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Sex trends that are coming in 2020

EdBennett — Wed, 26 Feb 2020 20:43:12 +0000

26 Feb 2020 - 20:43 | Tags: future predictions, the science of attraction, new year resolutions

We are now a few months into 2020 and the year has gotten off to a fantastic start! We have had a whole host of new members join the fuck buddy website looking for no strings attached relationships. As we move into 2020, what was once taboo has become more and more the norm. Having a friends with benefits relationship is something that has become more commonplace. As things change, here at the fuck buddy website, we decided we wanted to take a look at what may be in store in 2020. To help out, we have some predictions from the sex toy company LELO to help us look to the coming year.

Open and Poly Relationships are going to become more normal

The previous years have seen a huge exploration into different genders and sexual preferences. As these have become more and more acceptable, more people that have a preference that they otherwise would have ignored are “coming out” and living their truths. This means that in 2020, we are likely to see more open relationships and poly relationships. Having a fuck buddy will become more normal as more people chose to do it. Bring on 2020 I say!

More single women

In 1971 the average age for marriage was 22.4 years. In 2018 it became 31. As people marry later and later, we have more women single for longer. What we are also seeing is women choosing to remain single rather than marry! This means we are going to see more and more single women as time goes on. This is not to say that they will not have fuck buddies or hook up, only that their “status” will remain as single.

Sex dolls

According to LELO we will see more sex dolls being used! There is a café in London that is planning on opening as a sex doll café. You go in, have a coffee and a sex doll session before popping back to work or to your next meeting! Radical steps like this are going to make the use of sex dolls more acceptable, and according to LELO, mean there are more of them in the world.

Artificial Intelligence

Artificial intelligence is already a reality in many other industries, why should it not become a sexual reality? According to LELO, by using biometric data, AI will be able to start to learn and predict our habits and desires, thus being able to tailor its delivery to better satisfy us sexually.

So there are some of the top predictions for 2020. Having a great year.

Sex positive resolutions for summer

EdBennett — Sun, 12 Jun 2016 22:31:13 +0000

12 Jun 2016 - 23:31 | Tags: best times to have sex, new year resolutions

Resolutions aren’t always for New Year’s! Summer is the time of year when people often feel best about themselves, have more fun and are more positive. Maybe it’s the heat, the vitamin D, or going on that summer holiday that does it for you, but inevitably you’ll want to be your best self. Summer is also a great time for sex - you can fuck someone on your bed without shivering and trying to keep the duvet wrapped around you, you can have a hot holiday fling or hook-up with someone at a festival. Given that we are approaching this long-awaited season, it’s time for some ‘sex positive’ resolutions for summer that will spice up your sex life and make this summer the hottest one yet:

Try something new
This can be a crazy new sex position, or exploring an area of fetishism such as roleplay, bdsm or sex in public places. Maybe you’ve never used toys or food in the bedroom before - this summer’s for experimentation, so take a step out of your comfort zone and try something you’ve never done before. You might stumble across something orgasmic and never look back!  

Work on improving an aspect of your appearance
Get a gym membership to get ripped, get a slick new haircut or perhaps get your teeth whitened. Whatever you think will make you feel really good about yourself this summer - work on it, so then next time you’re sunbathing on a beach or strolling through London in the sun, you are ready to make heads turn.  

Get some decent summer threads
Girls often look best in summer wear - shorts and crop tops that show off curves and tanned skin, or flattering and sexy summer dresses. By contrast, men can so often get it wrong. Open a fashion blog or two and get some summer clothes that make you look more Calvin Klein than David Cameron. You’ll be pulling in no time.

Spend more time naked
Say you have the house to yourself for a bit - get your kit off. It’s warm, and it feels so liberating. Plus it will help you feel extra confident about your body, which can improve your performance in the bedroom.  

Have more sex
Ok, yeah, this is always a resolution. But make an extra effort for summer - it’s supposed to be the season of fun, anyway! Be reckless if you have to - be late for work once or twice in the name of sex, or throw caution to the winds and have sex at work. Just find a way to fit it in (literally!).

New Year’s Sex Resolutions

EdBennett — Mon, 05 Jan 2015 15:29:42 +0000

5 Jan 2015 - 15:29 | Tags: new year, Sex, new year resolutions

Christmas is over and everyone has stumbled back into work yawning and rubbing their eyes. It’s cold in the UK at the moment and I have a feeling most of the office would have rather stayed in bed this morning. That got us thinking though about what to do in January. The first few months of the year are always a bit of a chore. The weather’s bad, the days are still short and the summer seems a long way off. More people are depressed in the winter months than at any other time in the year. Sex is the best solution to this problem and whatever your status (single, married, divorced, separated) it is in your best interest to have as much sex as possible. So here are some resolutions we want all our members new and old to commit to.

1. Try harder
If you haven’t been getting enough sex the only person to blame is yourself. There is always a good match for everyone. Try a bit harder on your searching and don’t give up.

2. Exercise more
It’s clinically proven that increased exercise = an increased sex drive. In the winter it is more important to keep your metabolism stable and your hormone levels balanced as the bad weather can affect your moods badly.

3. Sleep in more with a partner
Morning sex (especially in the winter) is great. Your body is already naturally relaxed before the day’s stresses kick in and having a romp before work is the best way to start. You’ll be more productive trust me.

4. Try new positions
If you’ve become stuck in the same old routine then now is the time to try something new. Be spontaneous and try a few new positions to get your motor revving.

5. Masturbate More
Bet you never thought you’d hear a blog recommend masturbating more frequently, but it’s proven to help reduce stress and calm your demeanour. If you’re horny and home alone give it a go and remember to give yourself time with your body.

6. Take the ‘Every Day’ Challenge
Reckon you can have sex every day for a month? Put it on your to do list for the coming month and see how far you can get.

7. Talk more sex
By this I mean start flirting and being more suggestive with your partners and/or any potential partners. It’s time to let your brain take control and guide you towards the best sex in 2015

8. Explore Fantasies
It’s time to explore your imagination and try out any fantasies that have been brewing in your head. Don’t be afraid to explore your desires with another partner.