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Top tips to have the best sex of your life during lock down

EdBennett — Wed, 01 Jul 2020 00:17:09 +0000

1 Jul 2020 - 01:17 | Tags: best sex, top tips for being sexy

Things have been in lock down now for coming up to 3 months, and things have been getting more and more difficult. The COVID-19 pandemic hit the UK and has disrupted all of our lives for the worse. Boris Johnson has tried to lead us the best he can, but ultimately it has resulted in shops being closed for a very long time, businesses suffering, the economy being hit, and a huge bill that will have to be paid to cover all the money spent on furlough. It is not a good time, and whilst the government are saying they are easing restrictions, it may well be that this is retracted subject to a second round of Covid-19. Even now, as things are calming, Leicester is not on lock down tighter than ever due to increased deaths. The Coronavirus rules our lives, whether we like it or not.

One of the few advantages of lock down is that it has created a large amount of extra time for a lot of people, time that previously people lacked. This has resulted in a lot of gardening, home improvements, and home exercise. The number of cycles sold has skyrocketed, and I have never seen so many enthusiastic joggers in my life! One of the things that this also provides space for is sex.

If you have a fuck buddy, then this is a great time to be having a lot of sex. With time off, or perhaps working from home, the opportunity to get down and dirty several times a day is now very much on the table. With all that time, now is the perfect time to be trying new things to improve your sex life. With that in mind, here are two top tips to help you do exactly that!

Get some sex toys

With the postal system still working, you may not be able to go to the shops, but you can order things and have them delivered to your door. Getting some sex toys in to surprise your partner is a great way to improve the sex. You may even learn new things about your partner!

Allow your fantasies to develop

With time to spare, having a little daydream about people you would like to have sex with is a great way to get you in the mood. You can then capitalise in on that by taking all that energy and seducing your fuck buddy. They don’t have to know that you have been thinking about someone else, they will love being the focus of all that fantasy-driven energy!

So use this time wisely whilst it is here. Time only moves forward, and sex now is the best sex, because you are having it, now, so do it!

How to make her scream in bed: Part 4

EdBennett — Mon, 18 Sep 2017 09:41:10 +0000

18 Sep 2017 - 10:41 | Tags: how to make her scream in bed, using the clitoris, best sex

Welcome to the f-buddy website, where we not only help you find that no strings attached relationship that you are looking for, but also help you keep your fuck buddy once you have found them with sex tips and guides to make sure that you are the very best in bed that you can be. We have been running a sequence of articles on how to make her scream in bed, we’d like to continue that with part of these tops tips on how to make sure that your neighbours file official noise complaints with the police every time she “comes” over to visit you.

Verbal: She wants to hear you say it

Most people tend to focus on the physical aspects of sex. Whilst this is all too important, a lot of horniness and sexiness also happens in the brain. We need to think it, not just physically feel it. So to come hard, she really needs to hear you tell her certain things. Now this will be different for different girls. Some girls what to hear you tell them that you desire nothing more than to make the, scream, things like “all I want to do is make you come” is a great line for these girls. For other girls, what really turns them on is being made more the object that that the prise, so assuring them that this is all about you not them, that they have no choice in the matter “take it” are strong words in this situation. Do remember that this is all in the spirit of fun. When picking your words you are choosing based on what is going to make them come harder, so be sensitive and think about the kind of person you are with if you really want your fuck buddy to scream with delight.

Physical: Work the clitoris indirectly

Working the clitoris is so important if you really want to drive her crazy. Did you know that the nerves that connect to the clitoris actually extend out to several inches either side? This means that the area around the “bud” is just as sensitive and ready for serious fore-play as the target itself. Use this! Working your way into the centre can build anticipation before you get there and her screaming for you to get on with it! Also larger, longer tongue strokes that cover the whole area are also a great idea in the lead up to more direct, targeted work.

So if you want to make her scream, make sure that you cover both the physical and mental needs of the girl. Work the brain and the body!

Remember: The best sex (s)he has ever had is the sex (s)he is having with you right now

EdBennett — Sat, 28 Nov 2015 10:24:39 +0000

28 Nov 2015 - 10:24 | Tags: best sex, best oral sex, sex is great

There are so many times and reasons that people feel don’t feel great about their sex life – and quite often a lot of these issues are in people’s minds. They carry them into the situation / relationship of their own accord and the other person is then saddled with trying to help deal with them or alleviate them. This is bad for *both* parties. So I hope to help alleviate some of these right now. Read this, and believe me, your life is about to be made much better.

Oh no - They didn't orgasm!

This is 95% when you are sleeping with a girl. You have sex, you come and they don’t orgasm. You feel terrible, you feel like you cheated them, and you feel all insecure about the fact that they didn’t orgasm. Get over it! It is in your head! They probably had a really good time, and even if they didn’t orgasm, remember the best sex you can have is the sex you are having right now – so they still had a better night than if you weren’t there at all.

