Pulling a girl when clubbing

EdBennett — Fri, 12 May 2017 19:10:54 +0000

12 May 2017 - 20:10 | Tags: strip clubs, pulling, how to get laid

If you are out for a night out and you are single, you are probably really up for getting laid on that night out if you can make it happen. I am not saying that it is the focus of your night, I am not saying that you wouldn’t have a good time if you didn’t sleep with someone at the end of it (or even during it for that matter!). What I am saying is that it usually adds to an evening if you get laid whilst out. A good night is a good story, and that always makes it a better story – besides is there any high greater than that of having sex? The very survival of our very species depends on us being addicted to that high! Naturally it is one of the best feelings that we can experience. So if you are on a night out clubbing, how do you pull?

Pub rules are all out

The usual rules of pulling in a pub are all out of the window. Usually in a pub you would make eye contact, go and start a conversation in some way, do a little playful back and forth, a little pushing them away and pulling them in, start touching them on the arm or the lower back more and more until eventually you kiss them. This is a long tried and tested sequence. In a club all of this goes out of the window for one reason – the noise.

The noise kills all other approached

Any approach that you may have had from when you were at a party or in a pub go out the window when you have no way of being heard. Trying to use language or even speaking is just hard work, and the other person has no reason to try and listen to you at that point, they have no idea who you are so there is no reason for them to try and hear you! So give up on this.

Go physical

The only way to pull in a club is to go super physical. Make eye contact strong and early, then confidently more straight in by dancing with them physically, escalate the physical contact quickly, then pull them in and kiss them. Done. There is no other approach that you can take! The noise kills any other option, so don’t even bother trying anything else but this!

The Value of Strip Clubs?

EdBennett — Sun, 01 Mar 2015 11:58:30 +0000

1 Mar 2015 - 11:58 | Tags: strippers, strip clubs, value of stripping, casual sex

Someone asked me recently what the point of strip clubs are? I couldn’t actually answer for a good five minutes. It seemed stupid to say ‘you get to look at naked women’, but that really is the point of strip clubs. You go there to look at naked women. Not just any naked women mind you. Strippers are usually very tones and fit. They have to be to do their job. So then my friend asked me their next question: what’s the value of strip clubs? You pay a lot to get in, and then even more to get a lap dance. What’s the point? You can’t touch any of the strippers, and sex is so far removed as a possibility that the whole thing comes off as a giant tease. But that’s what stripping is; a tease. There is value to that, especially if you’re a guy.

The True Value of Strip Clubs
1. They’re essentially harmless
I’d rather be a guy ogling naked ladies in a safe environment than a guy ogling partially naked ladies on the beach and trying not to be caught. Stripping is the fantasy where you don’t have to feel embarrassed for looking.

2. You don’t have to get embarrassed
See the above point.

3. It’s fun
I know that sounds weird, but going to a strip club can be a lot of fun. Why do you think so many stag dos and hen dos hire strippers or go to strip clubs? It’s a bit of harmless fun.

4. The girls are well looked after
A good strip club really looks after the staff. The bouncers are there for a reason: to protect the strippers from any wondering hands or potential problems.

5. The girls get paid a lot
A woman can earn more money in 1 night of stripping than she can from an entire month of working in an office or a shop.

6. It’s not exploitative
There are male and female strip clubs and strippers. The people who work there choose to work there. They do it for quick easy cash, to support study or as a career. I don’t think it’s appropriate to judge people’s motives for choosing this as a job.

7. Like any tease it can work as an aphrodisiac
Many couples frequent strip clubs. There’s a reason for that: it can greatly aid peoples’ sex lives.

Don’t write off strip clubs until you’ve tried them. They are not to everyone’s taste, but that doesn’t mean they have no value.

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Pulling a girl when clubbing

Pub rules are all out

The noise kills all other approached

Go physical

The Value of Strip Clubs?