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How to be a god in bed – top sex advice for men (part 5)

EdBennett — Fri, 21 Jan 2022 20:41:24 +0000

21 Jan 2022 - 20:41 | Tags: how to be a sex god, British sex advice, sex advice, getting good in bed

Welcome to the fuck buddy website, where we help like minded adults find each other for some no strings attached fun. We have been running a series of sex advice articles aimed at men who want to be a god in bed. When I say god, I do mean “god” and not just “good”. Most sex is already “good” by virtue of the fact that you are having it. The best sex is the sex that you are having right now! Want to take your good, to great and eventually to god? You have come to the right website! Whilst our primary purpose is to help people find a fuck buddy or a no strings attached relationship, we also pride ourselves on helping people stay in those relationships or, at the least, make the most of them when they are happening. One of the ways we can help you do that is by helping you to be better in bed. Following on from our last article on how to be a god in bed, here are some more of our top tips to help you excel when it matters.

Talk dirty to your fuck buddy

It is a simple thing to do yet a daunting one for a lot of people. Talking dirty can take you out of your comfort zone if you are unused to doing it. A lot of people can get quite nervous when trying to talk dirty. We wrote a longer article on dirty talk here which you can read, but in short talking dirty really can lead to bigger and harder orgasms. It can deepen the pleasure, strengthen the bond. If you are not sure where to start, the easiest thing to do is to tell the person what you are going to do to them before you do it. Then tell them what you are doing as you are doing it. The extra engagement verbally can really take things to the next level.

Get a sex toy for her

Stimulating the clitoris is a really important part of bringing a woman to orgasm. If you want to be a sex god then you have to do this. Some women need really strong stimulation and some women need machine levels of stimulation! So get involved and get a sex toy. A small vibrator in a drawer, ready for the right moment, can go a long way.

Get a sex toy for yourself

Gods have a great time in bed themselves. Gods have a great time, so consider getting yourself a sex toy to spice up your own sex life. Show your fuck buddy how to use it. If it makes you come, she will feel all the better for bringing you to orgasm.

Want to be a god in bed? Top sex advice for men (part 4)

EdBennett — Fri, 31 Dec 2021 23:58:23 +0000

31 Dec 2021 - 23:58 | Tags: British sex advice, how to avoid bad sex, getting good in bed

Welcome to the fuck buddy website. Here at the f-buddy website, we not only want to help you meet the perfect hook up, we also want to ensure that when you do meet the perfect person for some casual dating, that you have a great time in bed. Before we start with the advice I think it is helpful to set the context. Everyone can have sex. It is hard wired into us and in my view no one is “bad” at sex. Yes of course we can better at pleasing ourselves and our fuck buddy over time, but I think it is important to remember that the best sex is the sex that you are having right now. The past sex is gone and the future sex is yet to be, so no matter how it “compares” with other times, the sex you are having is always the best! Now that is established, I would like to share some top tips on how to improve things for you and your fuck buddy. As started in our earlier articles on how to be a god in bed, here are some more top tips for men on how to be better in bed.

Begin foreplay outside the bedroom

We often can think that the sex and the foreplay all happen in the bedroom. If you are doing this, you are missing a great opportunity to start your foreplay where it can really begin, which is almost at any time. It can start from when you first get up on the morning with some flirting. It can continue through the day with a well-placed text message or two. It can certainly happen over dinner or what ever activity proceeds making it to the sex venue. So start early so that by the time you make it to the bedroom your fuck buddy is gagging for it.

Use lubricant

If you are not using lubricant, then this is an easy win. Adding this to the mix makes everything smoother and more lush. Popping some on the side of the bed is a really quick way to make the sex better for both of you.

Consider different orgasms

Both men and women can orgasm from ways other than penile penetration. For women this is more widely known, but for men they can also orgasm from stimulation to the prostate. If you have not experimented with this, consider trying it.

