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Top texts to send to your fuck buddy the day after

EdBennett — Sun, 30 Oct 2022 23:19:41 +0000

30 Oct 2022 - 23:19 | Tags: when to text after sex, texting, dirty texting

Finding a fuck buddy can take a lot of effort. It can be a real chore sometimes, but when you find one all that effort is worth it. There are many staple things in life that will make you happy. Good food is a real pleaser, being warm (pretty basic) but that is a really happiness giver. Having sex with someone for the first time is also a real kicker! That being said, whilst the first time there are a lot of things to do with the newness and novelty that make it really good, when it comes to having really deep pleasure it takes time to get to know each other. You really do need to learn to play each other, in some ways it is like learning to play an instrument. The more you practice, the better you get. Just like learning music, whilst learning the notes stays the same across everything, each piece (or person) comes with their own nuances. So getting to hook up with the same person a second time is always good.

So you have a great time, you want to hook up with that person again… what do you text them the next day in order to make that happen? Well if you are having trouble coming up with what to send, here are some top suggestions of what you can text to maximise your chances of hitting that up again.

“Last night was hot, hot, HOT (even if I do say so myself)!”

So this is a compliment that is then rounded off with turning it to yourself. You want to compliment, but by jokingly taking credit keeps it playful and bleeds out any neediness (which is a real sex killer). This is solid one to use.

“Care for round two?”

I love the directness of this one. You are straight in there. This says that you had fun, you liked them and you are up for it again. It also oozes confidence to the maximum. Only really confident people would go this direct. It remains a little jokey due to the “round to” reference to a fight.

“The first time isn’t always great, but last night was astonishing”

This is also really strong. The reader, your targeted no strings attached relationship, starts by thinking that you are saying that it wasn’t great… and then BAM you turn it around and flip the script. They will read it and, at the least, smile. More likely you will get something back.

So if you had a good time with your fuck buddy, ping out one of these and see if you can do it again!

Sexting and texting as foreplay

EdBennett — Fri, 15 Jun 2018 08:39:03 +0000

15 Jun 2018 - 09:39 | Tags: sexting, correct foreplay, dirty texting, texting

Everyone loves foreplay. It can take so many different forms and ways, there are endless variations on how one can build up to sex. For many people, the obvious foreplay is the physical foreplay that happens before sex. Getting or giving a blow job, going down on a girl before having sex to make her nice and wet, fingering a girl to loosen her up and make her “pre-come” are all really good things to do pre sex. I want to talk about the long game foreplay, things that can be done before you are even present. For this article, I am going to be focusing on sexting and texting.7

The invention of the mobile phone and the ability to text each other has opened up a whole avenue of communication. You can send someone an instant message that, unlike a phone call, they can pick up at the first convenient moment that they are free. Whilst this originated for business purposes, this has become a huge social tool. This can also be used to build someone up to sex really powerfully.

The longer you have someone thinking about sex in the run up to it, the more that they are going to want to rip your clothes off the moment that they see you. Texting is a great way of doing this.

It is a good idea to start slow. Start with something simple that reminds them that sex is happening later. This can be anything from “thinking about you” through to “Booty call tonight – 7pm – wear heals!”. You can be as subtle or bold as you feel.

Then slowly build it up. Text them the kinds of things that you are going to do to them, the thoughts you are having about them. You want to get more and more explicit as you go along, as the hours tick down to the moment that you are going to meet. If you do it right, by the time you do meet, you won’t even have to talk to each other, you will just jump each other’s bones!

If you are feeling confident, you can also do it using photos. This can just be a selfie of your face in the morning, again getting more explicit as you get closer to the event. This should be handeled with care. Leaving things to the imagination is really important to foreplay, so try to make your photos suggestive rather than totally explicit. A girl in lacy nearly see through underwear is inexplicably more sexy than just a naked girl. This follows this rule nicely.

So next time you have your fuck buddy over for a sex date, or you have a hook up lined up, think about setting yourself up for a successful night with a little sexting as the day goes on. A little effort during the day will go a long way for the evening.

