Fuck like an animal

EdBennett — Wed, 27 Jan 2016 09:49:16 +0000

27 Jan 2016 - 09:49 | Tags: fuck, casual sex fun, choosing a fuck buddy

Sex is often branded as a single thing as we only have one primary word for it. Yet it comes in so many different flavours and colours. You can do it fast or slow, soft or hard. You can fuck someone out of an uncontrollable desire, or out of hatred and angry. There is make up sex, there is break up sex. There is sex that quells and stills insecurities and fears, there is sex that is already free from all these things and becomes nothing but pleasure. There is sex as an expression of commitment to the other person, and there is sex that is the complete opposite to this! There is hello sex, and good bye sex, and good afternoon sex. There is wake up morning sex that sets you up for the day like a champion, and good night sex that will have you asleep and resting like you have not a care in the world. Today I want to talk about fucking.

Fucking as opposed to making love

I want to acknowledge the list above – there are many ways to have sex and all of them are valid. However here today I am going to talk only about one type – fucking.

Definition of fucking

Fucking is when you really take someone / are taken. It is that primal instinct manifest, that moment when you let go of all the modern training of how one should act in a civilised way, and instead allow your pure desires to have the other person take hold. When you fuck someone, you take all that you are without though or fear or hold back, and thrust that to the very forfront of what you are offering the other person. You fuck them. When you are being fucked, you take all that you are without fear or holding back , and you open yourself up to be done with in any way the other person chooses.

Fuck. Fucking is amazing.

Why fuck

You can do all the other forms of sex, but when you really fuck it allows for a connection that goes beyond logic, thought or the mind. It is a whole body experience. To fuck is to really be without barriers.

It is core to you – it is right – be not afraid of it

People shy away from it, and I understand why. You have to have no fear to really fuck. To put yourself on the line like and trust in the other person, that it is going to be okay. To be rejected in this moment could permanently scar someone. It is a core part of you – so trust it, and set your fear to one side.

7 Reasons To Have Casual Sex Before You Die

EdBennett — Sat, 30 May 2015 11:00:46 +0000

30 May 2015 - 12:00 | Tags: casual sex, casual sex fun, F-buddy, f-buddies, friends with benefits

There are many things we are sure of in life. We need to eat. We need to sleep. We need to exercise. We need to play. We need to have sex. For humans sex is a biological imperative. The less sex we have, the less healthy we become. You only have to look at the Roman Catholic scandals from the past 5 years alone to realise that enforced abstinence is not healthy for a large majority of the priesthood.

So here are 5 simple reasons everyone should at experience casual sex at least once before they kick the bucket.

1. Valar Morghulis (All Men Must Die)
Okay so I stole this from Game of Thrones, but it’s very true. We all live, and we all die. We don’t know if there is anything else past this life, but our understanding of science thus far, tells us that there is not. So we should try and experience as much as we can before we die.

2. It’s Fun
Unlike a relationship, with casual sex you can have fun for fun’s sake. You don’t have to be worrying about someone else’s feelings or reactions to any new kinky positions you want to try but were afraid to with a boyfriend or girlfriend.

3. No Commitment
See above. You can have sex as much as you like, but you don’t have to do the irritating dating stuff like going to a restaurant or cinema.

4. No Promises
Sometimes the best relationships arise from casual sex, but that’s because no one has made any promises beforehand. Don’t promise anything and you find that casual sex is so much more enjoyable.

5. Not Emotional
Partly true. Casual sex is less emotionally involving than sex in a monogamous relationship.

6. You Learn More About Yourself
Emotionally and physically; casual sex teaches you more about yourself than you’ll ever learn in a committed relationship.

7. The Lines Are Clearer
There is no blur with casual sex as long as you’ve been upfront about it from the start. The lines and boundaries are very clear and if one of you wants to change them you only need ask.

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7 Reasons To Have Casual Sex Before You Die