F Buddy - being alpha

The relationship between money and sex

EdBennett — Tue, 24 Sep 2019 18:24:57 +0000

24 Sep 2019 - 19:24 | Tags: sex and money, the power of kissing, being alpha

When is comes to sex, there has long been a strong relationship between money and sex. We all want to be having sex. Not all of the time, and the regularity with which we want to have sex certainly changes from point to point depending on what life stage we are at. That being said, on a fundamental level, everyone wants to be having some sex. This is why finding a fuck buddy is such a healthy thing to do. When you have sex with a fuck buddy, you are doing them as much of a favour as they are doing you the favour! You both benefit from the joy of sex! I am surprised that more people aren’t hooking up on a regular basis.

When it comes to money, we all want more money. If someone was asked if they wanted to be paid more or if they wanted a raise, I do not know a single person who would say no to that offer. We all have this feeling that more money is better, so we all would seek more money if that was an option.

So we all want more sex and we all want more money. Is there a connection between the two? I believe that the answer is yes. In this article, I will be explaining why the two desires are more closely linked than you might think.

Money is a sign of power and resources. If you have money, you are able to take long holidays, buy the things that you want, and alter the environment around you. You have the ability to change things, that is what money allows you to do. It brings greater choices. Money also removes the stress and worry of not having the basics, things like food and shelter. When we find a sexual partner, that person will often spend their money on you. The more money they have, the more they will be able to spend on you, the better your day to day life becomes.

Thus, if you have more money, there is an argument that you will get laid more easily. You can, without thinking, buy a potential fuck buddy a drink or grab a hotel room without worrying about it. You show that you can do this by wearing expensive clothes, having a costly watch or driving a flash car. All these chattels are just ways of showing people that you have money. Why do you care what other people think? You care because you care about having sex! The real driver behind wanting money is actually driven by the desire to have more sex. That is where it is coming from in reality.

So, if you find yourself trying to get more money when you are not having sex, take a good look at yourself. You probably are looking for ways of having sex, and the best way to do that is to find a fuck buddy! I am not saying your shouldn’t work hard and get more money, but I am saying you should also send a few messages out to some of our fuck buddy members, because when it all comes down to it, they are who you are really looking for.

The main things you are judged on as a man

EdBennett — Fri, 28 Apr 2017 17:46:53 +0000

28 Apr 2017 - 18:46 | Tags: being alpha, being attractive

There are many steps to having lots of sex, many things that any man must do if he wants to get laid a lot. No man is judged on just one aspect of his being. Like a good recipe, and man has many ingredients which come together to make him either attractive or unattractive to members of the opposite (or perhaps even the same) sex. Many of these we already know and we pay attention to.

The physical body

This is the most obvious. Are you good looking or not? Are you in good shape or not? Are you fit and healthy, or do you weigh in at 150kg and have type 2 diabetes? This is something that you can affect and change, so bear it in mind. You don’t have to be Brad Pitt, but it does help if there is nothing obviously wrong with you

Your finances

No matter how much people deny it, if you have good wealth you can buy nice cars, wear good clothes, and afford to wine and dine people into sleeping with you. You can also afford a nice place to take her back to – that always helps! This is not the be all and end all however, so don’t get too hung up about it.

Your confidence

This is a huge factor! If you are shy and timid, it is very hard to get anywhere with women! You may not even have the ability to talk to a woman – and that means you are never going to be able to sleep with one! It is really important to work on this aspect of your personality, to get it up to speed. The more confident you are in yourself and your belief system, the better you will be able to manifest your life into what you want it to be. The affects not just women, but where you live, how you live, what job you have, the friends that you surround yourself with. This is the big one boys, if you work on one aspect it is this.

Your intelligence

This is looked at, but for most people it is small. You don’t have to be smart to get laid, not if you have confidence which makes up for it.

Status / Power

Status and power are intrinsically attractive traits, and if you are a man with power you can be ugly as sin, rude, even an out right bad guy and you will get laid. Look at Donald Trump, the things he says about women and he still gets laid!

