F Buddy - how to get laid

Your hotness level matters less with a fuck buddy, not more

EdBennett — Thu, 29 Apr 2021 23:47:26 +0000

30 Apr 2021 - 00:47 | Tags: how to be hot, how to get laid, looks and sex

When it comes to the adult dating world and the selection of a fuck buddy, looks matter. The first thing that we do is look at the other person and wonder to ourselves – do I want to have sex with that person? How we look is the main driving factor for this superficial level of sexual desire and attractiveness. So do looks make a difference? Of course they do! If you are super hot, you are going to have more people who want to sleep with you than if you are not. There are also studies that have shown that we associate attractiveness with people being “better” or “nicer” and this leads more attractive people to having better jobs, earning more money, even getting better interest rates on loans. The list is endless in that respect. However, there is an important distinction to make here, not being hot does not reduce your chances of having sex with a fuck buddy. Allow me to explain.

With a long term relationship, there are so many things that are being considered. Do I want to be with this person long term? Can I have kids with this person? Do I want to love, support and invest in this person? Can I introduce this person to my friends and family? Due to all of this, how the person looks makes a much bigger difference on your choice to sleep with them. With a fuck buddy none of this matters. You are not going to introduce this person to your friends and family, you do not have to love and support them for years to come. You are not going to grow old with them, nor are you going to pass on their genetic seed to any children you may have. This means that when it comes to looks, it is not about being super hot, it is actually more about not being super unattractive!

As long as you are over a certain threshold of looks by that person’s standards, you can have sex. For a lot of people that bar is actually set quite low due to the low investment and pressure of the fuck buddy relationship agreement. During times of sexual drought, that bar is lowered even further.

So if you are not a super model, if you are not a 10/10 and you do not have a 6 pack, don’t worry about it. Nor do the millions of other people that are going to have sex this very day, and it has not gotten in their way! So set aside your fears, get out there and go and get what you want.

Pulling a girl when clubbing

EdBennett — Fri, 12 May 2017 19:10:54 +0000

12 May 2017 - 20:10 | Tags: strip clubs, pulling, how to get laid

If you are out for a night out and you are single, you are probably really up for getting laid on that night out if you can make it happen. I am not saying that it is the focus of your night, I am not saying that you wouldn’t have a good time if you didn’t sleep with someone at the end of it (or even during it for that matter!). What I am saying is that it usually adds to an evening if you get laid whilst out. A good night is a good story, and that always makes it a better story – besides is there any high greater than that of having sex? The very survival of our very species depends on us being addicted to that high! Naturally it is one of the best feelings that we can experience. So if you are on a night out clubbing, how do you pull?

Pub rules are all out

The usual rules of pulling in a pub are all out of the window. Usually in a pub you would make eye contact, go and start a conversation in some way, do a little playful back and forth, a little pushing them away and pulling them in, start touching them on the arm or the lower back more and more until eventually you kiss them. This is a long tried and tested sequence. In a club all of this goes out of the window for one reason – the noise.

The noise kills all other approached

Any approach that you may have had from when you were at a party or in a pub go out the window when you have no way of being heard. Trying to use language or even speaking is just hard work, and the other person has no reason to try and listen to you at that point, they have no idea who you are so there is no reason for them to try and hear you! So give up on this.

Go physical

The only way to pull in a club is to go super physical. Make eye contact strong and early, then confidently more straight in by dancing with them physically, escalate the physical contact quickly, then pull them in and kiss them. Done. There is no other approach that you can take! The noise kills any other option, so don’t even bother trying anything else but this!

Stop procrastinating and come and get laid!

EdBennett — Wed, 28 Sep 2016 19:37:56 +0000

28 Sep 2016 - 20:37 | Tags: how to get sex, how to get laid, getting laid

You want to have sex. You know you want to get laid, and you are super keen on finding someone you can fuck... but you have done nothing about it for some reason. Why? You ask yourself? Well you have all the reasons to hand. You haven’t gotten around to signing up to an online dating site, or you mean to book into a dating event or singles night, but you are going to do it next month rather than this month as you are busy with work. There are a string of quick to quote reasons why you are currently not having sex, but the real reason is simpler. You are procrastinating from taking action. If you are doing this right now, let me talk you through what is going on in your head, because we have all been there and it is time to get out the woods and get laid.

So its been a bit since you had sex, and you decide to be smart and do something about it. No one else can do anything about it for you, you know this, so you are going to sort it out yourself like everyone else has. You go online and make the smart decision to do some online hook ups. SO far you are doing great – meeting someone online is one of the smartest fastest ways to meet someone these days. The systems are great, the girls are hot and actually real, and its worked for a bunch of other people so you know it can also work for you. You make it as far as f-buddy and so far so good, you maybe even set up a profile... but you never get to the stage where you start messaging people, and without this crucial last step you have zero chance of meeting someone. So why not?

The procrastination monkey has come and kicked in. It doesn’t want you to do anything but play and do things that bring instant gratification – things that make you feel good now. It can not see into the future at all. So it distracts you, makes you do other things, tells you that your profile isn’t ready yet, or better to do it next week, or no one ever responds to a message sent on a Friday. It will say anything to keep you from taking action. In other parts of your life like work, you have a deadline to force you to do something. You may take action and do something only just before the deadline looms in a panic, but you take action. With this there is no deadline – and here in lies your issue! There will never be a deadline to get laid.

So recognise this and take action now. The way to get over it is to take a small step. Send one message, one message is all it takes. That becomes 2, then 3 and before you know you have a naked girl in your bedroom bent over in front of you and you are fucking her from behind... but it all starts with a first step. Send a message, stop procrastinating. Do it now.