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Want to be a god in bed? Top sex advice for men (part 3)

EdBennett — Tue, 14 Dec 2021 22:53:56 +0000

14 Dec 2021 - 22:53 | Tags: British sex advice, getting good in bed, sex tips

Welcome to the fuck buddy website. If you are here, it is because you are either looking for a fuck buddy or you have already successfully used this website to find one and you are now looking to up your sex game. Either way, we would be happy to help you! With the number of members having more “medium term” fuck buddies, we thought it would be good to do a series of top sex advice articles on how to be a god in bed for men. The idea is to help you increase the quality and intensity of the sex that you are having. This is most easily achieved when you are sleeping with someone you have slept with before, so the advice in this article and in our previous article on how to be a god in bed are most relevant for those with a friends with benefits set up in place or a fuck buddy they are keen on hooking up with more than once. However, being better in bed is always a good thing, so this is also helpful for pretty much anyone who is having (or looking to have) sex! So with that in mind, here is my bog top tip for this month on how to be a god in bed for men.

Do your sex research with your fuck buddy

Doing some sex research alone is a great way to prepare yourself for sex. It can build confidence and provide some much-needed guidance or advice about the mechanical aspects of having sex. That being said, if you want to have a better time in bed with your fuck buddy, consider doing the research with you fuck buddy! I am not talking about reading boring biology books on anatomy, this can be fun. I am suggesting that you watch some porn together or an adult movie. Perhaps read some erotica to each other, or read some erotic manga, what ever it is that you and your fuck buddy might be into. It is important that you have a conversation with your fuck buddy about what you are into before choosing your “research” method. If one of you isn’t into films, books or comics avoid that as the choice. Once you have chosen the medium doing the “research” together can really heat things up before you go to town on each other.

So get your research done and have fun!

Sex tips for men sleeping with a woman

EdBennett — Fri, 26 Apr 2019 08:03:09 +0000

26 Apr 2019 - 09:03 | Tags: sex tips, top tips for being sexy, what women want

Welcome to the f-buddy website, the place where we help like-minded individuals find each other so that they can no strings attached relationships. This is called finding a fuck buddy. Here at fuck buddy, we believe that having sex is a human right and that everyone ought to be having more of it! If you are one of these people, you should log on and send a few messages. Once you have your fuck buddy, you may want some tips on how to have better sex. Well I am here to help! In this article I am going to give you my top tips for how to have better sex with a woman if you are a man. You will remember reading this sentence and thinking that was the moment that your sex life changes, this is the moment when you got the information you needed to take your sex life to the next level. So without further ado, here are my top sex tips for men.0

Lead

In the early days leading is a really great thing to do. It means you are making decisions and dealing with all the choices. This leaves her the option of just relaxing and enjoying yourself. This is a great early strategy.

Let her lead

Once you have slept together a bit, letting her lead can lead to much better sex, of she is up for it! She now knows that you can lead, she understands that, so now when you let her lead it is not because you are incapable of it, it is simply a choice! If she leads you get to lie back and enjoy yourself. She can also often make little adjustments to the position and actions which can really improve things for both of you! I would highly recommend you give this a go… but I would also suggest that this is generally ideal for when you have been sleeping with a fuck buddy for a little while already. I would not push her into leading unless she was clearly wanting to.

Use lube!

A little lube was always welcomed and rarely can this backfire. Some lubricant makes things smoother for both of you. There is a myth that if the woman is not wet then she is not into it. In fact there are many reasons that this might happen: stress, fatigue, time of the month. So pop a little lube into the mix. It can not hurt, but it can help your sex in a big way!

How to make her scream in bed: Part 1

EdBennett — Sat, 12 Aug 2017 15:41:44 +0000

12 Aug 2017 - 16:41 | Tags: how to make her scream in bed, sex tips, turn on techniques

We all want to be gods in bed. We want to take the other person and make them scream with pleasure, to spasm uncontrollably as the pleasure of what you're doing to them completely controls every movement of their body. There is nothing that turns you on more than having other paths become sexual will explain. There is nothing like it, there is nothing that can replace it. It is unique and wonderful. So the question hear it, how do you make her scream. In this article we're going to go over a few top tips on how to leave her shuddering with pleasure begging for more.

Sex is not a race

Sex is not a race, and whilst with most things in life we may be doing them to reach the end, the pleasure in sex is in the journey. Getting to the orgasm quickly, it's not the gold when having sex. In fact, trying to get a orgasm quickly may result in you never getting there at all. So my advice to you is this, take your time. Take time to explore her body and to allow her to explore your body. Really being mindful and in the moment, storing and legs feet and back. Her breasts and bum really obvious places to go to think about exploring other parts of the body and long sight. The more time you spent the joint at the body and the more time you give her to export your body the better than sex will be. Remember it takes time to get to orgasm, so and now that time and enjoy yourself.

