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Leave the lights on for your fuck buddy

EdBennett — Sun, 20 Sep 2020 23:37:10 +0000

21 Sep 2020 - 00:37 | Tags: fucking fun, tips for casual sex

Sex is great. Having someone to have sex with on a regular basis is even better! I honestly feel that if everyone had a fuck buddy, not only would the world be a better place but we might actually have a chance at world peace! One of the main reasons people do not have the amount of sex that they would like is because they are coupled with a partner for the medium term and the sex just died off after a while. With a fuck buddy that just doesn’t happen. The sex is the main reason that you are together so if it dies the relationship that you have dies and you will both quickly replace the other with a fuck buddy that is much more willing.

So you have a fuck buddy, but what about when you want to spice things up in the bedroom? Well to help you with that, here is one of the best sex tips of all time.

Leave the lights on

Yes there is a tendency to turn the lights off, it makes a lot of people feel more comfortable and there is an element of body consciousness that darkness deals with. However, if you want to have amazing sex, leave the lights on! As humans we are extremely reliant on our eyesight. Most of our input comes from what we see, we navigate our day to day lives with our sight… so why would that suddenly change when we are in the bedroom? It doesn’t! Leaving the lights on allows you to navigate your fuck buddies body with a greater level of skill and ease. We all get a kick out of seeing that pleasure in the other person's eyes, and that happens more easily with a lighted room. You can also respond to the subconscious visual signals that your fuck buddy will be sending you with their body if you can see them.

If you want to go slow, try lighting a few candles, soft lighting has always been a big win! It leaves you and your fuck buddy looking better in the soft glow lighting whilst also heating the room with the flame which makes it more comfortable when you undress each other (ideally with your teeth!). For those of you who like to push things in the bedroom, hot wax can also be a fun thing to play with if you are feeling a bit kinky!

So next time you get your friends with benefits to pay you a visit, leave the lights on!

Celebrate Sex

EdBennett — Mon, 11 Jan 2016 09:39:58 +0000

11 Jan 2016 - 09:39 | Tags: sex is great, fucking fun, casual sex definitions

We celebrate many thing in our lives. We celebrate certain times of the year, birthdays, anniversaries, we’ve just had Christmas and New years, one of the biggest in our culture! We also celebrate achievement and actions of a certain kind. Making lots of money is applauded, getting good grades at school gets you lots of attention, we celebrate those people who make other peoples lives better and happier. One of the things that we rarely celebrate here in the UK is the achievement of getting sex.

Whilst we have over recent years thrown off the shackles that sex is bad and all of that stiff upper lip nonsense, we still have remnants of it which haunt us, and one of those affects how we see sex, and specifically, the pursuit of it.

If someone is without a job, they will take action to get a job. They will make a CV, contact employers and when they do get a job they will be patted on the back by their friends and family and applauded for their efforts.
When someone is without sex, taking these steps are seen as a negative thing. Taking positive action to remedy the situation of being without someone to share an intimate moment with is not celebrated, and sometimes the opposite is true, it can be condemned. Lets look at online websites for example.

I am glad to say that things have changed massively in the last 10 years. For a long time even the most basic and badly run of internet dating sites was seen as bad thing. If you were internet dating 10 years ago you were seen as “sad”, someone who couldn’t find someone through more “normal” means and therefore as a last resort had to fall back on going to in the internet in order to be able to find someone willing to put up with them. This is so far from the truth, and I am glad to say that attitudes have massively changed here in the UK. Now to use the internet to find a match for what you are looking for is just seen as smart! It is using modern advances to help you make your life better... and likely the life of the person that you end up sleeping with!

We need a major attitude change here still on sex. We need to be celebrating people more when they get laid. They are improving their own lives and the life of the person that they just slept with.
So next time you know someone who is taking positive action to improve their sexual set up, celebrate them for taking action.

Christmas – peak time for having sex

EdBennett — Sun, 20 Dec 2015 09:58:56 +0000

20 Dec 2015 - 09:58 | Tags: holiday sex, time to fuck, fucking fun

It is Christmas time, lights are being put out by everyone, cupboards are being stocked with mince pies, and bottles of wine and bubbly are cooling in the fridge ready to be drunk. People are getting into the holiday spirit, and are ready to have a good time. Whether their lives are good or bad at the moment, everyone wants to take a moment to put that aside and just have a good time. For some people this is a bit of a time of escape from their day to day lives, a time to forget what ever hardships they may be facing and celebrate the joy of simply being alive. For other people it is a pause from all the hard work and a moment to be able to reflect on all they have a achieved, a moment to be a little self indulgent and revel in their victories. Regardless of what end of the spectrum you are coming from, it is a great time to be with someone and have amazing sex.
Whilst good sex can be guaranteed to **not** happen if the actual physical act is done badly, doing it really well doesn’t guarantee outstanding sex. A lot of it comes from the build up and the context. This is where the power of Christmas can be harnessed in order to have amazing sex.

The Christmas Context

The context of where and how one has sex can have a lot to do with how it goes. An easy example is having sex somewhere you shouldn’t, say outdoors, at a club, in a church... you can take this as far as you like! I met a girl recently who had a real thing for wanting to have sex in a lift – fulfilling that fantasy blew her mind. To me it was just sex, but to her it was another level.
Christmas brings a context that can really make for amazing sex. There is this up vibe all around, and all you have to do is cash in on it. Kissing someone hard under the mistle toe can be a real easy turn on for people, walking back to theirs/yours past all the Christmas lights can really help the happy feeling in the run up, eating really good food or drinking some great bubbly before again can be a great ice breaker. Everyone looks better under dimmer mood lighting, and the excuse to use only fairly lights in your house is one that is not to be missed out on.

Bonus: Racing present

If you have always wanted to try something a little kinky but never had the guts to do it – this is a great time to use the Christmas excuse to do it too. Giving someone as a present a kinky item that then gets used is a great way to introduce it to the room.

Go forth and have a great Christmas.