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Tell your fuck buddy your sexual fantasies

EdBennett — Thu, 24 Sep 2020 18:24:57 +0000

24 Sep 2020 - 19:24 | Tags: sexual fantasies, fantasies

There are certain things that are easier to with a fuck buddy than with someone with whom you are in a long term established ‘traditional’ relationship. The reason for this is simple: honesty and stakes. When you are in a long-term relationship it generally feels like you have everything to lose. You have invested time and energy into this person, and you feel like there are no other options on the table. This means that you are risk-averse in the relationship, which can lead you to become boring in your quest to play it safe. Ironically this is all driven from wanting to have a great relationship and sex life, though the result is that you end up with neither! With a fuck buddy, that is not the case.

With a fuck buddy you are together for the sex. This means that the sex is the focus of the relationship. This brings with a greater level of sexual honesty, and that can open a lot of doors for you both. There is also a greater feeling of relaxation. The stakes are much lower the whole time, which encourages a level of openness and honesty that sometimes lacks in even the longest of relationships. You can just tell the other person what you are thinking. In this article, I would like to encourage you to share your sexual fantasies.
We all have sexual fantasies, this is extremely normal. What is also normal is an inability to share these fantasies. There is nothing wrong with keeping them private of course, but there can be huge advantages to sharing them in two ways.

The sharing of fantasies can be a huge turn on – for both of you

If you want to try this, sit opposite your fuck buddy and make a deal not touch each other. Then looking deeply into the other persons eyes, describe your fantasy. When you do it, make the other person the object of your desires in the fantasy. Give it as much detail and depth as you can… and take you time. There is no rush. Then let your fuck buddy do the same. By the end of you, you are both going to be raring to rip each other’s clothes off.

You might get to live it

Once you have shared, there is always the chance that you might get to live it. Depending on how the other person feels about it, and how exotic it is, you might find they are up for doing it with you. That might be as a re-enactment rather than in reality, but that is just as fun!

So share your fantasies with your fuck buddy. It is great.

Explore both your fantasies

EdBennett — Fri, 06 Nov 2015 17:26:27 +0000

6 Nov 2015 - 17:26 | Tags: fantasies, sex fantasies, sex fantasy

Everyone has fantasies, and I am not talking about dreams of being a wizard or growing up at Hogwarts. Everyone has sexual fantasies, whether they talk about them or not (and this being Britian I expect that “not” is the go to for most folk). We wake up, we brush our teeth, comb our hair, waist anything up to an hour of our lives commuting to a job, and when there spend the day seeming respectable and smart. We all appear “normal” and that is what we are striving for. However underneath that outer exterior of straight laced sensibleness, in the depths of our carnal desires lies our sexual fantasies. Therein lies the images that we imagine whilst in our deepest of wet dreams, and the things we would love to do or have done to us. Here is the key thing, people do not speak of it because they fear being judged, they think people will think less of them, because ultimately they feel it is weird. Here is the news folks – it is normal. I say this again, it is NORMAL.

Everyone has them, including your partner. This is where it starts to get interesting. So if you have some fantasies, your partner has some fantasies, and neither of you are talking about them out of fear of weirding the other person out – you are both missing out on a chance to play with those fantasies.

Your fantasies are gifts

Everyone wants to have a good time in bed, more than that most people want to have the best time in bed. Trying to increase pleasure in the bedroom is something that humans have been exploring for as long as the written word existed. Books have been written about it, TV shows made, even courses created and run for couples. The question of how to do this is one that has plagued people for a long time. Well, your fantasies and your partners fantasies are gifts in this respect. Having a hidden desire (however bizarre) gives you an opportunity to fullfill that desire... and thus harness the power of the pleasure created from that fulfilment. Both you and your partner stand to massively gain from this! So telling your partner about your fantasies are giving her/him a gift that they can then use to help enhance both your pleasures in the bedroom. Equally, your partner opening up about her/his desires is giving you a gift, and if you can bring this across they are much more likely to be able to share this with you.

Go first

Getting your partner to open up is a hard call. Talking about this stuff leaves you open and vulnerable. The best way to create an environment where this can happen, is to go first. If you share your inner most fantasies and open up about your sexual desires, she/he is likely to reciprocate. The law of human reciprocation is a fundamental one, and likely to come into play here.

Try it, you might no WILL like it

So give it a go. Create a safe space and talk to your partner about your fantasies. You may well find those quickly turning from dream to reality – something that I know you will love.

10 Most Common Sexual Fantasies in 2015

EdBennett — Fri, 10 Jul 2015 09:51:44 +0000

10 Jul 2015 - 10:51 | Tags: sex fantasy, fantasies, sexual fantasies, Kink, roleplay

Sexual fantasies differ from men to women. Some people like the idea of doing it in a toilet. Others fantasise about having sex with their friend’s hot mum. Patterns can be found amongst the fantasies with men and women both having a lot of fantasies in common. Sexual fantasies have received a lot of negative press in the past few years, but this is because a lot of the mainstream media believe that these are happening all the time. They obviously forgot what the word fantasy actually means.

We’re going to list the top 5 fantasies for men and the top 5 fantasies for women surveyed this year and discuss a few of the more salient points at the end.

For Women

1. Domination – Her Dominating You
This has become very popular in recent months with 87% of women fantasising about this
2. Domination – You Dominating Her
Blame metro-sexuality for this, as it turns out 95% of women want their man to dominate them in the bedroom with a return to equality outside the sheets.
3. Spanking – The Teacher Fantasy Lives on
Sex with a hot teacher isn’t just for the guys. 82% of women fantasise about dressing up as a schoolgirl and having their hot male teacher bend them over his knee and spank them till they scream with pleasure.
4. Sex with a Stranger
No-strings-attached sex is something that many women wouldn’t have the chutzpah to go through with, but that doesn’t mean that 94% of them fantasise about it.
5. Threesome with another woman
“Hallelujah!” I hear most men cry. Sex with you and another woman is something that 97% of women fantasise about.

For Him

1. Domination – She’s the Boss
Good thing that women fantasise about this too as this turns on 91% of men
2. Oral Sex
It’s hardly surprising that 97% of men fantasise about their partners doing things they don’t usually do. Oral sex is top of the list with many men reporting that sometimes they just want the woman to unzip their flies and go to town on their cock.
3. Threesome with another woman
Hooray! That’s another fantasy 99% of men have in common with women.
4. Anal Sex
It’s tight, the arse looks amazing and properly lubed it’s a real turn on for 85% of men.
5. What they aren’t getting
One of the most common fantasies men have was about doing something or having something they don’t have access to. Anal sex, sex with a porn star, sex with a stranger…all are commonalities.

What does this tell us?

Men and women have surprisingly similar sexual fantasies. Threesomes and no strings sex with a stranger are right up there as common fantasies. F-Buddy is the perfect place to explore these fantasies in a safe and secure environment. Message a few people and see if you can find someone who’s willing to indulge in a bit of fantasy. You could very well strike gold!