Feedback is important, so make some noise!

Sex is gentle, hard, and intricate as well as intimate. Sometimes you're trying to express the most precise of instructions, however all you're allowed to do is make grunts! Trying to express phrases like”a little to the left and slightly more gentle please” through the medium of grunts is incredibly difficult. Yet somehow have to make it work. My primary advice is considered talking to the other person. Take away the taboo of giving specific instructions. The advantage to this is if you're allowed her to tell you exactly what she wants to do, you get to tell her exactly what you want her to do to you. This can be the greatest b****** your life so think about that isn't it when you consider trying to get over this. Feedback is extremely important to make some noise. If you don't feel you could do this, at the very least don't be silent. Grunt, groan, do anything as long as you're showing your appreciation whilst having sex.

Vary what you are doing

When you go to a restaurant, no matter how good the soup it's no one wants to have 3 courses of just soup. Everyone wants to have a starter, then a mains, then dessert. If you had a starter, followed by the same starter, and then finished with a starter for dessert you would be rather dissatisfied at the end of your meal. The same is true with sex. Variation Key element when having good sex. If you find yourself doing the same thing multiple times, don't matter how good you are at it and no matter how much enjoys it, after a first few times she won't enjoy it as much. So mix it up. If there's something she particularly likes having done to her, think about doing different things first and building up to that thing. As long as you mix it up you will do a better job, and have more fun in bed then if you just repeat the same thing again and again.

Found a fuck buddy you fucking love? Keep him with these top tips!

EdBennett — Wed, 21 Jun 2017 07:59:45 +0000

21 Jun 2017 - 08:59 | Tags: keeping your man, can you have a long term fuck buddy, sex tips

This is one for the ladies. The first step to having a great sex life is to bag yourself a man that you can enjoy some late night action with. This is a great place to come, as we can help you find a guy that is looking for the same thing that you are – all the benefits of a no strings attached hookup without any of the down sides that usually come with sex. Once you have found him, and you have started sleeping with him, generally the sex tends to go in waves.

It starts extremely exciting because it is a new person – but you don’t know each other’s bodies that well so the sex first couple of times has high excitement but a little lack of skill on both sides.
The sex then matures into something more developed. As you get to know each others bodies better, you learn to bring each other to a deeper longer orgasm.
At some point the excitement from the newness starts to fade and things become a little more routine and regular. This can be really nice for a time.
The niceness from regularity begins to fade… this is the point when you could really use with kicking things up a notch again!

So here are some top tips from real life testimonials, on things that really drove men wild for sex again.

Practice Kegel exercises – then rather than him fuck you, you fuck him!

Kegel exercises will give you control over your muscles, allowing you to grip and squeeze him when he is inside you. Few women can actually do this, so not only will it drive him crazy, it will put you in the top percentile of female lovers he has ever has.

Go festive for an occasion

Is it easter? Pop on a pair of bunny ears and a fluffy tail, and greet him sexy rabbit style before doing it like they do on the discovery channel! Perhaps it is Christmas? Wear nothing but a red bow around your waist and give him a gift he will never forget! No matter what the time of year, there is always something that you can do to mark the occasion!

Handcuffs are not just fun when used on you!

Turning the tables on the usual dominance in the bedroom can be really fun. For real kick, handcuff him to the bed whilst he is still asleep, then allow him to wake up to you already on top of him and warmed up. He will declare you a sex goddess and will worship you as such – trust me!

There are my top three… but there are plenty more so use your imagination!

How to have amazing sex part 6: Make it a great story

EdBennett — Sun, 27 Nov 2016 13:56:15 +0000

27 Nov 2016 - 13:56 | Tags: how to have amazing sex, sex tips

As humans we communicate through stories – and whilst this may be an odd opening to an article about how to have amazing sex – bear with me on this, because this one is a doozy. We live our lives seeking all sorts of things, money, experience, pleasure, for some people they even seek pain. Whatever it is we seek, it is rooted in emotion, rooted in how we feel about certain things. We are ultimately seeking a **feeling** - and we have learned through our own experience and conditioning that this feeling that we seek can be found through certain actions, and certain ways of doing things. When we have those experiences, we then go on to tell our friends about them, we relate the story of what happened, what we did, what the outcome was... and of course how we felt during the journey. So how does this relate to sex you ask? Well make it a good story, and the sex will be better.

