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How to appear more attractive to the opposite sex

EdBennett — Thu, 20 Jul 2017 20:27:58 +0000

20 Jul 2017 - 21:27 | Tags: being attractive, hot body = hot sex, hooking up

When people want to get laid more, there are a number of things that they immediately think of doing, all of which have a varying degree of effectiveness. In this article we are going to focus on attraction. So here are some top tips on how to appear more attractive to the opposite sex.

Losing weight is a big one – and an effective one. Dropping a few excess pounds will make you more attractive to the opposite sex. Period.
Hitting the gym. Building lean muscles again will make you more attractive to the opposite sex. Everyone loves someone with a great body – and everyone can do something about improving their body, so why not do this?
Go clothes shopping for a new wardrobe. Again this can drastically alter ones appearance so that you can instantly look better and more attractive as a sexual partner.
Buy a new watch or car. The extravagant spending of money in order to quickly display that you have a large disposable income is a very old way of trying to attract a sex partner. This absolutely works – bear in mind that it attracts a certain type of person however. Great for finding a hookup or a fuck buddy, probably not such a good choice if you want a lasting monogamous relationship.
Change jobs. This again can be really effective, it has the triple effect of raising your income, giving you new status as long as you move to bigger company or a better job title, and you meet a whole bunch of new people amongst which may well be your next fuck buddy. This is a pretty great choice – though it is also a lot of effort.
Pay for a professional photo shoot. This is a really great investment! Given how much dating and hook-ups happen on line, having a set of really amazing photos of yourself looking attractive and with it, is a highly worthwhile investment. As well as dating you can use these on your facebook age, or linked in profile to make yourself pop out of the page more. I would highly recommend this as a choice. Warning: Do not photo shop too much or you will look too much “under” what you look like in your photo! Advice: Google “actors head shot photographer”. This will get you a higher quality picture at a lower cost as they are pricing it for professionals.

So there are some top tips for you to be getting on with. Don’t forget to message a few people as well. Doesn’t matter how attractive you are if no one knows you exist.

How to have sex in hot weather

EdBennett — Fri, 20 May 2016 11:36:34 +0000

20 May 2016 - 12:36 | Tags: hot body = hot sex, hot stuff, sex in the summer, summer sex, summer sex tips

It is amazing how much the temperature can affect us in all sorts of ways. As humans we are really susceptible to the heat and the cold. Too cold and we freeze up, unable to function. We loose our co ordination, our fingers become fumbly and are limbs stiff (and not in a sexy good way!). The funny thing is that too hot and the same thing happens in terms of debilitation! Too hot and we want to lie around and do nothing, our motivation drops to an all time low and all we really want to do is sit around and not move. It is really hard to get anything involving physical labour done – even when it is something super fun like sex! What fickle picky creatures we are! We really need the exact right temperature in order to survive.

So summer rolls in and everything gets a little too warm what with global warming kicking in. You don’t want your sex life to diminish, so what do you do in order to keep things hot in the bedroom without them being so hot you do nothing at all!? Here are some top tips to get around it!

How Low can you go!

Did you ever do fire safety? Remember all that stuff about dropping to the ground because heat rises?! Well this is a universal truth! If things are getting hot upstairs in the bedroom, consider taking it downstairs to where it is much cooler! Not only can you benefit from the cooler temperatures lower down, if you are able to, taking it into the kitchen onto a naturally cool surface like the tiled floor will quickly drop things to where you can get to it!

Avoid skin contact

So much of sex is rubbing up and down each other... but this both generates a lot of heat, and you are also sharing your natural body warmth with the other person. Great for winter, bad for summer! Consider playing a game – sex with minimum contact! Doing it doggy style whilst standing up is particularly great for this.

Time to get her wet!

Take it to the water! The romantic “film” thing to do is have sex in a lake in the mountains, but failing that you have a shower you can do it in, a bath will also provide the same temperature drop, and for those of you looking for some frisky outdoor fun, a garden watering system like a sprinkler or a hose left on can be really rather exciting!

So don’t let the heat dampen your sexual spirits, take one of these tips and get straight back on with it!

Hot body = Hot sex? Not necessarily.

EdBennett — Sun, 09 Nov 2014 12:21:55 +0000

9 Nov 2014 - 12:21 | Tags: hot body = hot sex

You know the FHM 100 Sexiest lists that are published every year? Of course you do! Hundreds of photos of sexy celebrities posing semi nude looking stereotypically hot and gorgeous. All staring at the camera as if winking at you in the knowledge that they know they’re hot and are sex gods and goddesses in the bedroom.

Well do you know what? Being stereotypically sexy does not translate into being a demon in the bedroom.

The Pretty Truth
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I never used to believe that until I started sleeping with lots of different women. My original narrow view of what a woman ‘had to look like’ to gain my interest soon went out of the window. One of the first girls I slept with had amazing breasts and a really nice arse, but she wasn’t the ‘media classically attractive’ woman. She had curves and her abs were not toned. She did not have perfect lips or blemish free skin. She looked like a real woman. Un-airbrushed and sexy as hell. And do you know what? She was a demon in the bedroom and certainly taught me a thing or two about sex and how to make a woman orgasm.

A stereotypically hot body like Michelle Keegan, Helen Flannigan, Beyonce Knowles or Scarlett Johannson does not mean that these women are any good in bed. (Disclaimer: no offence intended ladies and I’m sure you could all prove me wrong) Some of the best and most satisfying sex I have had is with women who don’t look perfect 100% of the time. The best sex I have ever had is with women who are just comfortable in their own skin. Confidence is a big winner when it comes to sex from both men and women. If you don’t have any your partner is going to be able to tell straight away.

I’ve slept with a page 3 model before (no I’m not blowing my trumpet, just stating some facts) but it wasn’t brilliant. She looked how a page 3 model should look – nice boobs, nice bum, full lips etc. But she just wasn’t the best sex I have ever had. It wasn’t her fault. It’s just we weren’t a good match sexually speaking. And that’s the other thing you need to bear in mind when browsing for a fuck buddy. If you go just for looks then you are bound to be disappointed when it comes to having sex. If however you take a closer look at the individual personality you might just find the right sexual match and it might not even be the one you thought you were looking for.

Stay open minded and remember: hot body does not always equal hot sex.