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How to have amazing sex: Part 3 Their joy is your joy

EdBennett — Fri, 28 Oct 2016 16:08:14 +0000

28 Oct 2016 - 17:08 | Tags: how to have amazing sex, great sex, being better in bed

Welcome to the f-buddy blog, where we make sure that when you find your friend with benefits and you come to fuck them, that you not only fuck them good, you have an amazing time yourself! We understand here at f-buddy that it’s not only about quantity; it’s about quality as well. There is something to be said for having lots of sex with lots of different women, and I am all for it! In fact many people here on this site take that exact approach, with the blessings and encouragement of each of the women that they are sleeping with. We are not anti that at all, and there is no reason you cannot have quantity and quality, as many of the men here stand as evidence that this is all too possible. So how can you make sure that you have not just good sex, but great sex?

In part’s 1 and part 2 we talked about the importance of trying to find the things that are usually around / happening when you have great sex. Once you identify these things, just work to bring them into the mix again each time you go on to have more sex and you are more likely to go from good to great sex pretty quickly. Given that each person is different, it stands to reason that for each person a different thing will make them have great sex. However there are some common things that most people say work for them, and that’s what we cover here. In parts 1 and 2 we spoke about emotion and horniness. Here’s the next step:

Make them come hard – and you will come harder!

The altruistic thing of “your joy is my joy” is a romantic notion that is not really appropriate for the fuck buddy field... or is it? Well here is the thing, it seems that one of the keys to amazing sex for most people is that the other person is having an amazing time. When the other person is really turned on, that makes you in turn more turned on making it better for you. It is also way more than even that! When the other person is really coming hard, and you know that they are going to come hard, that is when you can really relax. That is the moment you can truly and deeply let go of everything and really orgasm yourself. You know that the other person is sorted, that they are having a great time, so that leaves space for YOU to relax and have a great time.

Turn them on, work on making sure they are loving it, and damn you will love it even more as a result.

How to have amazing sex: Part 2 – Horniness

EdBennett — Thu, 20 Oct 2016 17:03:14 +0000

20 Oct 2016 - 18:03 | Tags: how to have amazing sex, great sex, getting good in bed

If you didn’t read part 1 of this series of articles on how to have amazing sex, you can read it by clicking on the link to the article. Welcome back to the f-buddy blog, where we cover all sorts of topics about sex and how to fuck like a porn star so that you can make sure you make the most of your time in bed when you pick up your f-buddy though this website. What’s the point in having found a friend with benefits if you then can’t really enjoy your time together?

We are here talking about ways of making sure you have more of your amazing sex sessions, rather than simply the good sex sessions. In part 1 of this series we spoke about the key being to identify the key elements that appear in all of your great sex sessions. If you can work out what it is that is making your sex great, what seems to always be in the mix when you have the best sex that you can have, you can then try and make sure that these things are around every time that you get laid, thus increasing the amount of times that you have amazing sex! Simple really... well it is simple once you know what it is that really works for you. It is different for everyone, but here we are covering the more common ones, the things that seem to crop up for most people. In the last article we talked about emotion. Let’s crack into another one here in part 2.

Your horniness levels:

If you are a man, you could probably have sex most of the time. I mean no matter where you are or what time of day it is or even night, if a bunch of sexy girls in bikini’s came running in to where ever you are, sat on your lap, stroked your head, generally giggled a lot around you whilst touching you, it wouldn’t take long before you were ready and more than willing to have sex with one or all of them... I would estimate around 40seconds (and only that long because I think that’s how long it would take you to acclimatise to that fact that this is happening and you are not asleep dreaming this whole thing!). So you can have sex almost any time... but are you really turned on? Do your really want it? The same as food to a hungry man tastes better, sex to a super horney man is the same. There are 2 obvious ways of doing this:

Abstain for a time:

This will leave you gaging for it. I would not recommend this as a tactic, but it does work.

Really want to fuck the other person

Fuck someone that you really want to fuck, I mean properly. Don’t pick the girl that you think is easy, pick the girl that makes you really want to rip all her clothes off and put her against a wall there and then, the girl that makes you want to bend her over and take her from behind without any warning what so ever. That is the better approach.

How to have amazing sex: Part 1 – emotion

EdBennett — Tue, 11 Oct 2016 18:59:13 +0000

11 Oct 2016 - 19:59 | Tags: how to have amazing sex, sex is great, great sex, getting good at sex

When we think about sex, we generally think of it in physical terms. You meet someone, you get hard, you start to think that you really want to fuck them... then hopefully you end up fucking them. I mean that’s certainly what generally happens here at f-buddy, because everyone is here for the same thing, they all want to get laid, it generally results in everyone, well, getting laid!

So when people think about the times they have great sex, they remember it being good, but they rarely think about why it was good. What made it really good sex, as opposed to the times when sex was simply just alright, okay, or felling good but not great. This is what I am going to be talking about right now.

So let’s think back to the times that the sex was really good, and I mean better than good, I am talking the times you had great sex. What are the consistent regular factors? What are the elements that are the same every time, the things that are always there... because these are the ingredients that make up great sex for you. They are different for everyone, however there are some really common ones that cross over to many people. So here are some of the common things:

Emotion

This is the biggest one. There was a strong emotion at the time that you had the sex. I say this carefully, because it does not have to be an emotion that is on the theoretical list of “good” emotions. Most people think only “good emotions” build connections, important memories, strong experiences that we crave... actually this is incorrect. It is not good emotions that build it, it is more simply strong emotions. If when you have sex there is a strong emotion of *any* kind, this will make the sex feel stronger – and therefore contribute towards having great sex. For some people this can mean the emotion is “love” or extreme “lust” or any other more positive emotion. However it can equally be angry, pain driven, or even a desire to hurt or whilst feeling hurt by the other person. This is one of the reasons break up sex can be so amazing. The emotions are so high, the strength of feeling is so strong, that the sex is inevitably more likely to be great sex. When the emotion is high, the sex is likely to be better.

Want to know more? Read the other parts of this series of articles on this blog!