Let your girl go to have her fly into your arms

EdBennett — Fri, 29 Jul 2016 13:09:24 +0000

There is an inbuilt tendency that many people have to get clingy with their sexual partners. It happens to people either because it is an inbuilt character trait, but it can also happen when you haven’t gotten laid in ages. If you have sex after a long period without having sex, you can quickly become extremely clinging of the other person. This can manifest in all sorts of ways, including a real neediness or a controlling nature. You really don’t want this to happen. If this gets stronger and grows, it guarantees either at best the end of the relationship, or worst a lasting but really shit relationship where you becomes someone that you despise. So how can you help combat this?

Have lots of sex

The easiest way to combat this is to live in a world where you get lots of sex – or certainly sex whenever you want it. If you are getting laid then you never get needy or clingy – there is no need! If this one person goes, then another will come around the corner so you have nothing to fear. Having a fuck buddy is a great start, having 2 and you are robust, having 3 and you are invincible from neediness!

Understand that pushing them away will get you laid more – and harder

Your objective is to have great sex. Lots of great sex. You are looking for quality and quantity here! When you get clingy and controlling it is because you are afraid that the other person is going to leave. You are scared that they will no longer want to have sex with you, that they will go away and not come back... which would leave you without, starving in the desert of dry genitals. What you need to understand that being clingy and controlling will not stop this from happening – it will guarantee that it happens! The harder you hold on, the more the person wants to leave. It’s like a wet bar of soap, the harder you squeeze the more likely it will pop out of your hand and go flying across the room.

You need to have a gentle touch, to give the other person to fuck or flight as they wish to. If they have the full freedom to have sex and get laid, or leave, they are going to choose to have sex with you. Simple at that. Who would choose the desert over an oasis of you?

So be gentle, give them freedom, and do not hold on to anyone in a stifling way. You will keep them by letting them go.

Keeping the Sex Fun!

EdBennett — Wed, 08 Jan 2014 09:00:00 +0000

8 Jan 2014 - 09:00 | Tags: keeping casual sex casual

In a very real sense, f-buddy is probably one of the most honest dating sites on the internet. We do what it says on the tin: provide a forum where people can meet and hook up for casual sex. However with casual sex there is often a minefield to navigate when it comes to not getting bogged down in the complications. It is very easy for a casual sex relationship to evolve into something more, and whilst this can sometimes be a great thing, more often then not it does lead to one party being hurt.

So as we head into 2014, here are some simple rules to help you keep the sex casual.

1. Good Morning? No. Good night!
Casual sex often has a high turnover rate, which is as it should be most of the time. If you’re looking to keep the sex purely casual then we would advise never letting a partner stay the night nor you sleeping over at theirs. You’re not there to roll over with a smile and say ‘Good morning would you like some breakfast?’ You’re both there to fuck plain and simple. Staying over merely makes the situation complicated.

2. No showers
Okay, we’re not saying you shouldn’t wash after you’ve had sex – although it’s perfectly acceptable not to – but you shouldn’t allow a partner full bathroom privileges after sex. Allowing a full shower and wash denotes a level of intimacy in the encounter that really has no place there. By all means allow your partner to clean whatever bits need cleaning, but a full shower? No. A bath? Definitely not. Once you’ve both had your fill of each other it’s time for a quick scrub if required and then go your separate ways. Sometimes a hotel encounter can alleviate this potential problem, so bear that in mind.

3. No food after hours
You’re not there to cook and smile lovingly at one another from across a candle lit dining table. You’re both there to satisfy a carnal desire. Do not waste time making a partner a nice meal because you’re not in a relationship! Sharing food together is one of the oldest social connections human beings make with one another. Sharing food after casual sex can lead to emotional complications that you don’t want.

Follow these rules as you enter the new year and you’ll find your fuck buddy meets up to be far more productive!

If you do start experiencing stronger feelings towards any partner you hook up with, then we strongly suggest communicating these feelings to your fuck buddy to avoid any unnecessary hurt or upset.

Happy fucking!

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Let your girl go to have her fly into your arms

Keeping the Sex Fun!