So that is the breakdown. If you have to pick one to work on, go confidence every time.

Throwing her against a wall is still sexy

EdBennett — Thu, 20 Apr 2017 18:42:35 +0000

20 Apr 2017 - 19:42 | Tags: being alpha, being attractive, being sexy

When dating there are so many things that you want, but the one thing that remains consistent is that you want to be sexy. When with a fuck buddy there are many tastes and desires you may have, but again the one thing that remains true is that you want to be sexy! This is true on both sides. For the purposes of this article I am going to be talking about a man and a woman, but equally this could be 2 girls or another combination where one basically takes a more dominant role – because between two people no matter where they both sit on the spectrum of dominant to submissive, one person is always more dominant than the other person. Again for the purposes of this exercise I am also going to presume that it is the girl that is the more submissive in the sexual encounter. Why? Well statistically speaking it is far more likely. There are more submissive women in the world than there are dominant women, so this is the most likely set up.

As a man, there is nothing more sexy feeling than really taking a girl. I mean really taking her. Seeing a girl, deciding you want her, then taking her. It is as simple as that. It is the sequence of base instinctual action:

See
Want
Take

It is so powerful, and it makes us feel sexy, I mean really sexy. It puts us in a controlling position, makes us feel like we can bend reality to our will. That feeling fills us with confidence, and this is a self fulfilling prophecy, because the sexier we feel the more attractive we are to another person! So this is just great for the man doing the throwing... and there is no better expression of this than throwing a girl against a wall and kissing her. It is the ultimate see, want, take, and can be deployed in an instant.

The girl loves it even more

The best part is that the girl loves it even more! She becomes the object of that primal desire, the sexy being that is so attractive that you as a man have lost control and just thrown her against a wall because you want her that much. There is nothing sexier, and it is something that remains sexy even now.

So if you haven’t done it in a while, throw a girl against a wall and kiss her. Damn, you will both love it.

Know what you want – don’t be afraid to choose it

EdBennett — Sun, 28 Aug 2016 16:58:47 +0000

28 Aug 2016 - 17:58 | Tags: being attractive, being alpha, getting laid

This article is a relationship management article – it presumes that you already have a girl/boy that is either a long / short term relationship, a fuck buddy, a part timer or even someone you are just starting to date. This advice will not help you find someone – it will however help you get laid / be attractive / keep that person in your life for as long as you want them in your life.

This is about being attractive. No there are many things that will make someone attractive. The obvious one is the way they look, and there are some things you can do about this. Watch what you eat, get some exercise on a regular basis, and develop some fashion sense! Genetics gives you what you have, it is up to you how you present that to the world.

Other things will affect your attractiveness based on the other person – it really does depend on what you are looking for in someone and what they are looking for in you. It is not worth thinking too hard about these elements, focus on finding someone who likes however you are built in this way – not changing those things to meet with the expectations of someone else. So what is the one of the big things that you can do that will keep you attractive to someone of the opposite sex?

Know what you want, and ask for it. Once you are with someone in some capacity, and it really doesn’t matter if you are married or if it is a fuck buddy, the same rule of strength applies. The other person wants to be with someone who knows what they want and goes for it. Someone with some strength, some metal to their character. Now I am not saying you have to be a high flyer business person, I am just saying don’t be a push over. One way to express this is to know what you want, and to ask for it.

If you are going out and you want to have pizza, they ask where do you want to eat, you have 2 choices of response:

I don’t mind – where do you want to go?
I really want pizza. I know a great local place that does the best dough balls as starter, fancy that?

The first one is limp and unattractive. The second one is strong, attractive and the other person will be grateful for being with someone who has an opinion. They will like you more for it, and the best part is you also get to eat what you want – pizza! Bonus, right?

This applies across the board to all sorts of stuff, and in fact in all areas of your life. You aren’t always going to know what you actually want, so you can’t implement it all the time like this, but when you do, ask for it. You get what you want, and the other person will want to fuck you more for it, not less.