F Buddy - sex fantasy

If you could become a woman for a day, what would you do?

EdBennett — Wed, 08 Aug 2018 10:41:54 +0000

8 Aug 2018 - 11:41 | Tags: sex fantasy, understanding women

We are all born in a certain way, and we have to live our lives with that. We play the cards that we are dealt. This brings with it certain insight, depending on how you were born. For example, if you were born a man, you know what it feels like to have a penis, to have penetrative sex, to come as a man. You also know all the sexual interactions with your fuck buddy from the man’s point of view. So for example, you know what it is to caress a breast, you know how it feels to spend time tantalising and tickling a girls clitoris with your tongue. This is a wonderful thing.

What does it feel like from the other side though? I think every man has wondered what it would be like to be a woman for a day, to have that experience. If you were a woman for a day, the only way to use that to come to an understanding, would be to do stuff whilst in female form. So if you were a woman for a day, what would you do? Here are the things that men have said they would do.

Play with their own breasts, a lot

As a man it sometimes feels like a war. Breasts belong to us, and its up to us to seduce women into letting us have them back! I joke of course. As a man, I think the first thing that most men would do would be to play with their breasts. You have the on tap, best to take advantage!

Take naked selfies

You want something to remember the experience by!

Masturbate

This is a huge one! This would be for two main reasons. Most men want to know what it feels like when a woman comes, but as a woman for a day may not want to actually have sex with a guy. By Masturbating, they get to do so without having to sleep with a man.
The second reason is for technique. If you know exactly how it feels, you can quickly hone your hand to being the most valuable and sought after sexual tool in the fuck buddy marketplace!

Go out on a night looking hot

Many men wouldn’t actually want to have sex, but to know what it is like to do a girl night out in a club, to see what it feels like to have all the men having to hit on you for a change, now that would be really fun.

If they ever invent a way of trying it, I know I’ll be one of the first to sign up!

The Sex on a train fantasy

EdBennett — Fri, 20 Oct 2017 21:42:16 +0000

20 Oct 2017 - 22:42 | Tags: sex fantasy, sex dreams

You are on a train on the way home from work. It has been a good day, you got through all your work on time and with ease, you have been told you did a good job and that everyone above you is happy with how you have performed in your role. You friends at work were on good form, bantering and joking around with light hearted abandon, and you head home in good spirits.

You find yourself standing on a pack train during rush hour. You can hardly see your own shoes it is that busy. You’re eyes wonder aimlessly around the carriage, first on posters and adverts, then on a newspaper on the side that you are trying to read upside down. Suddenly your eyes are caught by these pair of magnificent eyes. These two brown orbs catch you from through the crowd. She is obviously quite small, as you can see the eyes but little else in the crush that is home time. There is something about those eyes – they really are captivating… and you realise that you have been looking at them for far too long… and that she is starting straight back at you. Something locks into place with those eyes, they are soft, sensual, and everything about them speaks of desire. They are fuck me eyes, and the bestial part of you recognises and responds to them.

You look away in embarrassment on instinct, social training kicking in. You give it a moment, then slowly sneak a peek back over. They are still there… and now the train crowd is starting to thin out. As time moves on, you start to see more and more of her. First the legs through a gap in the bags. She is wearing heals slightly too tall for comfort, and long legs to match. Her waist is thin but not anorexic, and her upper body is all woman.

One by one they all leave, till finally you find yourself the only two on the train, staring at each other. You realise that your stop is next, and unless you do something now, you are going to miss your moment. The window is closing, and it is closing fast. You move towards each other across the space, and before you know it, you are kissing. Her chest is pressed up against yours, you can feel the heat of her skin radiating against you in desire, her hand against the back of your head, her finger nails gentle stroking the base of your neck and hair as she pulls herself up and further into you.

Your station arrives as you are locked in the embrace, and in the whirlwind of the moment you wonder if you should go or stay… which is when you awake.

- My favourite sexual fantasy, anonymous f-buddy user.

Explore both your fantasies

EdBennett — Fri, 06 Nov 2015 17:26:27 +0000

6 Nov 2015 - 17:26 | Tags: fantasies, sex fantasies, sex fantasy

Everyone has fantasies, and I am not talking about dreams of being a wizard or growing up at Hogwarts. Everyone has sexual fantasies, whether they talk about them or not (and this being Britian I expect that “not” is the go to for most folk). We wake up, we brush our teeth, comb our hair, waist anything up to an hour of our lives commuting to a job, and when there spend the day seeming respectable and smart. We all appear “normal” and that is what we are striving for. However underneath that outer exterior of straight laced sensibleness, in the depths of our carnal desires lies our sexual fantasies. Therein lies the images that we imagine whilst in our deepest of wet dreams, and the things we would love to do or have done to us. Here is the key thing, people do not speak of it because they fear being judged, they think people will think less of them, because ultimately they feel it is weird. Here is the news folks – it is normal. I say this again, it is NORMAL.

