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Save the planet – by having sex!

EdBennett — Fri, 09 Mar 2018 19:57:41 +0000

9 Mar 2018 - 19:57 | Tags: sex will save us, daily sex is a good thing, good casual sex

It has been a strange month! March is officially a time of spring, not winter. Meteorological spring began on the 1s March 2018 and ends on 31 May 2018. This means that this spring, we had snow! More than just normal snow, we had blizzards, and shafts of snow that obscured the skyline and made driving dangerous. Kids were having snowball fights in the street, and the cities and fields were covered in a white blanket that made everything look clean, crisp and fresh. It really was quite beautiful.

Climate change is here people, there is no denying it. If snow storms in spring are not a sign that the weather is changing, then I don’t know what it is going to take to convince people of its existence. If we want to survive we are going to have to start taking proactive action to save the planet. In this article I would like to talk about how you can do your part to help, by having sex. Lots, and lots of sex.

Sex is great for the planet

Things that are good for the planet are usually things that are natural, come from nature, do not consume excess or scarce resources, do not produce plastics or other nasty waste that become pollutants. Sex fills all these criteria: it is natural, one of the most natural things you can do; it consumes no real resource other than the contraceptive which you use; all “produce” from the act is biodegradable! It really does hit the green targets.

It saves energy

One of the key things that is causing climate change, is the burning of coal to produce electricity. Having a lot of sex cuts your electricity usage. Instead of watching TV, playing a computer game or other electricity using activity, you are in fact just using biological energy that you take directly from food! In addition, you are likely to be using less electric on your lights. I expect that you are at the least dimming the lights, if not running them off, or even using candles instead.

You stay in

Most of the time, sex involves doing it at home, especially if you have a fuck buddy or a friend with benefits. One of our big consumption of energy is transportation. For sex, you don’t have to go anywhere!

It makes you happy

Sex makes you happier, and the more positive you are as a person, the more that you are able to care about issues wider than your own. This means that the overall attitude shift that it encourages can cause you to be better for the planet.

So go have sex – for the good of the planet!

Why you need to use Condoms

EdBennett — Sun, 10 May 2015 10:44:37 +0000

10 May 2015 - 11:44 | Tags: safe sex, condoms, good casual sex

Only 19% of single women between the ages of 20 and 44 used condoms in 2008 according to a study by the Guttmacher Institute. In 2012 STI diagnoses rose in the UK by 5%. Instead of more people using contraceptives, more people are using it less and less. The idea of bareback sex is so attractive now; that we no longer seem to think that it carries any risk. Most of us using this site are after all, middle class and holding down a decent job. Yet we are at a higher risk of contracting a sexually transmitted infection/disease (STI/STD) than any other social group.

Strap it up before Hopping On
More and more men are going out unequipped. Women seem to have inherited the responsibility of going out prepared for sex with a stranger, yet both sexes are using condoms less and less. You would think that in an age where the world has experienced a massive HIV outbreak, unplanned pregnancies are still at a high rate and many STIs are virulent (Chlamydia and HPV are not pleasant – Google them if you don’t believe me), that we would all be exercising more caution when it comes to shagging around.

Yet we are not.

More young women admitted to having sex without a condom in 2014 in the UK than at any other time in the past decade. Excuses ranged from ‘it doesn’t feel as good with a condom on’ to ‘I think I might just be infertile so I might as well enjoy the sex as much as possible’. How smart, intelligent people can delude themselves so easily just frightens the crap out of me.

We all need to be safer when it comes to sex. Condoms do not prevent enjoyment; in fact they can enhance it with men managing to come later and women being able to experience different sensations depending on the condom. If it’s the feeling of skin on skin you’re after then you can even buy condoms that are designed to feel like you’re shagging without one.

We have never been in an age where contraception and protection against sexually transmitted diseases is so available, yet we choose not to use the protection available.

Think before you fuck
Having sex is one of life’s greatest pleasures. However it can also be the cause of some of life’s greatest problems. You don’t have to feel pressured to have unprotected sex. You have control over your body so look after it. Think of it this way; would you shake hands with somebody you know had just dipped their hands into the toilet? No of course you wouldn’t. So why have sex with somebody who wants to have unprotected sex with you for the first time when you don’t know who else they’ve been having sex with?

How to have GOOD casual sex

EdBennett — Sun, 09 Feb 2014 09:00:00 +0000

9 Feb 2014 - 09:00 | Tags: good casual sex

It’s always exciting to have sex with someone new. But it can also be fucking terrifying. You end up running loads of ‘What ifs?’ through your head.

“What if she hasn’t shaved her armpits?”
“What if he’s crap in bed?”
“What if she does a fake ‘porn moan’ during?”
“What if his dick is small and I can’t feel anything?”

If you let yourself go down those trains of thought then you’re more likely to run home and have a nice safe wank instead of exploring a great new opportunity to have sex with someone new.

So here are a few tips to help you enjoy some GOOD casual sex with someone new.

1. Make sure you fancy the person you’re going to have sex with
I know this sounds like a ‘no-brainer’ but you wouldn’t believe the number of people who have had sex with someone they just don’t like physically or mentally. Make sure the person you bang isn’t going to make you feel sick or disgusting after.

2. Clean up…but only a little bit
Make yourself look nice. Make your place look nice. But don’t go bat shit crazy and do a full leg wax/shave and spring clean on your pad before your new f-buddy comes a calling. This is a booty call, not a romantic dinner.

3. Don’t display all your nice food and drink
You’re there to have sex, not share all the nice food and drink you’ve bought for yourself. Put all your nice groceries away and out of sight. If your fuck buddy wants a drink, they can get a glass of water or get something themselves from the off license.

4. Remember your schedule and your alarm
You’re not there to spend hours talking or cozying up in bed after you’ve fucked. You’re there to fuck and enjoy each other. So if you’re not up for post-coital chat, make sure you remember that thing you’ve got to do and let your f-buddy know that it’s probably not best that they stay the night.

If you remember these rules, then you should enjoy your casual sex a lot more and generally be more chilled out.