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Sexting and texting as foreplay

EdBennett — Fri, 15 Jun 2018 08:39:03 +0000

15 Jun 2018 - 09:39 | Tags: sexting, correct foreplay, dirty texting, texting

Everyone loves foreplay. It can take so many different forms and ways, there are endless variations on how one can build up to sex. For many people, the obvious foreplay is the physical foreplay that happens before sex. Getting or giving a blow job, going down on a girl before having sex to make her nice and wet, fingering a girl to loosen her up and make her “pre-come” are all really good things to do pre sex. I want to talk about the long game foreplay, things that can be done before you are even present. For this article, I am going to be focusing on sexting and texting.7

The invention of the mobile phone and the ability to text each other has opened up a whole avenue of communication. You can send someone an instant message that, unlike a phone call, they can pick up at the first convenient moment that they are free. Whilst this originated for business purposes, this has become a huge social tool. This can also be used to build someone up to sex really powerfully.

The longer you have someone thinking about sex in the run up to it, the more that they are going to want to rip your clothes off the moment that they see you. Texting is a great way of doing this.

It is a good idea to start slow. Start with something simple that reminds them that sex is happening later. This can be anything from “thinking about you” through to “Booty call tonight – 7pm – wear heals!”. You can be as subtle or bold as you feel.

Then slowly build it up. Text them the kinds of things that you are going to do to them, the thoughts you are having about them. You want to get more and more explicit as you go along, as the hours tick down to the moment that you are going to meet. If you do it right, by the time you do meet, you won’t even have to talk to each other, you will just jump each other’s bones!

If you are feeling confident, you can also do it using photos. This can just be a selfie of your face in the morning, again getting more explicit as you get closer to the event. This should be handeled with care. Leaving things to the imagination is really important to foreplay, so try to make your photos suggestive rather than totally explicit. A girl in lacy nearly see through underwear is inexplicably more sexy than just a naked girl. This follows this rule nicely.

So next time you have your fuck buddy over for a sex date, or you have a hook up lined up, think about setting yourself up for a successful night with a little sexting as the day goes on. A little effort during the day will go a long way for the evening.

Top 5 Mistakes People Make on the 1st Message

EdBennett — Thu, 13 Aug 2015 14:42:08 +0000

13 Aug 2015 - 15:42 | Tags: casual sex, messaging, sexting

It’s a bit like a revolving subject this one, but the reason we and so many other blogs keep talking about it is because people (guys mostly I’m afraid) don’t seem to know what to say on their first message. Many people seem to think that the best way to grab a potential f-buddy’s attention is to talk about their penis or be unable to say anything other than ‘Hi Babe’. If you haven’t already figured it out, messages like these just go straight in the bin. Below we run through the top 5 mistakes people (mostly guys - sorry guys but its true!) make when sending their first message.

1. Sending a Wink

So you decide you like the look of someone’s profile. Great! But instead of messaging, you send a shitty little emoticon instead. Because you’ve done this your message will now be binned. Goodbye Captain Can’t-be-arsed-to-write-a-proper message.

2. Saying ‘Hi Babe, you’re gorgeous!’

Really, people still send these messages. Not only is it boring, dull and insulting, it’s just pathetic. Again this kind of message will be going straight into the bin.

3. ‘Hi’

Possibly the stupidest message to send to someone. Okay so you want to say hello, but what else? Like who you are? Why you decided to message? Come on people! It’s really not that hard to think of something more interesting than ‘Hi’.

4. Taking too long to respond to her message

Guys do this more than women. Taking long to respond to someone’s message is not only rude, it’s stupid. Guess what hot shot? The chances of her messaging you back after you’ve done something like this are literally zero. Why? Because she thinks you’ve lost interest. It doesn’t make you seem cool or mysterious or busy if you don’t message back within a reasonable time. It just makes you look like a dick. Which you are if you do this.

5. Asking for personal information too soon

Red alert! This is by far the biggest mistake a lot of people (guys again!) make when sending a first message. Would you give out all your personal details to a complete stranger? No? So why ask someone you haven’t even met yet for theirs? Wake up!

The Sexting Do’s & Don’ts in 2015

EdBennett — Thu, 15 Jan 2015 11:26:40 +0000

15 Jan 2015 - 11:26 | Tags: sexting, dirty texting, casual sex rules

It’s something that everyone has been doing or tried at least once since mobile phones became common place. Sexting is something that can go incredibly right, or outrageously wrong depending on your point of view. To be successful at sexting (text messaging with a sexual undertone in case you’re new to this term), you need to be realistic about the type of relationship you’re in. As we are a site dedicated to the more casual relationship, we will focus on the do’s and don’ts of sexting in this context.

DO
Be Coy at first
Nothing screams ‘Desperate!’ more than blatant sexual overtures before you’ve even met the person you’re trying to get into bed. Be a little coy when you try sexting a new person for the first time.

DON’T
Send a picture of your genitals
Wrong! Wrong! Wrong! For some reason a lot of guys think that apping a picture of their penis to a potential fuck buddy is a huge turn on. Some women think that sending a picture of their vagina will have guys gagging for it. Clue: both are a huge turn off. The most powerful sexual organ of the body is the brain. Try using it a bit before sexting someone.

DO
Send provocative pics
Remember how we said that sending pics of your willy or pussy is wrong? Well sending pics of you in some sexy underwear or with your shirt of can be a little more alluring. The clue is in the word ‘allure’. You’re teasing at this point. That can be more a turn on then any dick or vag shot that you think might work.

DON’T
Text anything you don’t want other people to see
If the idea of a date’s friends seeing you in the nude or in your skimpies has your blood running cold then don’t send the pic. If the idea of someone other than your man/woman reading messages that would have you blushing in public, don’t send them. Sexting is as much of a modern art form as poetry. The idea is to arouse the intended recipient, not their friends.

DO
Share your fantasies
There are many ways of sharing your sexual fantasies and texting them to your fuck buddy is the way to get you both sexually simmering for one another.

DON’T
Sext before you’ve actually had sex
Before you’ve actually slept with them, don’t sext your partner. Again premature sexting will usually lead to absolutely no sex. Wait a little before you start doing it.