Everyone has them, including your partner. This is where it starts to get interesting. So if you have some fantasies, your partner has some fantasies, and neither of you are talking about them out of fear of weirding the other person out – you are both missing out on a chance to play with those fantasies.

Your fantasies are gifts

Everyone wants to have a good time in bed, more than that most people want to have the best time in bed. Trying to increase pleasure in the bedroom is something that humans have been exploring for as long as the written word existed. Books have been written about it, TV shows made, even courses created and run for couples. The question of how to do this is one that has plagued people for a long time. Well, your fantasies and your partners fantasies are gifts in this respect. Having a hidden desire (however bizarre) gives you an opportunity to fullfill that desire... and thus harness the power of the pleasure created from that fulfilment. Both you and your partner stand to massively gain from this! So telling your partner about your fantasies are giving her/him a gift that they can then use to help enhance both your pleasures in the bedroom. Equally, your partner opening up about her/his desires is giving you a gift, and if you can bring this across they are much more likely to be able to share this with you.

Go first

Getting your partner to open up is a hard call. Talking about this stuff leaves you open and vulnerable. The best way to create an environment where this can happen, is to go first. If you share your inner most fantasies and open up about your sexual desires, she/he is likely to reciprocate. The law of human reciprocation is a fundamental one, and likely to come into play here.

Try it, you might no WILL like it

So give it a go. Create a safe space and talk to your partner about your fantasies. You may well find those quickly turning from dream to reality – something that I know you will love.

10 Most Common Sexual Fantasies in 2015

EdBennett — Fri, 10 Jul 2015 09:51:44 +0000

10 Jul 2015 - 10:51 | Tags: sex fantasy, fantasies, sexual fantasies, Kink, roleplay

Sexual fantasies differ from men to women. Some people like the idea of doing it in a toilet. Others fantasise about having sex with their friend’s hot mum. Patterns can be found amongst the fantasies with men and women both having a lot of fantasies in common. Sexual fantasies have received a lot of negative press in the past few years, but this is because a lot of the mainstream media believe that these are happening all the time. They obviously forgot what the word fantasy actually means.

We’re going to list the top 5 fantasies for men and the top 5 fantasies for women surveyed this year and discuss a few of the more salient points at the end.

For Women

1. Domination – Her Dominating You
This has become very popular in recent months with 87% of women fantasising about this
2. Domination – You Dominating Her
Blame metro-sexuality for this, as it turns out 95% of women want their man to dominate them in the bedroom with a return to equality outside the sheets.
3. Spanking – The Teacher Fantasy Lives on
Sex with a hot teacher isn’t just for the guys. 82% of women fantasise about dressing up as a schoolgirl and having their hot male teacher bend them over his knee and spank them till they scream with pleasure.
4. Sex with a Stranger
No-strings-attached sex is something that many women wouldn’t have the chutzpah to go through with, but that doesn’t mean that 94% of them fantasise about it.
5. Threesome with another woman
“Hallelujah!” I hear most men cry. Sex with you and another woman is something that 97% of women fantasise about.

For Him

1. Domination – She’s the Boss
Good thing that women fantasise about this too as this turns on 91% of men
2. Oral Sex
It’s hardly surprising that 97% of men fantasise about their partners doing things they don’t usually do. Oral sex is top of the list with many men reporting that sometimes they just want the woman to unzip their flies and go to town on their cock.
3. Threesome with another woman
Hooray! That’s another fantasy 99% of men have in common with women.
4. Anal Sex
It’s tight, the arse looks amazing and properly lubed it’s a real turn on for 85% of men.
5. What they aren’t getting
One of the most common fantasies men have was about doing something or having something they don’t have access to. Anal sex, sex with a porn star, sex with a stranger…all are commonalities.

What does this tell us?

Men and women have surprisingly similar sexual fantasies. Threesomes and no strings sex with a stranger are right up there as common fantasies. F-Buddy is the perfect place to explore these fantasies in a safe and secure environment. Message a few people and see if you can find someone who’s willing to indulge in a bit of fantasy. You could very well strike gold!