All I want for Christmas is an STD... on no wait a minute I really DON’T want that!

EdBennett — Thu, 12 Jan 2017 19:09:20 +0000

12 Jan 2017 - 19:09 | Tags: STDs, safe sex, safe sex rules

Welcome to January 2017, the New Year has come in and you have just had what I hope was an excellent Christmas. Christmas brought with it a host of presents. You probably got a jumper that you don’t really want to wear, have been fed mince pies whether you actually like them or not, and you know that thing you really wanted as a Christmas present? Well that is the one thing that you probably didn’t get!

Christmas was also a great time to get laid. When new year comes around, no one wants to be that person who has no one to kiss at midnight or under the mistletoe. This means that getting laid of the Christmas and New Year period was always easier than at other times, and this leads to access to an easy flow of sex. Part of that is an abundant amount of sex too! So sleeping with more than one person over the month of December is something happens a lot. If it didn’t happen for you, it is probably because you didn’t get online and send enough messages out. All it really took was being a little bit proactive about making sure that enough girls new that you were available and ready to out. What this can mean however is that you have picked up an extra present that you may not have actually wanted! A hidden visitor may be piggy backing his way across the world right now by attaching himself to your balls. This is great for him, but bad for you, and if you have him, you want to do something about him ASAP.

Most people who pick up an STD (or often called STI now – sexually transmitted infections) have just been a little unlucky. I mean no one goes out of their way to get one – they just get unlucky. If you think you have one you really need to get tested, the sooner you find out the sooner you can get it treated and get back to having a normal sex life. I mean why deny the girls a little action with you just because you are too lazy to go to the doctors. Most STD’s can be quickly cleaned up and cured with a simple bit of medication that is fast acting and has no side effects.

So if you think you may have picked something up. Do something about putting it back down again. You really don’t want to be carrying that around with you. It is one of the few guaranteed sexy mood killers!

Casual Sex: Basic Safety Rules

EdBennett — Fri, 24 Jan 2014 09:00:00 +0000

24 Jan 2014 - 09:00 | Tags: safe sex rules

Despite the fact that we have talked about safety and general dos and don’ts before, we’re still staggered by the sheer amount of high risk sex that seems to be continuously reported throughout the media whether in gossip columns or sex confessionals. Just this morning I read an email forum thread on Yahoo where an 18 year old girl was asking whether or not she should worry she’s pregnant as her hook up had come inside her without wearing a condom.

Leaving aside the huge rage disbelief I have at stories like this, our job is to aid and educate you at this stage so that you can enjoy casual sex without having to worry about unintended complications.

So I’ve broken this down into a mini guide over what precautions you should be taking and when to know when to back off.

1. Sex always has consequences
Whether they’re physical or emotional you always need to be aware that you’re connecting with another human being. Don’t fool yourself into thinking that you can treat people like pieces of meat (even when they ask you to – more on fetish another time) and walk away with a clear conscience. You both need to be aware of any boundaries and desires before you start banging away. Respect for one another is perhaps more important in casual sex then it is in a committed relationship. Would you like it if a near stranger treated you like shit? Treat your partners with the respect they deserve.

2. Safe Sex
It’s easy to get carried away in the heat of the moment but for fuck’s sake, use condoms, the pill, dental dams and any other method of safe sex to protect yourselves. An STD or unplanned pregnancies are things you don’t want to deal with so be sensible and use a fucking rubber before you bang each other’s brains out. If a new partner is willing to have unprotected sex with you then how do you know who else they’ve had unprotected sex with? Be smart and be safe.

3. If in doubt, stay away
If at any point you doubt your partner’s intentions, then it’s best to draw a line under the fling and move on. It’s really important to listen to your gut feelings in casual relationships. If someone sounds too good to be true, they probably are.

4. Feelings
We all have them, for better or worse. If you think you are developing stronger feelings towards your partner you need to address them rather then ignore them. You realistically have two options: talk to your partner, or walk away from the hook up. Choose whichever is best for you, although personally I would always recommend honesty over ignorance.

Keep these things in mind when hooking up, and remember to treat one another with respect. You might be fuck buddies but you’re also human beings.

Happy fucking, and stay safe.

F Buddy - safe sex rules

All I want for Christmas is an STD... on no wait a minute I really DON’T want that!

Casual Sex: Basic Safety Rules