Want to be a god in bed? Top sex advice for men (part 3)

EdBennett — Tue, 14 Dec 2021 22:53:56 +0000

14 Dec 2021 - 22:53 | Tags: British sex advice, getting good in bed, sex tips

Welcome to the fuck buddy website. If you are here, it is because you are either looking for a fuck buddy or you have already successfully used this website to find one and you are now looking to up your sex game. Either way, we would be happy to help you! With the number of members having more “medium term” fuck buddies, we thought it would be good to do a series of top sex advice articles on how to be a god in bed for men. The idea is to help you increase the quality and intensity of the sex that you are having. This is most easily achieved when you are sleeping with someone you have slept with before, so the advice in this article and in our previous article on how to be a god in bed are most relevant for those with a friends with benefits set up in place or a fuck buddy they are keen on hooking up with more than once. However, being better in bed is always a good thing, so this is also helpful for pretty much anyone who is having (or looking to have) sex! So with that in mind, here is my bog top tip for this month on how to be a god in bed for men.

Do your sex research with your fuck buddy

Doing some sex research alone is a great way to prepare yourself for sex. It can build confidence and provide some much-needed guidance or advice about the mechanical aspects of having sex. That being said, if you want to have a better time in bed with your fuck buddy, consider doing the research with you fuck buddy! I am not talking about reading boring biology books on anatomy, this can be fun. I am suggesting that you watch some porn together or an adult movie. Perhaps read some erotica to each other, or read some erotic manga, what ever it is that you and your fuck buddy might be into. It is important that you have a conversation with your fuck buddy about what you are into before choosing your “research” method. If one of you isn’t into films, books or comics avoid that as the choice. Once you have chosen the medium doing the “research” together can really heat things up before you go to town on each other.

So get your research done and have fun!

How to be a god in bed – part 2

EdBennett — Tue, 30 Nov 2021 19:09:41 +0000

30 Nov 2021 - 19:09 | Tags: getting good in bed, British sex advice

Welcome to the fuck buddy website, your one stop shop to finding a like minded adult to have a no strings attached relationship with. In a previous article we spoke about how to be good in bed, giving some tips designed for men. We understand here the important of good quality sex. Yes quantity is helpful, but less sex of a higher quality can be a great approach. Having high quality sex takes some effort. You have to want to have better sex and be willing to do something about it. In fact, the effort required is relatively small, every man can be better in bed with just some small changes, but many men do not think about this. Some of this is to do with the abundant access to sex. When you can just more to the next person, you think less about whether the other person is having a good time, focusing more on yourself. This is a mistake. If you want to be having the best sex of your life, you need the other person to also be having the best sex of their life. The sexual experience is a shared one between you and your fuck buddy, so it is really important that you think about both parties. The advantages to better sex go beyond simply increasing the quality… it also increases the quantity as they come back for more. So, think quality first and the quantity will come with time. With that in mind, here are some top tips for men on how to be a god in bed.

Schedule the sex

In all the films that we see, sex often happens spontaneously without any preplanning. Whilst this can happen, more often having a little plan in place is a much better idea. If you put a little planning into it, you can enhance the sexual experience for both of you by ensuring the right time, place and mood for the sex with your fuck buddy. So have a little think about it, and remember, you don’t have to be explicit with your fuck buddy that you are planning the sex. Allow them the plausible deniability and that will increase the pleasure.

Avoid routine

That being said, planning is good but avoid routine. If you have a regular fuck buddy, do not meet and have sex every Thursday evening after meeting at the pub. This will quickly make it feel like it is mundane even if it is not. So mix up the times and the places to keep things for you and your fuck buddy fresh.

Do not underestimate the quickie

When people think about being a god in bed, they often think it takes a long time. Yes taking your time can be helpful, but never forget that a good quickie in the right time and place can be great! The expectations on a quickie are lowered, so actually it can be less intense for both you and your fuck buddy and still feel like great sex. So consider slotting this into your “to-do” list for you and who ever you are hooking up with.

