Fabricated Fornication: Rubber, Latex and Leather

EdBennett — Fri, 22 Jul 2016 16:05:13 +0000

22 Jul 2016 - 17:05 | Tags: kinky sex, BDSM, dressing up

So you have done the usual sexy clothes. If you are a guy you have been out with your best pressed shirt and shined shoes, you have also been out looking “casual” like you threw on some jeans and a t-shirt whilst in the back of your heading know that you actually spent an hour agonising over what to wear and if the jeans looked casual enough or not! If you are a girl you have experienced all the attention one gets when you go out in a boob tube and a short skirt, as well as the attention you can also wield in a long dress depending on the setting you are in. So you know what it is like to get some attention, and for most of you, you enjoyed it. Have you ever done this in a much less vanilla way however?

Going off the tracks a little you have a whole world waiting for you filled with material you have never tried. For those of you who have, I applaud your adventurous nature! For those of you who haven’t, I am here to tell you why you should be considering a step into wearing something a little more racy.

Rubber, Latex and leather have always been associated with anything from unstoppable sexiness to slutty and smuttiness. It is the realm of naughty sex, of hard fucking, of pushing the boundaries of what is acceptable in the bedroom to area’s where were the two adults not consenting, then one would almost certainly face jail time. It is about accessing your primal urges of see want take, of fucking like an animal – something that both men and women enjoy equally. So why do it?

When you put on rubber or latex, it acts like a costume. It is a material you never otherwise wear, and look you never otherwise have. This alteration of look and feel combined, allows you to step into being another version of yourself. You are still you, but you can be a different side of you. Perhaps that side is super dominant, or perhaps that side of you is submissive. Perhaps that ‘you’ wants to be thrown around, or punished, or taken ‘against’ your will, or perhaps that side of you wants to be the one to throw someone around, punish them or take them ‘against’ their will. I put the word ‘against’ in quotation marks because of course in the same way that the clothing acts as a costume to allow you to play a version of yourself, it remains play. Both people of course must be into it, and so no one is really ever taken against their actual will, they have consented to be taken in the first place. See the article on consent.

So if you want to try and step into another side of yourself, a way to do this would be to wear some material that you have never worn before. Rubber, Latex and Leather all come with a history and association of pushing the boundaries in the bedroom, so I highly recommend that you give them a go!

Sexy Summer Tips

EdBennett — Wed, 01 Jul 2015 07:35:29 +0000

1 Jul 2015 - 08:35 | Tags: summer sex tips, casual sex, threesomes, fetish, dressing up, swimwear

Now that the mercury has climbed the peaks and hit the +30 degree mark, it’s time to start thinking about all the ways you can enjoy your sex life this summer. You only have to walk down the streets in the south of England at the moment to see that people are wearing less and smiling more. And what’s not to smile about? With skin on display and hormones revving, summer is one of the best times of the year to enjoy casual sex with new people and old partners. With this in mind we’ve prepared a few guidance tips to get your mind in the mood and your chances a boost.

1. Smile when you’re out
It sounds simple, but you only have to take a look around on the bus or the train to see how little people seem to smile. But we should! Okay, so the train or the bus might be hot, but a smile can go a long way to showing someone that not all is lost. It’s also a great way to let someone you fancy know you that you’ve noticed them. As long as you don’t come off all creepy you should be in a prime position to make the most of an ingratiating smile this summer.

2. Take a chance
They say summer lowers the inhibitions. I don’t know if that’s true or not, but it certainly can make you feel more relaxed and friendly. Why not take a chance and message that person you’ve been too afraid to try talking to? What’s the worst that can happen? They don’t reply. And if that’s the worst that can happen than you’ve lost nothing. Hoorah!

3. Socialise more
Summer leaves you no excuse not to socialise. Now is not the season for staying in and watching DVDs. Summer is the season to get out there and greet the world and have some fun. You’re more likely to hook up with someone if you socialise more. It’s simple mathematics people.

4. Go swimming
Okay you know how girls and guys claim that a swimming pool is not the place to check people out? Do you also know that everyone lies? Of course a swimming pool is often where people check one another out. Why else do you think men and women wear such revealing costumes?

5. Stay out a bit later
Summer allows us more chances to stay up and out a little later than usual. Not only is it warmer, it’s lighter too and people don’t want to go to sleep right away. Why miss the chance of a casual encounter by going home early?

F Buddy - dressing up

Fabricated Fornication: Rubber, Latex and Leather

Sexy Summer Tips