Create a safe space for dirty talk – it may lead to all sorts of dirty actions!

EdBennett — Thu, 12 May 2016 12:48:22 +0000

12 May 2016 - 13:48 | Tags: dirty talk, dirty texting

Dirty talk is something that different people are comfortable to such different extents. We all come from such varied backgrounds when it comes to this one matter of the bedroom. I know some people that love it. They talk dirty to their partner all the time, and they do so with great gusto and confidence. Often in these cases the partner more than willingly joins in and dirty talks back to them as well - and so they bounce off each other until they get so horney that before they know it they are bouncing on top of each other!

Other people come from a much more reserved and shy background. They are unused to talking dirty and so they approach it with much trepidation and fear. What if they say the wrong things? What if what they say turns the other person off, or insults them or makes you sound stupid in some way? We all have a front of sorts that we erect in front of the other person, a version of ourselves that we put up and portray. If we are having sex with that person then we know for sure that this version of ourselves is one that is attractive and much liked... why would we risk that by trying something that we have never done before, something that we are not very good at, and something that almost guaranteed that we will do badly to begin with until we get to the point of actually becoming good at it? This is the point that I would like to address in this article. The why.

Why do dirty talk despite any fear

The reason is because of where it might take you. We all have a lot of fear when it comes to sharing our innermost desires & wishes. We put ourselves on the line when it comes to being vulnerable with the other person and we leave ourselves open to having our hearts ripped out... so why do it? Well the answer is the reward. The gain.

Dirty talk can lead you from playfully saying the odd word or whispering the odd known desire, to whispering the unknown desires. Once you have shared and gotten used to saying what you want to do, what you are going to do that they are comfortable with, you can then step forward to saying the things that you want to do that perhaps you are unsure that they are going to be up for. You can start sharing the things you really really want to do but have never done before. When said in the setting of dirty talk they are more likely to be accepted and carried out.

So dirty talk, because you don’t know where that might lead you – and you might find that it leads you both to extremely exciting places!

The Sexting Do’s & Don’ts in 2015

EdBennett — Thu, 15 Jan 2015 11:26:40 +0000

15 Jan 2015 - 11:26 | Tags: sexting, dirty texting, casual sex rules

It’s something that everyone has been doing or tried at least once since mobile phones became common place. Sexting is something that can go incredibly right, or outrageously wrong depending on your point of view. To be successful at sexting (text messaging with a sexual undertone in case you’re new to this term), you need to be realistic about the type of relationship you’re in. As we are a site dedicated to the more casual relationship, we will focus on the do’s and don’ts of sexting in this context.

DO
Be Coy at first
Nothing screams ‘Desperate!’ more than blatant sexual overtures before you’ve even met the person you’re trying to get into bed. Be a little coy when you try sexting a new person for the first time.

DON’T
Send a picture of your genitals
Wrong! Wrong! Wrong! For some reason a lot of guys think that apping a picture of their penis to a potential fuck buddy is a huge turn on. Some women think that sending a picture of their vagina will have guys gagging for it. Clue: both are a huge turn off. The most powerful sexual organ of the body is the brain. Try using it a bit before sexting someone.

DO
Send provocative pics
Remember how we said that sending pics of your willy or pussy is wrong? Well sending pics of you in some sexy underwear or with your shirt of can be a little more alluring. The clue is in the word ‘allure’. You’re teasing at this point. That can be more a turn on then any dick or vag shot that you think might work.

DON’T
Text anything you don’t want other people to see
If the idea of a date’s friends seeing you in the nude or in your skimpies has your blood running cold then don’t send the pic. If the idea of someone other than your man/woman reading messages that would have you blushing in public, don’t send them. Sexting is as much of a modern art form as poetry. The idea is to arouse the intended recipient, not their friends.

DO
Share your fantasies
There are many ways of sharing your sexual fantasies and texting them to your fuck buddy is the way to get you both sexually simmering for one another.

DON’T
Sext before you’ve actually had sex
Before you’ve actually slept with them, don’t sext your partner. Again premature sexting will usually lead to absolutely no sex. Wait a little before you start doing it.