The one trick you need to get a girl’s number on the slopes – every time

EdBennett — Mon, 07 Feb 2022 20:31:19 +0000

Welcome to February, the shortest month of the year but also sometimes the most fun! February is a month that brings with it an abundance of potential opportunities. The 14th of February is valentine’s day, one of the best days in the year to have a hook up or find a fuck buddy when meeting people in person. Why is it so good? Simple, if someone is out without a partner on valentine’s day, it means that in nine out of ten cases, it is because they do not have a romantic partner. If they did, they would not be spending their valentine’s day separate from that romantic partner, which means if they are out alone, they are single. This means that almost every girl/guy you speak to on the 14th is single! It is like going to a singles night without having to actually go to a singles night. It can lead to some really interesting results.

February is also a very popular time to take a ski or snowboarding holiday. Winter holidays are such fun. You are outdoors in the mountains, you are doing a physical activity which is great for your body and releases all sorts of happy hormones into your system to perk you up and, depending on where you go, there is a good night life where you can easily find a fuck buddy for the week. This has become more difficult of course due to covid. Whilst the ski slopes are running, many of the “apre ski” bars and hang out locations are shut due to the local restrictions in that country. Does this mean you cannot find a fuck buddy when on the slopes? Not at all! It simply means that instead you need to do it whilst actually out on the slopes rather than in the bar afterwards. So how do you do this? You need to get the person’s phone number so that you can follow up afterwards. To help with this, here is a simple failure proof trick to get a girl’s number on the slopes every time without fail.

Take a photo. When you see a girl or guy you like do the usual thing of striking up a conversation. Then when you are skiing or snowboarding find a excuse to take a photo. This could be from the top of the mountain with the views. It could be an action shot of them skiing the slopes, or it could be a selfie from the chairlift. Everyone loves a good photo of themselves, so all you have to do the is offer to send it to them. Bam! You have their phone number so that you can WhatsApp it to them. Done.

This technique is a sure fire way to get a phone number. Once you have it, be sure to follow up to see if you can convert it into an evening hook up!

How to write a killer opening message

EdBennett — Thu, 23 Jul 2015 11:37:47 +0000

23 Jul 2015 - 12:37 | Tags: messaging, first message, opening lines, casual sex, F-buddy, adult dating

Opening lines are always hard to come up with. You see someone you like the look of from across the bar, you pluck up the courage to go up and say hello, and for reasons unknown your mouth goes dry, your throat seizes up and you just stand there gurgling awkwardly. Worse; you say something really stupid or insane that makes the person look at you oddly and walk away. Theoretically speaking it should be easier to come up with a really good opening line online! After all you have more time to think about what you’re going to say to a prospective f-buddy. Yet a lot of our users constantly bemoan the fact that they keep getting messages like “Hey sexy. Fancy a shag?” or “WOW! U r hot!”

Definitely not Shakespeare and definitely not impressing a lot of our members who receive this Casanova-lite nonsense. There are simple and effective methods in communicating with someone for the first time. We’re now going to show you how to write a really good opening message without sounding like either a total dick head or a snobby bitch. You want to get a new f-buddy? Pay attention.

The DOs

1. DO be creative
Nothing says ‘I haven’t thought about this at all’ like ‘Hey babe!’ or ‘Hi’ Be a little more creative with your opening message. You are trying to introduce yourself to someone you fancy for crying out loud. They’re not going to remember lame opening lines. They will remember creative and cleverly worded sentences.

2. DO look at the profile
Once you’ve finished ogling the photos don’t just speed right into messaging. Have a look at the f-buddy’s profile. Are you a match for them? When someone says they’re not interested in people sending them cock pictures, they actually mean it. It’s not an invitation for you to do so. Pay attention to the profile.

3. DO be aware that you’re messaging a real human being
It’s easy to be drawn into objectifying every single profile you browse. After all you’re both here to shag right? Yes, but remember that like you, this other person is a human being and is just as fallible as you. Don’t be a dick or a bitch with your messaging. Be nice and be understanding.

The DON’Ts

1. DON’T message someone you’re not a match with
When someone says they’re not interested in men older than 50 – guess what? They mean it!

2. DON’T text speak someone
Unless someone has written their profile in text speak, you should try and use correct spelling and punctuation in your messaging. Things like ‘LOL U R SXY’ will get you nowhere if the profile you message has bothered to spell and construct proper sentences.

3. DON’T get frustrated or angry if someone doesn’t respond to your message
Just like in a bar or a club or anywhere in the real world, not everyone is going to want to talk to you. It’s a fact of life! So don’t get upset, down or angry if you don’t receive a reply from someone you messaged. They might be busy or you just might not be their type.

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The one trick you need to get a girl’s number on the slopes – every time

How to write a killer opening message

The DOs

The DON’Ts