The story of “I met this guy in a club and we had sex” isn’t very exciting. The first time you do it, this story is enough, if you have never met someone and just gone and had sex with them without really knowing who they are, then this *is* exciting, and to you it is a good story. Your friends may be slightly shocked, and you certainly shocked yourself a little! Once it is in your comfort zone, once this is normal however, this ceases to be an exciting prospect, and the story stops being one that is a good one to you.

Now you know this – all you have to think about doing, is to make the story exciting! Mix it up, keep it real. If the story instead is “I met this guy in a club, he was a great dancer, there was instant connection, we ended up in the back alley fucking like animals it was so electric...” Now that is a story that is great. That is a story that makes the sex better.

Remember, the sex happens in the moment, but how we feel about the sex afterwards is actually as important, as it changes how good the sex was in out memories. A good story will ensure that the sex stays in the persons mind as a night of ultimate passion... and may leave them gagging for more.

Better Sex Guide: Always assume that the other person loved the sex

EdBennett — Fri, 12 Aug 2016 17:51:30 +0000

12 Aug 2016 - 18:51 | Tags: better sex guide, better in bed for men, sex tips

When we have sex, regardless of how enlightened we are about the act, how rounded a view we take on it and how much we come to understand that it is more than just about coming – some part of us checks in on whether the other person has come or not. We also care about whether the other person has a good time – which is what this check in is rooted in. Again, only the most selfish sell centred (to the point of genuine medically diagnosable social issues) ignore whether the other person has enjoyed themselves – and infact our own enjoyment of the sex is tied into this. If the other person has had a good time then we do too. No matter how good the sex feels – if you glance up from your near orgasm extasy to see the other person’s face – and they look bored – this is a guaranteed mood killer. Why does it kill it? It ends our pleasure because our joy is tied into whether they are enjoying it.

The Ego

This is all tied into the ego. Sex isn’t just about how it physically feels – it is also about how it emotionally feels. There is no removing that, and frankly why would you want to, I mean it is part of what makes sex awesome. We want the other person to want us, not to want anyone, us. It is about you wanting to feel special, you wanting to know that they want YOU over anyone else that they could have had... and this is where it ties in. If they love it, then they want you. If they have a shit time then they may as well have slept with any one else. You are not special.

The dangerous cycle

If you think that they are having a shit time, then this makes you turned off. You are less likely to orgasm, and you are certainly not going to have a very good time. The danger is that they then look at you having a crap time – and this in turn makes them have a crap time! Isn’t it amazing – it feeds back into itself! See the same is true for them, they want to feel like they please, that you want *them* over other people. So how do you avoid this cycle?

Assume they love it

You can’t ignore reality for long, and you don’t want to. There is a grey area though, and when you first sleep with someone it is unlikely to be mind blowing because you are new to each other. So avoid this cycle by assuming that they had a good time. Don’t question it, don’t ask, just assume it. As you get to know each other better you will change how you fuck each other till it is amazing, but until then just trust that they like it, and that they like YOU. That is the most important part.

So when you get a new fuck buddy, just trust in yourself. You are awesome in the sack. You are. Trust me.

Consider your angle of approach

EdBennett — Thu, 28 Apr 2016 14:29:26 +0000

28 Apr 2016 - 15:29 | Tags: sex tips, sex advice, better sex guide

There are so many factors to having a great sex life. The most obvious is how much you want the other person. How much you fancy them dictates the amount you will want them, the amount you want their body, and of course the more you want them the better the sex will be. Desire plays a huge part in our happiness. So for example, if you really want a pizza one evening, getting one will make you really happy. If you don’t really fancy a pizza it won’t have that great an effect on how you feel. The same is true for how good the sex is. You really want sex you will have a great time. You really want sex with a particular person for some reason it will have a huge effect on your happiness levels.

So let’s assume that you like the person that you are sleeping with, that you are having a good time with them, that all the other elements are good. Let’s talk about the specifics of the sex technique.

There are many things that you probably take into account in order to make yourself a good lover. You might look after your body and preserve your stamina. Perhaps you do Kegel exercises in order to make sure that you are strong and have muscles developed in places where it matters. You are aware of your own body and how to use it, and the body of your partner. One thing that is sometimes over looked – have you considered your angle of approach?

Let’s talk about the vagina as if you have a woman lying on her back facing up at you, missionary style. The vaginal opening has a top and a bottom. It is a sensitive organ, soft and welcoming when wet, and deliciously seductive. Did you know that the “bottom” of the opening is particularly sensitive and that it can be easily damaged? If you poke quite hard you can easily tear or rip the bottom, and that is going to make sex painful and probably nonexistent for some time.

