How to give/get the best blow job

EdBennett — Wed, 20 Sep 2017 17:55:20 +0000

20 Sep 2017 - 18:55 | Tags: best oral sex, how to give the best blow job, oral sex techniques

Fore play is so important when it comes to having sex. Whilst the “main event” is what everyone is aiming for, without the lead up to it, you can find you arrive to an anti-climax. Much like life being as much about the journey as the destination, a good orgasm has a lead up to it, and without the lead up to the orgasm, the orgasm generally won’t be as good as it could have been. This is especially true when sleeping with a fuck buddy.

The nice thing about a no string attached relationship, is that it can come from a place of honesty. There are no strings, there is no reason to have to lie, re frame or obfuscate in any way. This honesty can mean you have the best sex of your life. You can find yourself being able to talk to the other person about the sex without feeling awkward or weird about it. This means that being able to give advice is as important as being able to take it.

So this article is for both men and women, because if you can’t tell a girl how to give you the greatest blow job ever, how are you ever going to be able to get one?

Eye contact

When a girl gives a guy a blow job, there is something about them looking up and making eye contact that sends a thrill of excitement through the guy. It is the “fuck me” look. When a girl is sucking a guys cock and she looks up with that “I want you, please please fuck me” pleading look in her eyes, there is nothing more exciting. If you are girl, try it. If you are a guy, tell your girl to do it. You will both love the reaction!

Go three dimensional!

Most blow jobs are two dimensional, they go up and down the shaft. I say go three dimensional! As the girl works her way down the shaft, she should rotate her head side to side in a corkscrew motion. As she gets to the tip, take a moment to use the tip of her tongue to play with the underside of the head, coming off the whole penis really slowly. This will drive him crazy!

Remember the balls!!!

How many girls forget to play with the balls when giving a blow job? For the love of sex, please remember to play with the balls. Tickle them, stroke them, caress them… they are as close to boobs as a man can get. Do not neglect them.

Here’s to blow jobs. Thank good ness they were invented!

Oral Sex Technique

EdBennett — Mon, 09 Mar 2015 11:19:21 +0000

9 Mar 2015 - 11:19 | Tags: oral sex techniques, best oral sex, how to give oral sex

Everyone who’s ever gone down on someone else or had someone go down on them knows for a fact that it takes practise to be good at oral sex. For women oral sex is sometimes the only way to achieve orgasm. That means a guy has to be good when he’s going below. Men are pretty easy to get off, but there are lessons to be learned by any woman who thinks she’s great at blow jobs. You have to know exactly how to titillate a man’s penis in order to get him to come properly. So below are the best ways to sort yourself and your partner out when you go down.

1. Cunnilingus
Every guy likes a good blow job. Cunnilingus is the equivalent for women and involves the expert use of your tongue. It’s not just about licking her vagina out like a dog; it’s about using your tongue as the best stimulator in the world. Vary the rhythm, the flow and the speed. Don’t just focus on one spot, focus on the whole area.

2. Foreplay
This is essential to good oral sex. Have the fun of sex itself is the build up to it. The same is true of oral sex. Use your hands, your mouth, and your body to titillate and rev up your partner for the main show.

3. Listen
Newsflash: it’s rare for a woman to scream when she orgasms. Instead you need to listen to the sounds she makes whilst you’re giving her vagina the attention it deserves. Listen to the sounds, and the way her body responds and you’ll soon hear her reach a hugely satisfying climax.

4. Focus
When it comes to oral sex you need to focus on the details. When going down on a woman this means you need to be focused on not just the clitoris but everything in that area: the anal muscles, the labia area just outside the entrance to the vagina, the clitoris and the inner thighs are all hyper sensitive. Pay attention to each of them and all of them.

5. Blowjob strategy
If you’re a woman giving a guy a blow job for the very first time then you need to know that the same detail and attention we give to you should be given to us. It’s not just about sucking and bobbing up and down. It’s about the way you stroke, lick, and move your mouth around and up and down our shaft.

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How to give/get the best blow job

Eye contact

Go three dimensional!

Remember the balls!!!

Oral Sex Technique