group I used to go to (we writers have to socialise too you know) and had been ignoring the looks and stares she’d apparently been giving me for weeks – I was a bit thick and hadn’t noticed. Eventually one night I asked her out for a drink after the group broke up and we ended up back at mine the same night following some very heavy groping and kissing in the bar.

The sex was great and she also had a massively high sex drive (Note to men: if you think women don’t like and want sex as much as us, you’re completely wrong; they like and want it more!), not to mention a very tight pussy.

So there I am; in a casual fuck buddy relationship with two women. I should point out at this point that I had been entirely honest with both of them saying that I wasn’t looking for a committed long term relationship and wanted to carry on seeing other people as well as them. They both said this was fine and said they appreciated my honesty. Everything was great. Until that it is one month down the line I got a phone call from the 23 year old.

She wanted to ‘talk about where our relationship was going’. She wanted to let me know that she had almost drunkenly slept with a random guy she’d met at a party the weekend before but didn’t because she wanted to clarify what kind of relationship we had at the time.

I was confused.

I pointed out to her that I thought I had already made that clear to her and that if she wanted to sleep with other people, she should. We weren’t mutually exclusive and I thought I had made that clear. She said I hadn’t and then I got really confused and spent another half an hour re-explaining things. She said I had lied to her and convinced her that we were going to be boyfriend and girlfriend even though I had never hinted at all to that.

Anyway eventually I got bored and pissed off with her accusing me of things I hadn’t done and told her I wasn’t going to be bribed or blackmailed into apologising for something I wasn’t responsible for.

Her attitude changed instantly and she apologised to me and then said she was dealing with some personal issues that had nothing to do with me.

Then she said she didn’t give a shit about having a relationship but that she wanted to sleep with me a lot.

That was when I said I didn’t think it was a good idea. And the reason I didn’t think it was a good idea was because if she behaved that immaturely emotionally now, what would she be like another few months down the line?

The 29 year old on the other hand was wonderful! At one point she wanted to be exclusive as well but was open and honest about it with me and after I’d said I wasn’t sure I could do that just then, she just accepted it and said it was a relief and that she would still like to carry one sleeping together when we met up and if neither of us was in a monogamous relationship with someone else.

And we did for over a year.

The Points of Difference
You can be 18 and have the wisdom and soul of someone much much older. You can be 45 and act like an emotional fuck wit. My point is everyone is different when it comes to casual sex and relationships and will react differently. But what I learned is that if both parties are emotionally mature enough to realise that they can have sex together over a long period of time without feelings of jealousy, mistrust and resentment surfacing, then yes it is possible to do.

Just make sure you are both on the same page emotionally, and you should be fine.

Happy Fucking!