More than that, the angle of penetration can make a really big difference to how pleasurable it is for the girl that you are with. Missionary position standardly isn’t actually that great an angle. Taking a girl from behind gives a great angle quite naturally and provides a good result without really having to think about it too much. If you want the girl on her back so that you can see her whilst you are fucking her then consider pulling her to the edge of the bed, with you stand on the floor so that you are coming in at a more straight or even upward angle.

The angle can make all the difference and it is such an easy thing to alter, consider playing around with it.

The assumption of sex can be a killer

EdBennett — Wed, 20 Apr 2016 08:26:18 +0000

20 Apr 2016 - 09:26 | Tags: sex advice, sex tips

Sex assumption can completely kill your chances and ability of having amazing sex. I’d like to first paint a picture of where amazing sex happens *without* the assumption in order to better highlight where the assumption of sex can be a killer.

When you first are seeing someone *before* you have had sex for the first time, no matter how clear it is that you are going to sleep together, there is always a little doubt, the possibility that things are going to change and that the sex will not happen. Let’s take a near iron clad example. You meet someone through f-buddy and you have chatted online. You decide to meet in person – and in this case you already know that s/he is up for sex because frankly everyone on this website wants to get laid. You meet in person and you get on great! You fancy them and they fancy you – all good. You talk, have a few drinks, and when you then invite them back to yours for a coffee – they say yes. So you walk through your front door...

...now at this point you can be 99.9% certain that you are getting laid. You met them on a “get sex” website, you fancy each other and s/he has come back to yours for “coffee”. Despite all of this, on some level you do not assume that it is definitely going to happen, there is time for it to change.

Fast forward 6 months, and you are seeing the person regularly, it is still new and exciting. You have slept together multiple times, you are super comfortable with each other, and when you send a booty call text message out, and they respond positively, you *know* that you are getting laid that night. Yet when you meet, the sex is still not assumed. There is still an excitement at having it, attentiveness to the other person that you are having it with. This helps to keep it good.

2 years later and now real assumption has kicked in. You meet, before going to the bedroom you have a bedtime routine, you brush your teeth, set the alarm, you tidy your stuff. You climb into bed with the person next to you... and you so easily could just go to sleep. Perhaps you do sleep with each other or not, but if you do it is just an assumption because you happen to be in the same bed together. The sex takes place out of circumstance, convenience, the logistics make it happen. They are no longer the person you started having sex with, and nor are you.

Watch out for the assumption it will kill your sex life.

Top three fuck buddy Sex Tips

EdBennett — Sun, 28 Feb 2016 19:31:24 +0000

28 Feb 2016 - 19:31 | Tags: summer sex tips, sex tips, sex advice

Lets presume you have already gone through the process of finding your fuck buddy. You got your act together and decided you wanted one. So you wrote a profile, put some pics of you with your best side on the site, and then you took the initiative to contact some people. You messaged more people than you thought you would have to (it is always that way!) and you didn’t want to sleep with the first person you met up with in person. Then you found someone you liked that was on the same wave length and suddenly BAM you are having all the sex. Lets presume you are there! Here are some top fuck buddy sex tips to see you through!

Make a sex bucket list
A lot of us have a life bucket list filled with places to travel and usually a bungee jump or something equally dangerous, so why don’t we do this with sex? If you make a list of the things that you want do, the things that you want to try, that will help to keep the sexual journey moving. As well as it helping the sex for both of you, the best part is you get to do the things that you really want to do! Thinking about it doesn’t work. Write it down and you will find that it is more likely to happen.

Have a secret booty call phrase
In jokes are a great way of building rapport between people, we use them with our friends, family and at work. Developing a personal shared language between two people helps build closeness... so start to do that with your fuck buddy. If you want to text them for a botoy call, rather than say it explicitly, what is much more fun and would bring better results is a shared phrase that you both use. I have spoken to people that have used everything from “you wanna go bowling tonight” through to “I need to borrow a cup of sugar”. Texting this keeps the secret between the two of you (should anyone else read the text message) and will increase excitement between the two of you.

Get Hot and Sweaty for Sex!
When you sweat you smell more – part of that is increased pheromone production. This increased pheromones will mean that your sexual partner will be more attracted to you. You think you ought to shower after a big work out? No! Work out and get your f-buddy to come meet you at the end with a special reward for working out so hard. They will actually enjoy it and be more turned on than you will!

Go forth and fuck.