All I want for Christmas is an STD... on no wait a minute I really DON’T want that!

EdBennett — Thu, 12 Jan 2017 19:09:20 +0000

12 Jan 2017 - 19:09 | Tags: STDs, safe sex, safe sex rules

Welcome to January 2017, the New Year has come in and you have just had what I hope was an excellent Christmas. Christmas brought with it a host of presents. You probably got a jumper that you don’t really want to wear, have been fed mince pies whether you actually like them or not, and you know that thing you really wanted as a Christmas present? Well that is the one thing that you probably didn’t get!

Christmas was also a great time to get laid. When new year comes around, no one wants to be that person who has no one to kiss at midnight or under the mistletoe. This means that getting laid of the Christmas and New Year period was always easier than at other times, and this leads to access to an easy flow of sex. Part of that is an abundant amount of sex too! So sleeping with more than one person over the month of December is something happens a lot. If it didn’t happen for you, it is probably because you didn’t get online and send enough messages out. All it really took was being a little bit proactive about making sure that enough girls new that you were available and ready to out. What this can mean however is that you have picked up an extra present that you may not have actually wanted! A hidden visitor may be piggy backing his way across the world right now by attaching himself to your balls. This is great for him, but bad for you, and if you have him, you want to do something about him ASAP.

Most people who pick up an STD (or often called STI now – sexually transmitted infections) have just been a little unlucky. I mean no one goes out of their way to get one – they just get unlucky. If you think you have one you really need to get tested, the sooner you find out the sooner you can get it treated and get back to having a normal sex life. I mean why deny the girls a little action with you just because you are too lazy to go to the doctors. Most STD’s can be quickly cleaned up and cured with a simple bit of medication that is fast acting and has no side effects.

So if you think you may have picked something up. Do something about putting it back down again. You really don’t want to be carrying that around with you. It is one of the few guaranteed sexy mood killers!

Sex & Alcohol this Spring

EdBennett — Sat, 11 Apr 2015 13:23:20 +0000

11 Apr 2015 - 14:23 | Tags: sex and alcohol, casual sex, STDs, safe sex

Whether you want to believe it or not; alcohol does affect your libido in both positive and negative ways. As booze culture has become so negatively associated with young singeltons in the UK, we thought it might be worth exploring the ups and downs of how drinking will affect your dating and sex life. Pay attention people as it’s time to find out just what a bottle of wine or ten pints of beer can do to your libido.

1. Dutch Courage
An old cliché for a reason; it’s true. We don’t encourage you to drink in order to get up the courage to ask someone out, but we do recognise that some people get extremely nervous when trying to chat up the object of their desire. One or two drinks is usually okay as an aid, but if you’re already slurring your words by the time you go over to say hello, it’s time to call a cab and head home.

2. Moderation Over Excess
Drinking in moderation is less likely to affect your libido in a negative way. Whereas excess drinking can cause erectile dysfunction, vomiting and lead to forgetting to use contraceptives, drinking in moderation can add a little extra vibe to proceedings. It’s all about moderation people!

3. Alcohol is a depressant
This is not really good for your sex life. If you already suffer from mild or clinical depression than you need to stay well away from alcohol this spring! If you drink in moderation then there is no reason for you to cut off alcohol from your diet completely. Medical research shows that a glass of red wine every day can actually clear blocked arteries over a period of time, which is good for the heart. Again it is all about knowing your limits.

4. Can lead to bad decisions
The more you drink, the more likely you are to make poor decision when it comes to your sex life. What sounds amazing after a bottle or 2 of wine may cause you a lot of aggravation and stress in the days and months to follow. As our inhibitions lower with alcohol, so too do our cognitive abilities. This leads to us taking unnecessary risks when it comes to sex. Moderation is key.

5. Champagne Aphrodisiac
Whilst alcohol does have many negative aspects, it also can be used to create a romantic atmosphere. You’ll be hard pushed to find a woman who doesn’t like a glass of champagne so bear that in mind when meeting up with an f-buddy.

The key to all this is moderation. If you drink in moderation this spring, you’re more likely to enjoy a healthy and fulfilling sex life. If you drink to excess, you’re highly likely to become one of those depressing UK statistics on the NHS. Be aware and be safe!

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All I want for Christmas is an STD... on no wait a minute I really DON’T want that!

Sex & Alcohol this Spring