Oh no – you are terrible at sex

You have all sorts of logical reasons to tell yourself you are terrible at sex. You are less experienced, you don’t know what you are doing with your hands and your fingers, you are a bad kisser, you come really quickly... the list is endless. This manifests itself when you are actually having sex. You are in the moment and you blow your own enjoyment because you are worried they are not going to be having as good a time as they could be. Nonsense! Remember. The best sex they have ever had is the sex they are having right now with you. So relax and enjoy yourself.

Oh no – they slept with loads more people before meeting you

Everyone has a history. Everyone has slept with someone before they met you. Maybe it is just one, or maybe it is one hundred, but likely they have had experiences with others. Do no get paranoid about it – this is the big orgasm killer! So they have slept with other people, so what? The sex with you out punches any sex they had previously... and do you know why? I can tell you if you haven’t already understood this – the best sex they have ever had is the sex that they are having right now! Even if they slept with a Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie, they are having the best sex of their life with you because it is now, and nothing in the past exists anymore.

Remember this – and go forth and be confident!

What’s the best sex you’ve ever had?

EdBennett — Thu, 22 May 2014 16:05:35 +0000

22 May 2014 - 17:05 | Tags: best sex

What’s the best sex you’ve ever had?

Everyone, everywhere at some point has had this question bounce around their head. It can be equally fun and ridiculous to think about. It’s surprising the amount of people who lie about it as well (usually so as not to offend or upset a current or ex lover)

It is a hard question – in both senses of the word – for all our members to figure out. I actually tried to think of my best time when pondering the question and I admit to being a little stumped. There have been some great experiences for me and ones that like most people I would rather forget. It’s difficult to choose a favourite. So what I’ve done is collate a short list of my own top sex experiences to inspire you to create some more of your own.

My Top Sex Experiences

1. The Underground Entry
I was in an underground bar in London with my girlfriend at the time. She was a little tipsy and kept leaning in (so none of our friends around us could hear) whispering “I just want to suck your cock!” I laughed and went to the loo a few minutes later (just to go to the loo) and found her waiting outside when I came out. She pushed me back into the toilet (the gents was a separate single unit which had a lock but gaps at the top and bottom which was weird) unzipped my flies and immediately set to work. She always gave an amazing blow job but this was better then normal as I was genuinely terrified we were going to be caught by someone – if nothing else someone waiting to use the toilet. After a while I pulled her up, kissed her and then undid her trousers, pulling down her knickers before turning her around, leaning her against the sink and entering her from behind. The risk factor made the experience one of the best and most memorable I’ve had. I still get hard whenever I think about it…excuse me a moment…

2. Party Time
This was a one night stand (though neither of us knew it at the time). I had taken this girl along with me to a friends’ party. I had fancied her for ages but despite several close encounters nothing had happened yet. After everyone had gotten too drunk and either gone to bed or passed out in another room, it was just the two of us left alone. She said she’d sleep on the chair. I told her to stop being so ridiculous and told her she could sleep on the sofa with me. With her spooned up against my chest after a while I reached around and started stroking her hand. She reciprocated and this went on for a good few minutes. Our skin was so sensitive to one another’s touch that we could both feel our hearts pounding – something was going to happen it was now just a question of when. Eventually I had enough, pulled her round to face me gently and kissed her. The kissing grew more aggressive and we started biting each other. My hands were down her back, on her arse (she had such a nice pert bum) and then in her knickers stroking her pussy. She got so wet that her knickers got soaked. I had to take them off before throwing her on her back and entering her deeply right there on my friend’s sofa. I hadn’t even taken off her top or bra and to this day still don’t know what her breasts looked like. A pity, but she was so hot and sexy that I really don’t care. It wasn’t the most satisfying sex I’ve had – we were both drunk – but it was one of the most electrifying experiences I’ve had.

3. Fair Cop Guv
Second date sex? Fine by me! I’d met this pretty blonde girl online funnily enough but didn’t realise she lived so far away from me at the time. She was an ex-copper turned teacher (that’s 2 fantasies rolled into one hot woman!) When we’d both figured it out we decided to meet up anyway as we’d been chatting for a while. It was clear after the first coffee that we wanted to meet up again. So I went down to see her the following weekend. She wasn’t ready to go out when I arrived and was still in her dressing gown and hair curlers. Embarrassed that she wasn’t ready, I smiled and kissed her straight away – I wanted her to know that I didn’t care and that I though she looked sexy anyway. We actually made it to the cinema and back without ripping one another’s clothes off but the moment we got back to her flat and into the bedroom I began massaging her breasts under her pyjama top. Her nipples got so hard and her breathing so deep that it just turned me on even more. I went down on her for nearly half an hour – she was completely bald down below which turned me on even more (no pubic hair to pick out of my teeth) and we had this amazingly long and passionate sex session which ended up with both of us passing out limbs all over each other. The following morning she woke me up with a handjob, ordered me to get a condom and pulled me up to enter her from behind whilst we were lying down. That was hard, fast, intense and we both came at the same time – something which is really hard to do when you don’t know someone that well.

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