Masturbation is healthy if you are a man

EdBennett — Fri, 30 Nov 2018 10:35:32 +0000

30 Nov 2018 - 10:35 | Tags: masturbation, masturbation is healthy

Here in the UK, we have been brought up on somewhat of a stiff upper lip culture. There is a general attitude against talking about our feelings and being in touch with our emotions. This is especially so if you are a man. The culture is one where, as a man, talking about your feelings is something that is simply not considered manly, it is impressed upon men that it is not attractive. In the more extreme cases, it is believed to be a sign of weakness, though thankfully these are rare. This general sense of personal oppression bleeds over to sex, the old phrase “no sex please, we are British” is one that whilst it no longer holds dominance, has still, unfortunately, left its mark.

No sex please, we are British

Traditionally we don’t like talking about sex, there is a general feeling that having sex is something that is a bit naughty, and we are taught that woman don’t want to have sex, that it is the man’s responsibility to trick, cajole and seduce the woman into performing an act that she has no interest in. Having a fuck buddy is something that should never even be considered, even a having a hook up was considered poor form. This is all so incorrect!
We should be more open about sex. We should talk about it more, and we should all have more of it. If we all had fuck buddies, the world would be a happier place. The first place to fix this is to re-educate ourselves and change how we think about these things, and that includes masturbation.

Masturbation is good for you

As part of the stiff upper lip stuff, we were told that masturbation was bad for you, that it was “wrong” in some way. This was all nonsense. Masturbation can actually be a really healthy thing. The only way to have great sex is to first learn to come in the way that you enjoy coming. You can’t have a good time with your fuck buddy unless you know how to have a good time by yourself.

You can also use the opportunity to learn when you are about to come so that you can exercise better control to extend your own orgasm. It is a great way of relieving stress, and can cause a large number of “happy hormones” to be released into your body to help combat any depression or feeling of being down that may creep up on you. The happier you are, the more attractive you are, the more likely you are to find a fuck buddy, so it can also help you get sex as well as enjoy it more!

As a general rule, masturbation is good for you. This is of course situational and will depend on your circumstances, but I would heartily encourage you to remove any bad feeling at all when you do it. There is nothing wrong with it, it really is healthy.

Do you masturbate enough?

EdBennett — Thu, 26 Mar 2015 11:35:17 +0000

26 Mar 2015 - 11:35 | Tags: masturbation, how much should you masturbate, mutual masturbation, Sex, casual sex

For some reason everyone is always embarrassed to talk about this aspect of sexual health. Masturbation is almost always good for your sex life. Men and women have been doing it for centuries. It’s only recently that the subject has become a bit less awkward to talk about, but even now it seems that many avert their gaze. Fact: Masturbation is normal, masturbation can be healthy, and masturbation is practised by both sexes. We’re going to dispel a few myths that should help you decide whether or not you’re jacking off too much or not enough.

1. Relieves stress and anxiety
The negative side to masturbation is that it is often used as a way to relieve the daily tension that builds up from work and life. It gets unhealthy when it interferes with your life. However if you’re doing it and leading a normal life you have nothing to worry about.

2. It doesn’t reflect on your relationships
People masturbate. It’s a simple as that. It doesn’t mean you don’t want to have sex any less, nor does it mean you’re rubbish at sex. It’s just something that men and women do to feel good when they’re alone sometimes.

3. It can be very good for your sex life
Knowing how to turn your-self on is helpful when it comes to getting someone else to do it. If you don’t know what you like than how the hell is someone else supposed to know? Wank away until you know your hots and nots.

4. There’s no ‘set’ or ‘recommended level’ of masturbation
Some people jack off several times a day and lead a normal life. Others maybe only have a wank once a month and lead a normal life. There are no set levels. You’re all normal. Don’t feel weird or strange about your masturbation.

5. You can do it together
Masturbation as you well know can and is often used as foreplay. Try it with your fuck buddy and see if it turns you both on. Masturbation is a great way to initiate sex and enjoy the experience even more.

6. It won’t make you go blind
This was one of the most ridiculous myths ever whispered. Masturbation does not affect your eyesight (unless you count any orgasm it brings on). It will not affect your ability to see and do things. Just don’t over-do it and your health will be fine.

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Masturbation is healthy if you are a man

No sex please, we are British

Masturbation is good for you

Do you masturbate enough?