Want to be a god in bed? Top sex advice for men

EdBennett — Thu, 18 Nov 2021 16:46:21 +0000

18 Nov 2021 - 16:46 | Tags: getting good in bed, British sex advice

Everyone wants to be good in bed. Whether they want to be good in bed for themselves, for the other person if they are a pleaser, or both(!) everyone would enjoy being better in bed. For most people, both of these reasons align. If the person you are sleeping with is having a better time, then you are also having a better time, so it really is generally a win-win. On the adult dating circuit this can be even more important. When you have a fuck buddy (or you first pick up a fuck buddy) the focus is on the sex. If you are not good in bed, or if at the least there is no potential for the sex to be good (because we all have our performance stunted on the first time that we sleep with someone new) then that person is not going to want to come back for seconds (or possibly even stick around for seconds that same evening). If the quality of sex improves with time and experience with your partner, it is really important to ensure that you actually have sex multiple times with the fuck buddy you hooked up with for the first time. A good friends with benefits relationship is one that lasts, and that means that the sex is good! So how can you be better in bed? Well, if you are a man look no further. Here are some top tips on how to be a god in bed in the first in our series on sex advice for men.

Yes, use your sexual organs, but also use your mouth

On the face of this it may sound like I am telling you to always go down on your partner. Whilst that is rarely a bad choice, in this case this is not the message. Talk to your fuck buddy. By expressing your desires, what turns you on and turns you off, you will have a better time in bed and they will have a better time for your enhanced engagement and enjoyment. So even the first time you hook up, talk to your fuck buddy.

…that being said, also use your mouth!

It has been shown in studies that women, unlike men, require a greater diversity of sexual stimulation in order to orgasm. Men are simple creatures, women less so. With that in mind, do go down on her and ask her what gets her going. Once she tells you, you will seem like a god for following through on the advice.

Have sex elsewhere than the bedroom

Yes, the bedroom is comfortable and the most obvious place to have sex, but actually you should consider taking it elsewhere. There is an enhanced excitement from taking sex to more unusual places. The science points at increased sex when in other countries or whilst on holiday, but to be honest just sleeping with your fuck buddy in the kitchen or living room is enough. So, get it on elsewhere.

So there are out starting tips. Come back for more advice later in the month.

How to have amazing sex: Part 2 – Horniness

EdBennett — Thu, 20 Oct 2016 17:03:14 +0000

20 Oct 2016 - 18:03 | Tags: how to have amazing sex, great sex, getting good in bed

If you didn’t read part 1 of this series of articles on how to have amazing sex, you can read it by clicking on the link to the article. Welcome back to the f-buddy blog, where we cover all sorts of topics about sex and how to fuck like a porn star so that you can make sure you make the most of your time in bed when you pick up your f-buddy though this website. What’s the point in having found a friend with benefits if you then can’t really enjoy your time together?

We are here talking about ways of making sure you have more of your amazing sex sessions, rather than simply the good sex sessions. In part 1 of this series we spoke about the key being to identify the key elements that appear in all of your great sex sessions. If you can work out what it is that is making your sex great, what seems to always be in the mix when you have the best sex that you can have, you can then try and make sure that these things are around every time that you get laid, thus increasing the amount of times that you have amazing sex! Simple really... well it is simple once you know what it is that really works for you. It is different for everyone, but here we are covering the more common ones, the things that seem to crop up for most people. In the last article we talked about emotion. Let’s crack into another one here in part 2.

Your horniness levels:

If you are a man, you could probably have sex most of the time. I mean no matter where you are or what time of day it is or even night, if a bunch of sexy girls in bikini’s came running in to where ever you are, sat on your lap, stroked your head, generally giggled a lot around you whilst touching you, it wouldn’t take long before you were ready and more than willing to have sex with one or all of them... I would estimate around 40seconds (and only that long because I think that’s how long it would take you to acclimatise to that fact that this is happening and you are not asleep dreaming this whole thing!). So you can have sex almost any time... but are you really turned on? Do your really want it? The same as food to a hungry man tastes better, sex to a super horney man is the same. There are 2 obvious ways of doing this:

Abstain for a time:

This will leave you gaging for it. I would not recommend this as a tactic, but it does work.

Really want to fuck the other person

Fuck someone that you really want to fuck, I mean properly. Don’t pick the girl that you think is easy, pick the girl that makes you really want to rip all her clothes off and put her against a wall there and then, the girl that makes you want to bend her over and take her from behind without any warning what so ever. That is the better approach.